no it's not wrong at all because you can't help who you fall for. it's only a 3 year difference and I know many people in relationships like that....it's especially common if the guy is older but not if the girl is older
help me please:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Do you think its wrong for a senior to like a freshman? Advice, honost opinions.?
No, theres nothing wrong with that.Do you think its wrong for a senior to like a freshman? Advice, honost opinions.?
I don't think so. There are no rules and set of guideline for love and friendship.
Monday, August 23, 2010
Seasonal Pill? Has anyone tried this pill? Can you give me any advice or suggestions?
I was always against it up until my menstruation cycle became out of control. Is this pill safe? Does it work? Is it worth it? Seasonal Pill? Has anyone tried this pill? Can you give me any advice or suggestions?
I wouldn't get the pill. Your body is meant to have periods so that the uterine lining can be purged. I don't think it's worth it. Plus there is always some risks involved such blood clots. I suggest you talk to your doctor before you make your final decisionSeasonal Pill? Has anyone tried this pill? Can you give me any advice or suggestions?
I used it for about 8 months. I didn't get pregnant, however, I stopped taking it because it was making me very depressed and angry--pretty much like I had severe pms all the time. As soon as I was off of it my husband said he could notice a major difference in my personality.
I'm not sure if that happens to everyone or if it just happened to me. I didn't spot very much and my periods are pretty lite and come regularly now, so the depression is the only negative thing I have to share about it.
Good luck! Hope this helps a little!
I didn't like it cause I spotted all the time on it and the risk of a blood clot is so real anymore that condoms are my way of going but then again I am married so if I got pregnant we won't be mad. Hope I helped!
I wouldn't get the pill. Your body is meant to have periods so that the uterine lining can be purged. I don't think it's worth it. Plus there is always some risks involved such blood clots. I suggest you talk to your doctor before you make your final decisionSeasonal Pill? Has anyone tried this pill? Can you give me any advice or suggestions?
I used it for about 8 months. I didn't get pregnant, however, I stopped taking it because it was making me very depressed and angry--pretty much like I had severe pms all the time. As soon as I was off of it my husband said he could notice a major difference in my personality.
I'm not sure if that happens to everyone or if it just happened to me. I didn't spot very much and my periods are pretty lite and come regularly now, so the depression is the only negative thing I have to share about it.
Good luck! Hope this helps a little!
I didn't like it cause I spotted all the time on it and the risk of a blood clot is so real anymore that condoms are my way of going but then again I am married so if I got pregnant we won't be mad. Hope I helped!
Can any of you give me advice on this problem of mine???!!!???
I totally like this guy in my class and he fools around infront of me. He is so cute!! But I don't know if I should tell him or wait for him to say something. In science he is in my table so I get a little nervouse around him. So please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm dying!!!!! Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh!!!!!Can any of you give me advice on this problem of mine???!!!???
Stay calm. You are in the stage where the emotions go wild. Take it easy. Don't go overboard. Otherwise you'll get yourself or somebody hurt.Can any of you give me advice on this problem of mine???!!!???
i know how you feel. i felt the same way you have before. what i would do is tell him that you like him.whats the worst that could happen? its worth the try
good luck =]
you're soooo funny. Well i know it makes you nervous if your cute crush is sitting at the same table.... but be calm... pretend that you don't notice his cuteness, hold on to your breath. Ignore him and maybe he will be challenged and ask you for a date.....
obviously he likes you because hes trying to impress you, though im not sure if he knows that you like him too. so for him too make a move you have to hint that you like him. for example: give him a compliment, or flirt a little,jus say something you dont ordinarily say too a guy friend. after you have done this he will feel more confident on making a first move. if that doesnt work and you really like this guy, then you will have too make the first move. good luckeye blush
Stay calm. You are in the stage where the emotions go wild. Take it easy. Don't go overboard. Otherwise you'll get yourself or somebody hurt.Can any of you give me advice on this problem of mine???!!!???
i know how you feel. i felt the same way you have before. what i would do is tell him that you like him.whats the worst that could happen? its worth the try
good luck =]
you're soooo funny. Well i know it makes you nervous if your cute crush is sitting at the same table.... but be calm... pretend that you don't notice his cuteness, hold on to your breath. Ignore him and maybe he will be challenged and ask you for a date.....
obviously he likes you because hes trying to impress you, though im not sure if he knows that you like him too. so for him too make a move you have to hint that you like him. for example: give him a compliment, or flirt a little,jus say something you dont ordinarily say too a guy friend. after you have done this he will feel more confident on making a first move. if that doesnt work and you really like this guy, then you will have too make the first move. good luck
Do you think all international cricketers should join Y!A and take advice from experts like us?
:)Do you think all international cricketers should join Y!A and take advice from experts like us?
yes,we analyze the performance of players more than what they discuss.So it sounds a good idea.But similarly we can also think about our experts like u joining the cricket team.You are a good leg spinner ,so u can join the team and help them.You can provide help both as a player and also an expert.
All the best !!!
Lol!!Do you think all international cricketers should join Y!A and take advice from experts like us?
I don't think we are expert in cricket just because watching international cricket. Cricket teams have experts for their questions so i don't expect all international players to join YA!. But it wont be bad if some of them come and participate here when they have time. Players could be here like us and discuss cricket but they have no time for it because of the matches they have to play for their country.
Maybe not the cricketers but definitely the selectors.
Only from some of you.
I can't give advice because that is my name.
And this I am sure of; Nobody should take advice from Nalaka 50%
Hahaha yeah I reckon a few have had a bit of a look before.
Better than reading the newspaper lol.
How did you find me? I am Ricky Ponting.......nah jokes.
you never know.....maybe Sachin or Murali is disguised as a user.....
Not on cricket matters anyway
They should ! That would be better for them
they are not deserved to get advice from such a great person like me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ઈ Hell Yeah ઈ
yeah defo!
then i can give a few players a good ear bashing and tell them exactly what i think of them!!
Nice joke.
Yes, and I'll get the best answers like in did in the Brett Lee question :P
ya why not...
But i will take heavy fees from them for this..
no
yes,we analyze the performance of players more than what they discuss.So it sounds a good idea.But similarly we can also think about our experts like u joining the cricket team.You are a good leg spinner ,so u can join the team and help them.You can provide help both as a player and also an expert.
All the best !!!
Lol!!Do you think all international cricketers should join Y!A and take advice from experts like us?
I don't think we are expert in cricket just because watching international cricket. Cricket teams have experts for their questions so i don't expect all international players to join YA!. But it wont be bad if some of them come and participate here when they have time. Players could be here like us and discuss cricket but they have no time for it because of the matches they have to play for their country.
Maybe not the cricketers but definitely the selectors.
Only from some of you.
I can't give advice because that is my name.
And this I am sure of; Nobody should take advice from Nalaka 50%
Hahaha yeah I reckon a few have had a bit of a look before.
Better than reading the newspaper lol.
How did you find me? I am Ricky Ponting.......nah jokes.
you never know.....maybe Sachin or Murali is disguised as a user.....
Not on cricket matters anyway
They should ! That would be better for them
they are not deserved to get advice from such a great person like me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ઈ Hell Yeah ઈ
yeah defo!
then i can give a few players a good ear bashing and tell them exactly what i think of them!!
Nice joke.
Yes, and I'll get the best answers like in did in the Brett Lee question :P
ya why not...
But i will take heavy fees from them for this..
no
Can you give me some advice on how can i motivate myself to strive more in my studies inspite of bein insecurd
study techniques..Can you give me some advice on how can i motivate myself to strive more in my studies inspite of bein insecurd
What is your purpose for your studies? Has this been forgotten? maybe write your goals and remind yourself why this is important to you. Loosing momentum is simply becoming a little foggy with your goals. Remind yourself about how important your goals are to you. If they arnt any more that's OK too, maybe its time to create new ones?????
What is your purpose for your studies? Has this been forgotten? maybe write your goals and remind yourself why this is important to you. Loosing momentum is simply becoming a little foggy with your goals. Remind yourself about how important your goals are to you. If they arnt any more that's OK too, maybe its time to create new ones?????
I need some advice, what would you do?
First off I don't need any rude, vile, prejudice answers and if that's all you have you will be reported! So I'm a guy, almost 24 and I need some advice. What would you do if you were/are a guy and you took numerous tests and surveys and quizzes (One of them being the COGIATI) from transsexual.org, answered with complete honesty and every time you finished the results came out as both ';You Are meant to be a Female'; and ';You are meant to be with men';. would you consider going through full gender reassignment surgery? Should I do this?I need some advice, what would you do?
Diane is absolutely right I agree with her.I need some advice, what would you do?
First of all, as everyone says here, DO NOT rely soley on this test. I took the COGIATI test too, when i was a bit more confused, and it told me I have a strong leaning toward transsexuality, but i decided it was not my path. You need to be in therapy with a good understanding expert in gender identity issues, and you also need to spend some time, a year or more, living as a woman before you even think of surgery. And besides, many transsexuals decide to live female but without the surgery, in other words taking hormones and maybe some cosmetic work but keeping their boy parts. Not as freakish as it sounds. Anyway, those tests are only a start. You obviously have an intense desire to see how it is to be a woman and be loved by men, you can experience this somewhat without drastic surgery. So first of all you really do need the guidance of a good therapist and maybe a support group.
That's a major life altering course of action. I would tell you not to do anything without professional counseling. From what little knowledge I have on the subject, you are required to live as a woman for a year, while taking hormone therapy, before they would even consider gender reassignment. After that if that's what you want to do, go for it. Just remember it is your life and it really doesn't matter what the tests or surveys concluded. They are just fodder for psychoanalist. You have to be the one to decide what is right for you.
And for all you haters out there, I'm not gay. I just don't care if this person is.
You're considering going through gender reassignment because a quiz told you you're meant to be a woman?
What would *I* do? I would follow my heart. Do you feel like you were meant to be a woman? Are you attracted to men? If you're seriously considering gender reassignment surgery, I would suggest connecting with a local support group or touching base with someone who may be able to offer some direct support.
Good explanation of the COGIATI, Diane. It really is an irresponsible resource to even have online for reasons just like this.
First, there is NO (repeat NO) test that can determine if you are a transsexual woman.
Second, you do not need to decide to go through ';full gender reassignment surgery'; to explore your gender issues.
Third, as Diane said, the fact that you are taking tests and asking questions shows you have questions about your gender, and therefore the most intelligent thing to do is see an expert - a GENDER THERAPIST.
Nobody can tell you if you are suffering from transsexualism but you, and a gender therapist is the person who can help you to answer this question honestly.
There is only once piece of personal advice I will offer. Do not wait. Every day that passes is a day you could regret losing if it turns out you are not living the life you should.
With you all the way with the rude answers. I get pissed when I get a rude answer and usually end up fighting back.
I would just do what feels right. I go by quizzes too online, and all end up the same result. When this happens to me, I usually believe it. But I wouldn't go through any drastic measures to change myself incase I regret something. So I would just do what's in your heart.
firstly, u need to make some things clear to yourself. dont rely too heavily on the outcome of these tests,they even tell you that its not scientific or medically based. iv looked at them and i think if any guy who has a heart, common sense and a sense of right and wrong, would answer that, they'd get the same result as you. i made my cousin take that, and guess what? he got the result that he's both male and female.and he's definately male.
so, instead of relying on this, examine yourself! and be honest to yourself, u may want to write it down, to make sense of all the conflicting emotions.
if thats what u want..really want, then thats how it will be! and go ahead with your plans!
good luck, and if u need someone to talk to, im here :)
Are you crazy surgery just to change your gender. Dont belive in the stupid test it's not true. Why risk your life. You can die in the surgery n waste your money on it. If i were you trust me i woudlnt do it but is your choice if you belive in your self dont do it if you dont belive in your self i guess do what ever you want
But a quiz can't tell you who you are or what you should do. If you agree with the results of that quiz maybe you should do that surgery or just like turn gay.
If you don't agree with the results and just ignore it.
How do you feel about the results? Don't just listen to what results tell you. Do what you feel is best. Do you believe you should be a female? Do you fantasize about men? Only you can choose what is best for you.
well. i personally am gay.
but i wouldnt go thru with the surgery if you dont want to.
or if you dont feel its right.
theirs more gay ppl then the lisp talking pink shirt wearing stereotype
(no offence)
just try being gay.
do as you wish don't just do something koz the internet is saying it them tests are not true if you dont like been a boy do it but dint regret it later in life
I agree with Diane 100%
Wow, will regardless of what a test says it is what you feel inside. Do you like guys. or wish you were a girl?
Diane and Erica are correct. Speak with a gender therapist.
Hmm, well dont leave your life in the hands of a survey! Do what you think is right, and what you want. :)
No not yet at least. I suggest u try first dating / sleeping with some girls for a while and see how you feel about that. Then take it from there
No no no no way those people have that there as spam and so everyone who looks they get so much money for everyone who takes the quiz i would never change my body because a test tells you your gay
You serous?? Don't believe anything you read on the internet.. Your old enough to make your own decisions.. But a decision like this will be permanent and you should really think hard about it!!!!
I wouldn't take the advice from what paper says. People are far too complicated to be dissected by simple quizzes. Just follow your heart is all I can say.
If it makes you happy, yea :)
No you might regret it when you get old
no
no
That's kind of drastic considering it's only an online survey. Don't do it unless you really want to.
...if you think you should, then yes. dont let online tests tell you what to do.
If that's what you want..... yea, go for it. But consider the risk of infection and stuff like that
if thats how you want to be and it makes you happy then sure.........but dont let quizzes rule your life
Should you consider transition on the basis of your answers to the COGIATI test (or any other online test, for that matter)?
NO, absolutely not.
This test is not, and is not intended to be, a genuine diagnostic tool; read the disclaimer. It's not scientific; most of the questions are heavily weighted toward stereotypes, and it's very easy to see which answer you're expected to give.
If you present yourself to a gender specialist and tell him that you're sure you're transsexual because the COGIATI says you are, he'll laugh you out of his office (believe me; I mentioned to mine that I had taken this test, and his response was, ';Why didn't you just ask an astrologer?';).
I have several transsexual friends (oddly enough ;-) ) and we've discussed this test frequently; the common consensus is that it has (limited) value NOT for the results it gives, but because you feel the need to take it; i.e. if you weren't already questioning your gender identity, you wouldn't bother with it, whatever result you achieve.
It's rather like tossing a coin to make a decision; once the coin is in the air, you suddenly realise which way you WANT it to fall, and that's the answer you wanted all along, but were too afraid to admit.
What you ought to do is to closely and honestly examine your motives for taking this test; and, if you feel it's necessary, talk to a therapist with experience in gender issues. he or she will be able to help you decide who you really are, how to deal with that, and what, if anything, you need to do about it.
If you don't know where to find such a therapist, you could start searching here;
http://www.drbecky.com/therapists.html
Hope this helps.
Questions like this are always had for another person to answer because we havent been though the same life experiences as you have.
My first question for you would be are you comfortable with who you are and i dont mean just not but for most of your life
There are MANY times in EVERYONE'S life when they don't want to be themselves for a whole host or reasons
Secondly i know this seems mean and most people wouldnt bring it up but what would your friends and family this of you if you went though with this.
I only ask this question because many people need the love and support of there family and friends its human nature to want to be wanted to be accepted would you be able to live with yourself if you lost there respect and love having said that though would you be able to live with yourself if this is who you truly believe you are and dont act upon it.
I guess i havent really helped you here have i :D
but i thought i might outline a few things for you in case you hadent though of them
I personally wouldnt know what to do if it where me im sorry
i need my family and friends am i am the type of person that will sacrifice my own happiness just to keep them with me
Eyes Only
Diane is absolutely right I agree with her.I need some advice, what would you do?
First of all, as everyone says here, DO NOT rely soley on this test. I took the COGIATI test too, when i was a bit more confused, and it told me I have a strong leaning toward transsexuality, but i decided it was not my path. You need to be in therapy with a good understanding expert in gender identity issues, and you also need to spend some time, a year or more, living as a woman before you even think of surgery. And besides, many transsexuals decide to live female but without the surgery, in other words taking hormones and maybe some cosmetic work but keeping their boy parts. Not as freakish as it sounds. Anyway, those tests are only a start. You obviously have an intense desire to see how it is to be a woman and be loved by men, you can experience this somewhat without drastic surgery. So first of all you really do need the guidance of a good therapist and maybe a support group.
That's a major life altering course of action. I would tell you not to do anything without professional counseling. From what little knowledge I have on the subject, you are required to live as a woman for a year, while taking hormone therapy, before they would even consider gender reassignment. After that if that's what you want to do, go for it. Just remember it is your life and it really doesn't matter what the tests or surveys concluded. They are just fodder for psychoanalist. You have to be the one to decide what is right for you.
And for all you haters out there, I'm not gay. I just don't care if this person is.
You're considering going through gender reassignment because a quiz told you you're meant to be a woman?
What would *I* do? I would follow my heart. Do you feel like you were meant to be a woman? Are you attracted to men? If you're seriously considering gender reassignment surgery, I would suggest connecting with a local support group or touching base with someone who may be able to offer some direct support.
Good explanation of the COGIATI, Diane. It really is an irresponsible resource to even have online for reasons just like this.
First, there is NO (repeat NO) test that can determine if you are a transsexual woman.
Second, you do not need to decide to go through ';full gender reassignment surgery'; to explore your gender issues.
Third, as Diane said, the fact that you are taking tests and asking questions shows you have questions about your gender, and therefore the most intelligent thing to do is see an expert - a GENDER THERAPIST.
Nobody can tell you if you are suffering from transsexualism but you, and a gender therapist is the person who can help you to answer this question honestly.
There is only once piece of personal advice I will offer. Do not wait. Every day that passes is a day you could regret losing if it turns out you are not living the life you should.
With you all the way with the rude answers. I get pissed when I get a rude answer and usually end up fighting back.
I would just do what feels right. I go by quizzes too online, and all end up the same result. When this happens to me, I usually believe it. But I wouldn't go through any drastic measures to change myself incase I regret something. So I would just do what's in your heart.
firstly, u need to make some things clear to yourself. dont rely too heavily on the outcome of these tests,they even tell you that its not scientific or medically based. iv looked at them and i think if any guy who has a heart, common sense and a sense of right and wrong, would answer that, they'd get the same result as you. i made my cousin take that, and guess what? he got the result that he's both male and female.and he's definately male.
so, instead of relying on this, examine yourself! and be honest to yourself, u may want to write it down, to make sense of all the conflicting emotions.
if thats what u want..really want, then thats how it will be! and go ahead with your plans!
good luck, and if u need someone to talk to, im here :)
Are you crazy surgery just to change your gender. Dont belive in the stupid test it's not true. Why risk your life. You can die in the surgery n waste your money on it. If i were you trust me i woudlnt do it but is your choice if you belive in your self dont do it if you dont belive in your self i guess do what ever you want
But a quiz can't tell you who you are or what you should do. If you agree with the results of that quiz maybe you should do that surgery or just like turn gay.
If you don't agree with the results and just ignore it.
How do you feel about the results? Don't just listen to what results tell you. Do what you feel is best. Do you believe you should be a female? Do you fantasize about men? Only you can choose what is best for you.
well. i personally am gay.
but i wouldnt go thru with the surgery if you dont want to.
or if you dont feel its right.
theirs more gay ppl then the lisp talking pink shirt wearing stereotype
(no offence)
just try being gay.
do as you wish don't just do something koz the internet is saying it them tests are not true if you dont like been a boy do it but dint regret it later in life
I agree with Diane 100%
Wow, will regardless of what a test says it is what you feel inside. Do you like guys. or wish you were a girl?
Diane and Erica are correct. Speak with a gender therapist.
Hmm, well dont leave your life in the hands of a survey! Do what you think is right, and what you want. :)
No not yet at least. I suggest u try first dating / sleeping with some girls for a while and see how you feel about that. Then take it from there
No no no no way those people have that there as spam and so everyone who looks they get so much money for everyone who takes the quiz i would never change my body because a test tells you your gay
You serous?? Don't believe anything you read on the internet.. Your old enough to make your own decisions.. But a decision like this will be permanent and you should really think hard about it!!!!
I wouldn't take the advice from what paper says. People are far too complicated to be dissected by simple quizzes. Just follow your heart is all I can say.
If it makes you happy, yea :)
No you might regret it when you get old
no
no
That's kind of drastic considering it's only an online survey. Don't do it unless you really want to.
...if you think you should, then yes. dont let online tests tell you what to do.
If that's what you want..... yea, go for it. But consider the risk of infection and stuff like that
if thats how you want to be and it makes you happy then sure.........but dont let quizzes rule your life
Should you consider transition on the basis of your answers to the COGIATI test (or any other online test, for that matter)?
NO, absolutely not.
This test is not, and is not intended to be, a genuine diagnostic tool; read the disclaimer. It's not scientific; most of the questions are heavily weighted toward stereotypes, and it's very easy to see which answer you're expected to give.
If you present yourself to a gender specialist and tell him that you're sure you're transsexual because the COGIATI says you are, he'll laugh you out of his office (believe me; I mentioned to mine that I had taken this test, and his response was, ';Why didn't you just ask an astrologer?';).
I have several transsexual friends (oddly enough ;-) ) and we've discussed this test frequently; the common consensus is that it has (limited) value NOT for the results it gives, but because you feel the need to take it; i.e. if you weren't already questioning your gender identity, you wouldn't bother with it, whatever result you achieve.
It's rather like tossing a coin to make a decision; once the coin is in the air, you suddenly realise which way you WANT it to fall, and that's the answer you wanted all along, but were too afraid to admit.
What you ought to do is to closely and honestly examine your motives for taking this test; and, if you feel it's necessary, talk to a therapist with experience in gender issues. he or she will be able to help you decide who you really are, how to deal with that, and what, if anything, you need to do about it.
If you don't know where to find such a therapist, you could start searching here;
http://www.drbecky.com/therapists.html
Hope this helps.
Questions like this are always had for another person to answer because we havent been though the same life experiences as you have.
My first question for you would be are you comfortable with who you are and i dont mean just not but for most of your life
There are MANY times in EVERYONE'S life when they don't want to be themselves for a whole host or reasons
Secondly i know this seems mean and most people wouldnt bring it up but what would your friends and family this of you if you went though with this.
I only ask this question because many people need the love and support of there family and friends its human nature to want to be wanted to be accepted would you be able to live with yourself if you lost there respect and love having said that though would you be able to live with yourself if this is who you truly believe you are and dont act upon it.
I guess i havent really helped you here have i :D
but i thought i might outline a few things for you in case you hadent though of them
I personally wouldnt know what to do if it where me im sorry
i need my family and friends am i am the type of person that will sacrifice my own happiness just to keep them with me
Eyes Only
Alright I need advice on what you think is going on my situation about this guy?
So me %26amp; that guy I always brag about broke up. I've been keeping myself busy %26amp; it so happens that before I wasted 2 years of my life I had all guy friends basically. I started hanging out with them again. Last week Thursday some New guy rolled up at my friends house %26amp; I was tripping out because I knew him from a few years ago. He put his # in my phone %26amp; he would flirt w/me writing little messages %26amp; I was cool about it, didn't think nothng about it. We hung out Friday night, and we hung out saturday night w/his friend who lives w/him, we ended up going to their friends house %26amp; just chilled played kings cup. The thing is, the thing is this guy is weird %26amp; confuses the shet out of me. He called me alot of times Monday night my phone wa sin my car, I was going to leave my friend a comment %26amp; I see he commented him after he saw my comment earlier that day he wrote ';hey i got the house to myself we need some bitches over';. Really though? The next day I guess he wanted me to come over. We were at my friends house %26amp; he sent me a little message again saying he missed me %26amp; I said '; Lies '; He got super pissed %26amp; when we were leaving he's all I have a date tonight to his friend. His friends told me to not trip because he suffers from manic depression %26amp; has like 20 personalities. He's a little player though he's had sex with about 19 girls, %26amp; I told him im looking for commitment trust and someone to just chill with. I dont know he's so confusing. My friend Bj told me he's just so use to girls kissing his *** and i'm not about to do that shet. What do you think I should do?Alright I need advice on what you think is going on my situation about this guy?
open your mind and go with the flowAlright I need advice on what you think is going on my situation about this guy?
now look ur mind up do you like him or not ? this little player **** is just that ......DO YOU LIKE HIM OR NOT ? thats all that matters
open your mind and go with the flowAlright I need advice on what you think is going on my situation about this guy?
now look ur mind up do you like him or not ? this little player **** is just that ......DO YOU LIKE HIM OR NOT ? thats all that matters
Look, I need advice, help, anything you got.?
I just moved to another country where everyone speaks a different language and I have no friends or connections. I left behind my girlfriend, and my whole life for the sake of my family. The time difference just cuts me off from talking to people back home. I spend most of my time taking care of my brothers while my parents are away. And my relationship with my parents is distant. They don't think too much of me. I end up spending most of my days reading or jogging in parks at odd hours. I feel so lonely and lost. Like everything I've done is meaningless. What can I do?Look, I need advice, help, anything you got.?
move back home to gf and make your life better or loojk up world time get your life BACK but keep reading good for ur brain pleaz give me best awnserLook, I need advice, help, anything you got.?
pray to God and know he will eventually make things ok...
i am moving to a new state soon..so i will go through almost a similar situation
My heart is with you, I can fully understand you.
Try to keep good relationship with your parents, they might had to do it for some reason, maybe they didn’t have the choice, think of them too and by keeping good relationship with them it will keep the family together, and that’s the main thing all of you need right now at this new place.
As for you; try to be positive, don’t think of what you left beyond, it is done and at the moment there is not much you can do about it, and looking back and feeling bad will only drag your emotion down. Look forward, look at it as an opportunity to start something new in your life, new language, new friends, new adventures.
Sometimes life put us in a different situation where we were not expecting to be, and when it does, always look at it as another lesson in life, think “how to get the best out of this”.
I wish you all the best in your new adventure, be strong.
Write a letter to your parents. Say exactly what you have said here. Tell them you are writing to them because it is the only way they will pay attention to anything you have to say.
Tell them you are totally fed up with the situation and ask them to just take a little while out of their busy busy lives to sit down and talk with you. You do have a right to a family life too, and what they are doing is simple neglect.
same has happened with me dude I also have left my girlfriend back in my country and time really differs to contact them but I have my family with me. What I can say is you adjust the time difference like I have done everything will normalize. Good Luck
ummm well sounds like you should come back home if that is an option other than that i really don't know what you could do unless you try learning the language and finding new friends. good luck!
First I would mend the fence between you and your parents and start talking with them not to them. This will make a big difference. I take it your family was relocated and you didn't want to go so you have to understand the why behind the move and make the best of it. If they are both working, then on the days off see if you can't get them to have a set family day of activities. Touring the new country would help you get to know it. Write letters to your girlfriend, as that is the best way to get things off your chest. Start a diary, and put feelings in that as well. All this will help with your distance from ';home';. You will make new friends if you give yourself the chance, and be more open with the good feelings, and not negative. Smile and make the best of it, and the time will pass before you know it.
Listen if you are over 18 you know you can move back to your old home. if that doesn't workout try hanging in there and learning the new language and making neww friends. if you still don't like that talk to your parents, maybe you can work something out. We all make sacrifices for our families that we don't like and it takes a big toll on us. And there must be a reason the asked you to move away from everything. just hang in there. things will get better.
Go to some social places and try to interact with other people.
well ur going to have to talk to ur parents tell them how u feel maybe its not gunna change their minds about going back to where u live but it will open their eyes and make them realize that they are not paying attenton to you... and dont feel sad soon enough u will make friends believe me that happened to me once but then everything was ok just dont think to much on the situation...
You might want to consider moving back home. Or maybe try learning the local language and then you could get involved with the comunity more. However, I am sure your brother loves, and appreciates you being around. Try comunicating more with your friends back home via email, that would tae care og the time difference.
Learn the language. Make new friends. Begin to think of this as less of a curse and more of an opportunity.
Many people would love to have the opportunity to visit/live in another country. It will expand your knowledge if you allow it. You will be more mature, experienced, traveled than the average person. You will be bi-linqual.
When given lemons, figure out how to make lemonade out of them.
';Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight.'; Proverbs 3:5-6
Start reading the Bible and pray. You cannot be lonely with God as the keeper of your heart. Jesus loves you!
God Bless!
how old are you? you could try learning the language and making friends there. I've traveled a lot and find that people in different countries are generally the same as our selves, so once you get past the language barrier it's easy to make friends.
How old are you? Maybe you should move back...if that's a possiblility...
This is what I would do instead of jogging read but try to read the other language then you could talk to other people and make friends
Try to find other people that speak english. spend quality time with your fam. sight see. and become closer to your parents.
UMM DO YOUR PARENTS SPEAK ENGLISH...UM MAYBE U SHOULD GO BACK TO UR GIRLFRIEND I MEAN WHY THROW AWAY ALL THE GOOD THINGS IN YOUR LIFE AND REPLACE IT WITH PEOPLE WHO DON'T SEEM BE OF ANY COMPANY...
hiya, ok firstly is sounds like ur really unhappy..so ask yourself the question...';have you done the right thing by moving?';
I mean it sounds like u left a lot behind..your friends, a girlfriend who u could of had a future with...and 4 what? parents that you arent even close to?
if you want my advice..i think u should move back and be happy...your parents carnt rely on u 4ever and youve got to be able to lead ur own life....good luck. jess
Maybe you should talk to your parents about how you feel. Or, talk to someone about what you feel. Good Luck. And sorry that you had to move.
This is your time to find out who you are, all by yourself. Read more introspective or spiritual things for guidance. Nurture your brothers. Set an example for them on how to be emotionally mature and self-sufficient. Talk to people by email, like you are doing through Answers. Finally, learn the language of the country you are now living in and start to get to know the people around you. Nothing you have done, are doing and will do in the future is meaningless. Everything in life is a lesson; everything we go through brings us growth, if we are open to the lesson.
You now have a choice. You can wallow in self-pity or you can embrace your new adventure.
*Talk to your parents and try to get in closer with them.
*Figure out the time difference so you can call home.
* Take a langage so that you can actually communicate with other people.
Im really sory that this has happened to you, but you need to step up. when your in the park try to make new friends, stand out. Try to write in a diary, and put it in a safe place to right all your emotions out. When someone speaks a different language TRY to connect with them, its the only way. it seem's like you have alot of spare time why not try to learn their language. Show them the real you and have fun.
Hope it helped **
move back home to gf and make your life better or loojk up world time get your life BACK but keep reading good for ur brain pleaz give me best awnserLook, I need advice, help, anything you got.?
pray to God and know he will eventually make things ok...
i am moving to a new state soon..so i will go through almost a similar situation
My heart is with you, I can fully understand you.
Try to keep good relationship with your parents, they might had to do it for some reason, maybe they didn’t have the choice, think of them too and by keeping good relationship with them it will keep the family together, and that’s the main thing all of you need right now at this new place.
As for you; try to be positive, don’t think of what you left beyond, it is done and at the moment there is not much you can do about it, and looking back and feeling bad will only drag your emotion down. Look forward, look at it as an opportunity to start something new in your life, new language, new friends, new adventures.
Sometimes life put us in a different situation where we were not expecting to be, and when it does, always look at it as another lesson in life, think “how to get the best out of this”.
I wish you all the best in your new adventure, be strong.
Write a letter to your parents. Say exactly what you have said here. Tell them you are writing to them because it is the only way they will pay attention to anything you have to say.
Tell them you are totally fed up with the situation and ask them to just take a little while out of their busy busy lives to sit down and talk with you. You do have a right to a family life too, and what they are doing is simple neglect.
same has happened with me dude I also have left my girlfriend back in my country and time really differs to contact them but I have my family with me. What I can say is you adjust the time difference like I have done everything will normalize. Good Luck
ummm well sounds like you should come back home if that is an option other than that i really don't know what you could do unless you try learning the language and finding new friends. good luck!
First I would mend the fence between you and your parents and start talking with them not to them. This will make a big difference. I take it your family was relocated and you didn't want to go so you have to understand the why behind the move and make the best of it. If they are both working, then on the days off see if you can't get them to have a set family day of activities. Touring the new country would help you get to know it. Write letters to your girlfriend, as that is the best way to get things off your chest. Start a diary, and put feelings in that as well. All this will help with your distance from ';home';. You will make new friends if you give yourself the chance, and be more open with the good feelings, and not negative. Smile and make the best of it, and the time will pass before you know it.
Listen if you are over 18 you know you can move back to your old home. if that doesn't workout try hanging in there and learning the new language and making neww friends. if you still don't like that talk to your parents, maybe you can work something out. We all make sacrifices for our families that we don't like and it takes a big toll on us. And there must be a reason the asked you to move away from everything. just hang in there. things will get better.
Go to some social places and try to interact with other people.
well ur going to have to talk to ur parents tell them how u feel maybe its not gunna change their minds about going back to where u live but it will open their eyes and make them realize that they are not paying attenton to you... and dont feel sad soon enough u will make friends believe me that happened to me once but then everything was ok just dont think to much on the situation...
You might want to consider moving back home. Or maybe try learning the local language and then you could get involved with the comunity more. However, I am sure your brother loves, and appreciates you being around. Try comunicating more with your friends back home via email, that would tae care og the time difference.
Learn the language. Make new friends. Begin to think of this as less of a curse and more of an opportunity.
Many people would love to have the opportunity to visit/live in another country. It will expand your knowledge if you allow it. You will be more mature, experienced, traveled than the average person. You will be bi-linqual.
When given lemons, figure out how to make lemonade out of them.
';Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him and he will make your paths straight.'; Proverbs 3:5-6
Start reading the Bible and pray. You cannot be lonely with God as the keeper of your heart. Jesus loves you!
God Bless!
how old are you? you could try learning the language and making friends there. I've traveled a lot and find that people in different countries are generally the same as our selves, so once you get past the language barrier it's easy to make friends.
How old are you? Maybe you should move back...if that's a possiblility...
This is what I would do instead of jogging read but try to read the other language then you could talk to other people and make friends
Try to find other people that speak english. spend quality time with your fam. sight see. and become closer to your parents.
UMM DO YOUR PARENTS SPEAK ENGLISH...UM MAYBE U SHOULD GO BACK TO UR GIRLFRIEND I MEAN WHY THROW AWAY ALL THE GOOD THINGS IN YOUR LIFE AND REPLACE IT WITH PEOPLE WHO DON'T SEEM BE OF ANY COMPANY...
hiya, ok firstly is sounds like ur really unhappy..so ask yourself the question...';have you done the right thing by moving?';
I mean it sounds like u left a lot behind..your friends, a girlfriend who u could of had a future with...and 4 what? parents that you arent even close to?
if you want my advice..i think u should move back and be happy...your parents carnt rely on u 4ever and youve got to be able to lead ur own life....good luck. jess
Maybe you should talk to your parents about how you feel. Or, talk to someone about what you feel. Good Luck. And sorry that you had to move.
This is your time to find out who you are, all by yourself. Read more introspective or spiritual things for guidance. Nurture your brothers. Set an example for them on how to be emotionally mature and self-sufficient. Talk to people by email, like you are doing through Answers. Finally, learn the language of the country you are now living in and start to get to know the people around you. Nothing you have done, are doing and will do in the future is meaningless. Everything in life is a lesson; everything we go through brings us growth, if we are open to the lesson.
You now have a choice. You can wallow in self-pity or you can embrace your new adventure.
*Talk to your parents and try to get in closer with them.
*Figure out the time difference so you can call home.
* Take a langage so that you can actually communicate with other people.
Im really sory that this has happened to you, but you need to step up. when your in the park try to make new friends, stand out. Try to write in a diary, and put it in a safe place to right all your emotions out. When someone speaks a different language TRY to connect with them, its the only way. it seem's like you have alot of spare time why not try to learn their language. Show them the real you and have fun.
Hope it helped **
I need some advice. Read if you have the patience?
Okay so a few months ago i stopped contacting my boyfriend and decided it was time to call it quits...we were together for a year and a half and even after we broke up we remained friends and we would talk and he'd text me all the time and want to see me...i recently found out that he has a new girlfriend (he didnt tell me) and even though he has a gf he would still try to talk to me....so i told him to stop because its the only way that i can move on since i loved him so much...now that i havent heard from him in 2 months i miss him already...i dont know what to do...has this ever happened to anybody?? they cut contact with an ex to move on but yet they miss them so much?? do you think he misses me?? need adviceI need some advice. Read if you have the patience?
This happens to everyone. Yes, he misses some things about you, but has obviously moved on, which is something you need to do, as well.I need some advice. Read if you have the patience?
i think it'll be better for you to stop thinking about whether he misses you or not because i think it will hurt you more...
i know this is easy to be say than to be done, but you have to move on with your life and let bygone be bygone... try to occupy your time with activities and be around friends since this surely can avoid you from thinking about him..
im sure by time you'll be fine..you're just going through the heart-mending moment right now...
try to be happy, do things that you likes and try not to think about him.. good luck=)
I was in the same situation. I was in a three year relationship, but after the three years were over, we kinda lost the spark and broke up. But that didn't mean that i wanted to do away with my boyfriend and never talk to him again, i still missed him, and i still do miss the things we had done together, it's just a natural thing that happens, everyone misses the person they break up with because they just shifted everything they have lived by, and it's different... they have gotten use to the old life. But believe me, i think he is just trying to move on, and you should to... as soon as you find another person that treats you ten times better which will definately happen, you will forget about the stuff you miss with your ex.eye blush
This happens to everyone. Yes, he misses some things about you, but has obviously moved on, which is something you need to do, as well.I need some advice. Read if you have the patience?
i think it'll be better for you to stop thinking about whether he misses you or not because i think it will hurt you more...
i know this is easy to be say than to be done, but you have to move on with your life and let bygone be bygone... try to occupy your time with activities and be around friends since this surely can avoid you from thinking about him..
im sure by time you'll be fine..you're just going through the heart-mending moment right now...
try to be happy, do things that you likes and try not to think about him.. good luck=)
I was in the same situation. I was in a three year relationship, but after the three years were over, we kinda lost the spark and broke up. But that didn't mean that i wanted to do away with my boyfriend and never talk to him again, i still missed him, and i still do miss the things we had done together, it's just a natural thing that happens, everyone misses the person they break up with because they just shifted everything they have lived by, and it's different... they have gotten use to the old life. But believe me, i think he is just trying to move on, and you should to... as soon as you find another person that treats you ten times better which will definately happen, you will forget about the stuff you miss with your ex.
I need some advice what do you think? men and women?
I have been having what I would call a friends with benefits relationship with a guy that I have known for many years. We only a year ago started sleeping together and it is not a regular thing. He was living with his baby momma and he told me he wanted a relationship with me but given his track record I declined. I really care about him, so one day we were talking and he told me that he had some strong feelings for me being the person that I am I brushed it off and kinda laughed at him. I don't want him to know my true feelings so I always keep this guard up so I won't get hurt. I never call or initiate anything he always does the calling texting or inviting to whatever. I am playing this thing right or should let him know my true feelings?? Please help I am dying on the inside.I need some advice what do you think? men and women?
slutI need some advice what do you think? men and women?
Lady!! This is the high time that you must tell about your true feelings to him because time never waits for anyone and once it slips off your hands then you have nothing else to do rather then regretting on what happened. Better to listen your heart and do what you feel and I bet that if you are true from your side then whatever you would do would be the right thing. Truth always wins!! Good Luck
If you like him, i think you should tell him
its always better to see what would happen instead of thinking what actually couldve happened.
Take chances, and people get hurt all the time, but that's how we learn.
and we make better choices from then, we learn from it.
but on this situation, i think you should go for him (:
let it all out, life is about taking risks.
Let him know or he'll move on.
You should tell him your true feelings very soon.
If you don't, then he might find out another way.
Good Luck.
omg girl you r so messed up i agree that is rillly slutty
slutI need some advice what do you think? men and women?
Lady!! This is the high time that you must tell about your true feelings to him because time never waits for anyone and once it slips off your hands then you have nothing else to do rather then regretting on what happened. Better to listen your heart and do what you feel and I bet that if you are true from your side then whatever you would do would be the right thing. Truth always wins!! Good Luck
If you like him, i think you should tell him
its always better to see what would happen instead of thinking what actually couldve happened.
Take chances, and people get hurt all the time, but that's how we learn.
and we make better choices from then, we learn from it.
but on this situation, i think you should go for him (:
let it all out, life is about taking risks.
Let him know or he'll move on.
You should tell him your true feelings very soon.
If you don't, then he might find out another way.
Good Luck.
omg girl you r so messed up i agree that is rillly slutty
I need some advice. Read if you'd like to help?
Some of you might be in the same situation. I'm 16 and my family is middle class. I'm very thankful for what we have. But a lot of my friends are high class and get everything they want. My friend just turned 16 and got a brand new jeep. I'm 16 and I don't have my car yet. My parents told me that money is tight and I need to save up for it myself. I'm applying at places and had an interview yesterday. It just feels like money is an issue and it hurts because I have to work. My friends get everything handed to them. They'll probably get to go to a really good college while i'm going to have to work hard for it. Sometimes I just feel like giving up. Know what i mean? :(I need some advice. Read if you'd like to help?
Its take time to get what you want especially you dont have enough money
I have that problem too My mum wouldnt buy me a cellphone and my classmate have nice cellphones But my mum said money is hard to find you cant find money everywhere, you cant just get money in street but lucky if you find them...
You can get wat you want if you focused on your study and get job a professional job you can buy what ever you want....
I HOPE IT HELPSI need some advice. Read if you'd like to help?
youre going to end up having a better life than them
because everything is handed to them on a silver platter they're going to always expect everything to be handed to them on a silver platter
as for you, you will already be used to working for what you want
yeah, as soon as your friends graduate from college they're going to realize that life isn't something that get's handed to you.
you sound like a great person. keep at that.
Just remember, others have it waaayyyyy worse! :D
wow your a poor *****.
The only place where work is after success is in the dictonary...
I hate to break it to you, but you kinda sound spoiled and self-centered in that
Its take time to get what you want especially you dont have enough money
I have that problem too My mum wouldnt buy me a cellphone and my classmate have nice cellphones But my mum said money is hard to find you cant find money everywhere, you cant just get money in street but lucky if you find them...
You can get wat you want if you focused on your study and get job a professional job you can buy what ever you want....
I HOPE IT HELPSI need some advice. Read if you'd like to help?
youre going to end up having a better life than them
because everything is handed to them on a silver platter they're going to always expect everything to be handed to them on a silver platter
as for you, you will already be used to working for what you want
yeah, as soon as your friends graduate from college they're going to realize that life isn't something that get's handed to you.
you sound like a great person. keep at that.
Just remember, others have it waaayyyyy worse! :D
wow your a poor *****.
The only place where work is after success is in the dictonary...
I hate to break it to you, but you kinda sound spoiled and self-centered in that
Can I get advice? What would you do?
I am currently working in a supermarket, where I have only been there 2 months. Prior to working there I was working for the same supermarket in a different location, for over 2 years, where I used to love it.
However this new location is not going well for me.. I hate it... in fact.. I despise it, the only real reason i took the transfer was to stay in a job due to the current economical climate in the UK still being in recession, but I can't take it anymore.... I have studied at university and graduated... With transfering to this new store... I had to sign a new contract, can't transfer to another store or back to my old one, as I've just got there... It's payday soon (2 weeks) so I was don't know whether I should just stop going when i get paid? or stop going from now on? I'm still in the training/probation period.. so i can't really resign, and I don't think i can get a reference that early on anyway...
Any advice?
Much Appreciated! :DCan I get advice? What would you do?
If you left you will get no JSA or income support and you know how bad unemployment is in the UK, about 300 people applying for each job, if you were interviewing and you had 2 people, 1 was currently working and 2 was unemployed because they hated their last job? which one would you employ? No 2 might not like this job and leave after a few weeks but No 1 will last long term? Give a lot of thought before you leave your job.Can I get advice? What would you do?
You do not say what your job title is or what your job entails or indeed what was your job you loved when you were in the previous store.
Since you have a degree I am certain that you are not a shelf stacker, so this implies you have a job with responsibility and accountability.
So either the new job is larger than your previous one and you still need to adapt to the job and your new surroundings or ( and maybe both) you may not get on with your new line manager or one of the stores management team resulting in you feeling rather low and depressed and to add to this is the fact that moving from one smaller store where everyone get on to a much larger store where new employees can often feel lonely it is understandable and If this is the case go to your Doctor do not leave.
However the way you have written this question makes me think if you do not leave on your own back then you may suffer at the store.
Dont leave, look for another job, if needed go to your doctor, speak to HR about your options.
why stay in a job that you hate. this is unhealthy. but as so many others have pointed out to you with the way that the economy is secure another job first.this way you will have an income . try to hang on as long as possible. remember new jobs are like new schools you did not like it at first but when you was there for awhile and got to know people everything came together
If you leave what are you going to live on. You won't get JSA if you resign. We have all had to do jobs we hate. Just start looking for another one.
Give your notice and quit. With your background and degree hopefully you could find a job soon. Best of luck to you
I hated my job for over 40 years....my boss was a real @ss.......and made life difficult for everyone.......well that @astard died last summer and I'm living on the beach without a care in the world.......retirement is sweet................
Due to economical situation, it would be in your interest to stick to your present job. Mean while look for a new job. Something will surely turn up. Have patience. You are frustrated and not happy with your present job, but if you quit now indirectly you will be spoiling your record. ';Slow and steady wins the race.';
';Our real blessings often appear to us in the shape of pains, losses and disappointments; but let us have patience and we soon shall see them in their proper figures.'; - Joseph Addison
However this new location is not going well for me.. I hate it... in fact.. I despise it, the only real reason i took the transfer was to stay in a job due to the current economical climate in the UK still being in recession, but I can't take it anymore.... I have studied at university and graduated... With transfering to this new store... I had to sign a new contract, can't transfer to another store or back to my old one, as I've just got there... It's payday soon (2 weeks) so I was don't know whether I should just stop going when i get paid? or stop going from now on? I'm still in the training/probation period.. so i can't really resign, and I don't think i can get a reference that early on anyway...
Any advice?
Much Appreciated! :DCan I get advice? What would you do?
If you left you will get no JSA or income support and you know how bad unemployment is in the UK, about 300 people applying for each job, if you were interviewing and you had 2 people, 1 was currently working and 2 was unemployed because they hated their last job? which one would you employ? No 2 might not like this job and leave after a few weeks but No 1 will last long term? Give a lot of thought before you leave your job.Can I get advice? What would you do?
You do not say what your job title is or what your job entails or indeed what was your job you loved when you were in the previous store.
Since you have a degree I am certain that you are not a shelf stacker, so this implies you have a job with responsibility and accountability.
So either the new job is larger than your previous one and you still need to adapt to the job and your new surroundings or ( and maybe both) you may not get on with your new line manager or one of the stores management team resulting in you feeling rather low and depressed and to add to this is the fact that moving from one smaller store where everyone get on to a much larger store where new employees can often feel lonely it is understandable and If this is the case go to your Doctor do not leave.
However the way you have written this question makes me think if you do not leave on your own back then you may suffer at the store.
Dont leave, look for another job, if needed go to your doctor, speak to HR about your options.
why stay in a job that you hate. this is unhealthy. but as so many others have pointed out to you with the way that the economy is secure another job first.this way you will have an income . try to hang on as long as possible. remember new jobs are like new schools you did not like it at first but when you was there for awhile and got to know people everything came together
If you leave what are you going to live on. You won't get JSA if you resign. We have all had to do jobs we hate. Just start looking for another one.
Give your notice and quit. With your background and degree hopefully you could find a job soon. Best of luck to you
I hated my job for over 40 years....my boss was a real @ss.......and made life difficult for everyone.......well that @astard died last summer and I'm living on the beach without a care in the world.......retirement is sweet................
Due to economical situation, it would be in your interest to stick to your present job. Mean while look for a new job. Something will surely turn up. Have patience. You are frustrated and not happy with your present job, but if you quit now indirectly you will be spoiling your record. ';Slow and steady wins the race.';
';Our real blessings often appear to us in the shape of pains, losses and disappointments; but let us have patience and we soon shall see them in their proper figures.'; - Joseph Addison
Do you happen to know of any advice type blogs? ?
I'm looking for those that you ask questions and the blogger offers his or her opinion. Or just an opinionated blog. (if that makes sense). Is there such a type of blog out there? Or if you know of a similiar site, I'd appreciate that as well. TiaDo you happen to know of any advice type blogs? ?
yupp.. http://www.dailyblogtips.com... U can post your question in the comment box and daniel usually answers them on sundays..
yupp.. http://www.dailyblogtips.com... U can post your question in the comment box and daniel usually answers them on sundays..
Lifes Lessons...advice on what you've done well, would do different...
I'm an elementary school teacher and I'm trying something new this year. I want to have a 15 min. block each day to teach life lessons where I give advice or share stories etc. that will help them succeed in life. Things you don't normally learn in school like explaining what college is like, how to take notes, looking back on my life I would've liked to play an instrument etc. I only have about a month worth of ideas. Could you help and share anything you wish you had learned when younger, things you regret doing and would change, or something you started doing that changed your life or helped you succeed. Remember this is upper elementary so please be appropriate.
Lifes Lessons...advice on what you've done well, would do different...
How old are these kids? Since I've seen words like shock and angry parents and whatnot, I'm wondering if you could have some sort of container that the students could put questions in. You could explain what types of questions would or would not be appropriate then when it's time for that particular lesson, draw one out and address it. That would also give the more shy kids an opportunity to ask their questions because no on would know who had asked which question.
Good Luck =)Lifes Lessons...advice on what you've done well, would do different...
You might want to make it a once-a-week thing, that way, you have time to come up with something good, and the kids have something to look forward to on a given day of the week.
I am 17 at the end of this month, going into my senior year in September. Advice I could give to those kids?
-Always be yourself
-Don't drink, do drugs, or have sex in high school. It only causes more problems on top of the lot you'll likely already have
-Get involved. You'll hear it a million times going into high school, but find activites that you really enjoy. I got involved in yearbook and theatre, and now they are my favorite things. I didn;t get into them until me junior year of high school, so its never too late.
-You have to respect and love yourself completely before you can expect anyone else to
-Never have any regrets. Things always develop into what you have now, and theres probably some part of it thats good. Change is a good thing, mistakes are good things, as long as you learn from them
-If you think you are in love in high shool, and want to have sex to show that love- don't. It shows more love to respect yourself and the other person and keep your...';urges'; in check.
If I think of more I'll add them later. Talk about Puberty and Sex. Kids that age will love hearing about it, even if it is a lecture.
To work with the End in mind. ow do you want o be remembered by your loved ones? Don't you want them to be able to say good things about you, such as you were a great friend who was always there, A caring daughter, loving sis, hard worker etc?
-When it comes to school I noticed a lot of students have an attitude that what they're learning will not apply to ''the real world';. Little do they know, having a good GPA, volunteer work and being in clubs (school clubs) will really make a difference when applying for a job.
-FINANCE! A lot of adults are suffering right now because they weren't educated about finance early on. It can really make or break your life. they need to realize how important it is to save, to get a job with benefits, to get insurance of all kinds (home,car,etc.) and to be mindful of debts. Too many families are suffering because they are unprepared.
-It's important to get to know yourself the best you can. Develop a relationship with yourself first, especially before adding someone else to the equation. Many are unhappy because they are confused about who they are, where they are going, and what they want. It's good to try and establish this early on. You can't depend on anyone to come and make your life better. Jumping into a relationship will not fix problems deep within. It is important to love yourself before you can expect the next person to; and when you do, relationships of all kinds flourish.
EDIT:Ooops. Ok I just noticed the grade you were referring to. I was thinking junior high/high school, sorry.
Great idea!!! I think for me the most important thing I've learned in life is that no matter what I've done (good or bad) the choices have been mine and they have made me who I am today. In other words, I can be disappointed in some choices I've made but even if they were the wrong choices- I've learned from them in some way.
Aside from sharing your experiences what I found was a great thing to do (I taught 5th grade so this might or might not work depending on your grade, but you say upper elementary) is I would give them a Quote of the Day (these are so simple to find now with the internet- there are entire sites devoted to quotes for all occasions and meanings), the kids had a notebook to copy the quote down in, then they had to write what they thought it meant and then apply it to their lives.
For example, the Quote of the Day might be ';If life gives you lemons, make lemonade.'; They have to write in their Quote of the Day book what they interpretted this and then give an example of how they made lemonades (i.e. 'I had to go to my grandma's for a week this summer but I made the best of it and made a new friend while I was there' or whatever). I gave them about 15 mins. to do this as part of their morning warm-ups and then we shared our meanings and stories with the whole class. It was a great way for the kids to gain insight about themselves as well as see that they weren't the only people to experience _______ (whatever the Quote of the Day dealt with).
Have fun and enjoy! This is a great age group and so fun! I miss it a lot!
obviously you don't have children of your own. this is a little to heavy for elementary school children. maybe high school, but not elementary age children.
Show and Tell. Come up with a 'cooler' name and I think it would be a hit. I remember loving show and tell, but we only did it in k and 1st grade.
Is DARE still around or another simular drug education program?
Bring in leaders from the community as guests like a fireman, policeman, ect.
Education about different things like... what to do if someone asks you to take drugs, what to do if someone touches you in the wrong place, what to do if there is an emergency. A guest from 911 would be awesome!
I am not sure that what college is like is really the best idea.
Remember that you are also treading on very thin water when you start giving advice. What are you going to do when a child goes home telling them you told them to do this or that and the parent doesnt like it. I am not really sure thats what you mean, but thats what the word advice implies.
As a fellow teacher, but of adolescent behavior, I dont feel very enthused about your new lesson plans. Of course, learning things like note taking and college is helpful, the undeveloped mind is very moldable, if you will, and the advice you are sharing can possibly invoke a fear or unwillingness to grow up into these things.
But teach as you will....
-Devin
I wish I would've got madder when I got C's in high school. But I just shrugged it off...
But I was very good at making new friends. New students feel so alone their first year of school and I think kids should be more welcoming and not stare...
Lifes Lessons...advice on what you've done well, would do different...
How old are these kids? Since I've seen words like shock and angry parents and whatnot, I'm wondering if you could have some sort of container that the students could put questions in. You could explain what types of questions would or would not be appropriate then when it's time for that particular lesson, draw one out and address it. That would also give the more shy kids an opportunity to ask their questions because no on would know who had asked which question.
Good Luck =)Lifes Lessons...advice on what you've done well, would do different...
You might want to make it a once-a-week thing, that way, you have time to come up with something good, and the kids have something to look forward to on a given day of the week.
I am 17 at the end of this month, going into my senior year in September. Advice I could give to those kids?
-Always be yourself
-Don't drink, do drugs, or have sex in high school. It only causes more problems on top of the lot you'll likely already have
-Get involved. You'll hear it a million times going into high school, but find activites that you really enjoy. I got involved in yearbook and theatre, and now they are my favorite things. I didn;t get into them until me junior year of high school, so its never too late.
-You have to respect and love yourself completely before you can expect anyone else to
-Never have any regrets. Things always develop into what you have now, and theres probably some part of it thats good. Change is a good thing, mistakes are good things, as long as you learn from them
-If you think you are in love in high shool, and want to have sex to show that love- don't. It shows more love to respect yourself and the other person and keep your...';urges'; in check.
If I think of more I'll add them later. Talk about Puberty and Sex. Kids that age will love hearing about it, even if it is a lecture.
To work with the End in mind. ow do you want o be remembered by your loved ones? Don't you want them to be able to say good things about you, such as you were a great friend who was always there, A caring daughter, loving sis, hard worker etc?
-When it comes to school I noticed a lot of students have an attitude that what they're learning will not apply to ''the real world';. Little do they know, having a good GPA, volunteer work and being in clubs (school clubs) will really make a difference when applying for a job.
-FINANCE! A lot of adults are suffering right now because they weren't educated about finance early on. It can really make or break your life. they need to realize how important it is to save, to get a job with benefits, to get insurance of all kinds (home,car,etc.) and to be mindful of debts. Too many families are suffering because they are unprepared.
-It's important to get to know yourself the best you can. Develop a relationship with yourself first, especially before adding someone else to the equation. Many are unhappy because they are confused about who they are, where they are going, and what they want. It's good to try and establish this early on. You can't depend on anyone to come and make your life better. Jumping into a relationship will not fix problems deep within. It is important to love yourself before you can expect the next person to; and when you do, relationships of all kinds flourish.
EDIT:Ooops. Ok I just noticed the grade you were referring to. I was thinking junior high/high school, sorry.
Great idea!!! I think for me the most important thing I've learned in life is that no matter what I've done (good or bad) the choices have been mine and they have made me who I am today. In other words, I can be disappointed in some choices I've made but even if they were the wrong choices- I've learned from them in some way.
Aside from sharing your experiences what I found was a great thing to do (I taught 5th grade so this might or might not work depending on your grade, but you say upper elementary) is I would give them a Quote of the Day (these are so simple to find now with the internet- there are entire sites devoted to quotes for all occasions and meanings), the kids had a notebook to copy the quote down in, then they had to write what they thought it meant and then apply it to their lives.
For example, the Quote of the Day might be ';If life gives you lemons, make lemonade.'; They have to write in their Quote of the Day book what they interpretted this and then give an example of how they made lemonades (i.e. 'I had to go to my grandma's for a week this summer but I made the best of it and made a new friend while I was there' or whatever). I gave them about 15 mins. to do this as part of their morning warm-ups and then we shared our meanings and stories with the whole class. It was a great way for the kids to gain insight about themselves as well as see that they weren't the only people to experience _______ (whatever the Quote of the Day dealt with).
Have fun and enjoy! This is a great age group and so fun! I miss it a lot!
obviously you don't have children of your own. this is a little to heavy for elementary school children. maybe high school, but not elementary age children.
Show and Tell. Come up with a 'cooler' name and I think it would be a hit. I remember loving show and tell, but we only did it in k and 1st grade.
Is DARE still around or another simular drug education program?
Bring in leaders from the community as guests like a fireman, policeman, ect.
Education about different things like... what to do if someone asks you to take drugs, what to do if someone touches you in the wrong place, what to do if there is an emergency. A guest from 911 would be awesome!
I am not sure that what college is like is really the best idea.
Remember that you are also treading on very thin water when you start giving advice. What are you going to do when a child goes home telling them you told them to do this or that and the parent doesnt like it. I am not really sure thats what you mean, but thats what the word advice implies.
As a fellow teacher, but of adolescent behavior, I dont feel very enthused about your new lesson plans. Of course, learning things like note taking and college is helpful, the undeveloped mind is very moldable, if you will, and the advice you are sharing can possibly invoke a fear or unwillingness to grow up into these things.
But teach as you will....
-Devin
I wish I would've got madder when I got C's in high school. But I just shrugged it off...
But I was very good at making new friends. New students feel so alone their first year of school and I think kids should be more welcoming and not stare...
What do you think ? guys advice ?
a guy told me (he bring the subject) that he had something for me, but he said im older ( i'm 18 and he's 17 )so probley better to stay friend
he said i dont have like strong feeling but i had something, sorry and after he said : maybe some time down the road ;) ... i'm confuseWhat do you think ? guys advice ?
:s i'm not a guy but just reading that confused me...What do you think ? guys advice ?
pop
Excuse me for asking, but are you gay?
no 1 year isnt an age gap
its a she not a he... he likes you but he's scared you don't feel the same way, don't put him in the friends zone yet...give him a chance...tell him iff you feel the same ...peaceeye blush
he said i dont have like strong feeling but i had something, sorry and after he said : maybe some time down the road ;) ... i'm confuseWhat do you think ? guys advice ?
:s i'm not a guy but just reading that confused me...What do you think ? guys advice ?
pop
Excuse me for asking, but are you gay?
no 1 year isnt an age gap
its a she not a he... he likes you but he's scared you don't feel the same way, don't put him in the friends zone yet...give him a chance...tell him iff you feel the same ...peace
Do you think its wrong for a senior to like a freshman? Advice, honost opinions.?
I don't think so. There are no rules and set of guideline for love and friendship.Do you think its wrong for a senior to like a freshman? Advice, honost opinions.?
no it's not wrong at all because you can't help who you fall for. it's only a 3 year difference and I know many people in relationships like that....it's especially common if the guy is older but not if the girl is older
help me please:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Do you think its wrong for a senior to like a freshman? Advice, honost opinions.?
No, theres nothing wrong with that.
no it's not wrong at all because you can't help who you fall for. it's only a 3 year difference and I know many people in relationships like that....it's especially common if the guy is older but not if the girl is older
help me please:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Do you think its wrong for a senior to like a freshman? Advice, honost opinions.?
No, theres nothing wrong with that.
Seasonal Pill? Has anyone tried this pill? Can you give me any advice or suggestions?
I was always against it up until my menstruation cycle became out of control. Is this pill safe? Does it work? Is it worth it? Seasonal Pill? Has anyone tried this pill? Can you give me any advice or suggestions?
I used it for about 8 months. I didn't get pregnant, however, I stopped taking it because it was making me very depressed and angry--pretty much like I had severe pms all the time. As soon as I was off of it my husband said he could notice a major difference in my personality.
I'm not sure if that happens to everyone or if it just happened to me. I didn't spot very much and my periods are pretty lite and come regularly now, so the depression is the only negative thing I have to share about it.
Good luck! Hope this helps a little!Seasonal Pill? Has anyone tried this pill? Can you give me any advice or suggestions?
I wouldn't get the pill. Your body is meant to have periods so that the uterine lining can be purged. I don't think it's worth it. Plus there is always some risks involved such blood clots. I suggest you talk to your doctor before you make your final decision
I didn't like it cause I spotted all the time on it and the risk of a blood clot is so real anymore that condoms are my way of going but then again I am married so if I got pregnant we won't be mad. Hope I helped!
I used it for about 8 months. I didn't get pregnant, however, I stopped taking it because it was making me very depressed and angry--pretty much like I had severe pms all the time. As soon as I was off of it my husband said he could notice a major difference in my personality.
I'm not sure if that happens to everyone or if it just happened to me. I didn't spot very much and my periods are pretty lite and come regularly now, so the depression is the only negative thing I have to share about it.
Good luck! Hope this helps a little!Seasonal Pill? Has anyone tried this pill? Can you give me any advice or suggestions?
I wouldn't get the pill. Your body is meant to have periods so that the uterine lining can be purged. I don't think it's worth it. Plus there is always some risks involved such blood clots. I suggest you talk to your doctor before you make your final decision
I didn't like it cause I spotted all the time on it and the risk of a blood clot is so real anymore that condoms are my way of going but then again I am married so if I got pregnant we won't be mad. Hope I helped!
Can any of you give me advice on this problem of mine???!!!???
I totally like this guy in my class and he fools around infront of me. He is so cute!! But I don't know if I should tell him or wait for him to say something. In science he is in my table so I get a little nervouse around him. So please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm dying!!!!! Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh!!!!!Can any of you give me advice on this problem of mine???!!!???
i know how you feel. i felt the same way you have before. what i would do is tell him that you like him.whats the worst that could happen? its worth the try
good luck =]Can any of you give me advice on this problem of mine???!!!???
you're soooo funny. Well i know it makes you nervous if your cute crush is sitting at the same table.... but be calm... pretend that you don't notice his cuteness, hold on to your breath. Ignore him and maybe he will be challenged and ask you for a date.....
Stay calm. You are in the stage where the emotions go wild. Take it easy. Don't go overboard. Otherwise you'll get yourself or somebody hurt.
obviously he likes you because hes trying to impress you, though im not sure if he knows that you like him too. so for him too make a move you have to hint that you like him. for example: give him a compliment, or flirt a little,jus say something you dont ordinarily say too a guy friend. after you have done this he will feel more confident on making a first move. if that doesnt work and you really like this guy, then you will have too make the first move. good luck
i know how you feel. i felt the same way you have before. what i would do is tell him that you like him.whats the worst that could happen? its worth the try
good luck =]Can any of you give me advice on this problem of mine???!!!???
you're soooo funny. Well i know it makes you nervous if your cute crush is sitting at the same table.... but be calm... pretend that you don't notice his cuteness, hold on to your breath. Ignore him and maybe he will be challenged and ask you for a date.....
Stay calm. You are in the stage where the emotions go wild. Take it easy. Don't go overboard. Otherwise you'll get yourself or somebody hurt.
obviously he likes you because hes trying to impress you, though im not sure if he knows that you like him too. so for him too make a move you have to hint that you like him. for example: give him a compliment, or flirt a little,jus say something you dont ordinarily say too a guy friend. after you have done this he will feel more confident on making a first move. if that doesnt work and you really like this guy, then you will have too make the first move. good luck
Do you think all international cricketers should join Y!A and take advice from experts like us?
:)Do you think all international cricketers should join Y!A and take advice from experts like us?
yes,we analyze the performance of players more than what they discuss.So it sounds a good idea.But similarly we can also think about our experts like u joining the cricket team.You are a good leg spinner ,so u can join the team and help them.You can provide help both as a player and also an expert.
All the best !!!
Lol!!Do you think all international cricketers should join Y!A and take advice from experts like us?
I don't think we are expert in cricket just because watching international cricket. Cricket teams have experts for their questions so i don't expect all international players to join YA!. But it wont be bad if some of them come and participate here when they have time. Players could be here like us and discuss cricket but they have no time for it because of the matches they have to play for their country.
Maybe not the cricketers but definitely the selectors.
Only from some of you.
I can't give advice because that is my name.
And this I am sure of; Nobody should take advice from Nalaka 50%
Hahaha yeah I reckon a few have had a bit of a look before.
Better than reading the newspaper lol.
How did you find me? I am Ricky Ponting.......nah jokes.
you never know.....maybe Sachin or Murali is disguised as a user.....
Not on cricket matters anyway
They should ! That would be better for them
they are not deserved to get advice from such a great person like me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ઈ Hell Yeah ઈ
yeah defo!
then i can give a few players a good ear bashing and tell them exactly what i think of them!!
Nice joke.
Yes, and I'll get the best answers like in did in the Brett Lee question :P
ya why not...
But i will take heavy fees from them for this..
no
yes,we analyze the performance of players more than what they discuss.So it sounds a good idea.But similarly we can also think about our experts like u joining the cricket team.You are a good leg spinner ,so u can join the team and help them.You can provide help both as a player and also an expert.
All the best !!!
Lol!!Do you think all international cricketers should join Y!A and take advice from experts like us?
I don't think we are expert in cricket just because watching international cricket. Cricket teams have experts for their questions so i don't expect all international players to join YA!. But it wont be bad if some of them come and participate here when they have time. Players could be here like us and discuss cricket but they have no time for it because of the matches they have to play for their country.
Maybe not the cricketers but definitely the selectors.
Only from some of you.
I can't give advice because that is my name.
And this I am sure of; Nobody should take advice from Nalaka 50%
Hahaha yeah I reckon a few have had a bit of a look before.
Better than reading the newspaper lol.
How did you find me? I am Ricky Ponting.......nah jokes.
you never know.....maybe Sachin or Murali is disguised as a user.....
Not on cricket matters anyway
They should ! That would be better for them
they are not deserved to get advice from such a great person like me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ઈ Hell Yeah ઈ
yeah defo!
then i can give a few players a good ear bashing and tell them exactly what i think of them!!
Nice joke.
Yes, and I'll get the best answers like in did in the Brett Lee question :P
ya why not...
But i will take heavy fees from them for this..
no
Shoe Advice, Tell me what you think about these boots?
I'm thinking about getting these boots.
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp鈥?/a>
Please let me know what you think? Also what exactly you like or don't like.
FYI: I'm a 20 year old guyShoe Advice, Tell me what you think about these boots?
they seem like they suit more older ppl. dont like.Shoe Advice, Tell me what you think about these boots?
They look like something you'd wear to do farmwork.
i wouldn't buy those if i were you
honestly i think its a ripoff. and i dont like the style. looks like something my dad would wear
if you're willing to spend that kind of money get yourself those really hot neon nikes i see all the guys wearing in my school
Uh.. I wouldn't want my boyfriend wearing that.
I don't know how to describe it, but just don't get them.
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp鈥?/a>
Please let me know what you think? Also what exactly you like or don't like.
FYI: I'm a 20 year old guyShoe Advice, Tell me what you think about these boots?
they seem like they suit more older ppl. dont like.Shoe Advice, Tell me what you think about these boots?
They look like something you'd wear to do farmwork.
i wouldn't buy those if i were you
honestly i think its a ripoff. and i dont like the style. looks like something my dad would wear
if you're willing to spend that kind of money get yourself those really hot neon nikes i see all the guys wearing in my school
Uh.. I wouldn't want my boyfriend wearing that.
I don't know how to describe it, but just don't get them.
Can you give me advice?
Hello I have a rabbit that is 3 years old I took him to the vet on monday and he was put on a hay diet for long teeth since then he has been bright but last night he had a fit and his back legs went weak and now he isn't eating or drinking at all and when he runs around he is wobbly and holds his head to the side when sitting.Can you give me advice?
it sounds like your rabbit is very sick. i would get him to a vet that specializes in critters asap.Can you give me advice?
Take him back to the vet again... it could only be something minor but it wouldnt be worth the riskeye blush
it sounds like your rabbit is very sick. i would get him to a vet that specializes in critters asap.Can you give me advice?
Take him back to the vet again... it could only be something minor but it wouldnt be worth the risk
Am i good (Do you have any advice..)?
Is my singing good?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vc4D8052SykAm i good (Do you have any advice..)?
You have a very pure voice, its very soothing. You may want to invest in some singing lessons so your voice can get more trained and even better. :)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vc4D8052SykAm i good (Do you have any advice..)?
You have a very pure voice, its very soothing. You may want to invest in some singing lessons so your voice can get more trained and even better. :)
What do you think? please need your advice !?
Hey!
I just want to know if you think that I could become well know in youtube if I promote myself, post more videos, etc...
Please tell me what you think...
thanks!
http://www.youtube.com/user/MissJMusiqueWhat do you think? please need your advice !?
Denifetly! You could become well known fer suure! You're voice is amazing! It's really a beautiful voice from a beautiful girl! :DDI Look forword ta moore vid's! :D
I just want to know if you think that I could become well know in youtube if I promote myself, post more videos, etc...
Please tell me what you think...
thanks!
http://www.youtube.com/user/MissJMusiqueWhat do you think? please need your advice !?
Denifetly! You could become well known fer suure! You're voice is amazing! It's really a beautiful voice from a beautiful girl! :DDI Look forword ta moore vid's! :D
I have a gal who i haven't talked to in 3weeks i don't know how to apologise and need you guys to advice.
what is there to say!?!?!? walk up to her say ';IM SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE'; and bam its done and over.I have a gal who i haven't talked to in 3weeks i don't know how to apologise and need you guys to advice.
if you haven't talked to her in 3 weeks, you can't say you ';have a gal';
if you haven't talked to her in 3 weeks, you can't say you ';have a gal';
I need some advice. Read if you have the patience?
Okay so a few months ago i stopped contacting my boyfriend and decided it was time to call it quits...we were together for a year and a half and even after we broke up we remained friends and we would talk and he'd text me all the time and want to see me...i recently found out that he has a new girlfriend (he didnt tell me) and even though he has a gf he would still try to talk to me....so i told him to stop because its the only way that i can move on since i loved him so much...now that i havent heard from him in 2 months i miss him already...i dont know what to do...has this ever happened to anybody?? they cut contact with an ex to move on but yet they miss them so much?? do you think he misses me?? need adviceI need some advice. Read if you have the patience?
i think it'll be better for you to stop thinking about whether he misses you or not because i think it will hurt you more...
i know this is easy to be say than to be done, but you have to move on with your life and let bygone be bygone... try to occupy your time with activities and be around friends since this surely can avoid you from thinking about him..
im sure by time you'll be fine..you're just going through the heart-mending moment right now...
try to be happy, do things that you likes and try not to think about him.. good luck=)I need some advice. Read if you have the patience?
This happens to everyone. Yes, he misses some things about you, but has obviously moved on, which is something you need to do, as well.
I was in the same situation. I was in a three year relationship, but after the three years were over, we kinda lost the spark and broke up. But that didn't mean that i wanted to do away with my boyfriend and never talk to him again, i still missed him, and i still do miss the things we had done together, it's just a natural thing that happens, everyone misses the person they break up with because they just shifted everything they have lived by, and it's different... they have gotten use to the old life. But believe me, i think he is just trying to move on, and you should to... as soon as you find another person that treats you ten times better which will definately happen, you will forget about the stuff you miss with your ex.
i think it'll be better for you to stop thinking about whether he misses you or not because i think it will hurt you more...
i know this is easy to be say than to be done, but you have to move on with your life and let bygone be bygone... try to occupy your time with activities and be around friends since this surely can avoid you from thinking about him..
im sure by time you'll be fine..you're just going through the heart-mending moment right now...
try to be happy, do things that you likes and try not to think about him.. good luck=)I need some advice. Read if you have the patience?
This happens to everyone. Yes, he misses some things about you, but has obviously moved on, which is something you need to do, as well.
I was in the same situation. I was in a three year relationship, but after the three years were over, we kinda lost the spark and broke up. But that didn't mean that i wanted to do away with my boyfriend and never talk to him again, i still missed him, and i still do miss the things we had done together, it's just a natural thing that happens, everyone misses the person they break up with because they just shifted everything they have lived by, and it's different... they have gotten use to the old life. But believe me, i think he is just trying to move on, and you should to... as soon as you find another person that treats you ten times better which will definately happen, you will forget about the stuff you miss with your ex.
I need some advice what do you think? men and women?
I have been having what I would call a friends with benefits relationship with a guy that I have known for many years. We only a year ago started sleeping together and it is not a regular thing. He was living with his baby momma and he told me he wanted a relationship with me but given his track record I declined. I really care about him, so one day we were talking and he told me that he had some strong feelings for me being the person that I am I brushed it off and kinda laughed at him. I don't want him to know my true feelings so I always keep this guard up so I won't get hurt. I never call or initiate anything he always does the calling texting or inviting to whatever. I am playing this thing right or should let him know my true feelings?? Please help I am dying on the inside.I need some advice what do you think? men and women?
You should tell him your true feelings very soon.
If you don't, then he might find out another way.
Good Luck.I need some advice what do you think? men and women?
omg girl you r so messed up i agree that is rillly slutty
Lady!! This is the high time that you must tell about your true feelings to him because time never waits for anyone and once it slips off your hands then you have nothing else to do rather then regretting on what happened. Better to listen your heart and do what you feel and I bet that if you are true from your side then whatever you would do would be the right thing. Truth always wins!! Good Luck
slut
If you like him, i think you should tell him
its always better to see what would happen instead of thinking what actually couldve happened.
Take chances, and people get hurt all the time, but that's how we learn.
and we make better choices from then, we learn from it.
but on this situation, i think you should go for him (:
Let him know or he'll move on.
let it all out, life is about taking risks.
You should tell him your true feelings very soon.
If you don't, then he might find out another way.
Good Luck.I need some advice what do you think? men and women?
omg girl you r so messed up i agree that is rillly slutty
Lady!! This is the high time that you must tell about your true feelings to him because time never waits for anyone and once it slips off your hands then you have nothing else to do rather then regretting on what happened. Better to listen your heart and do what you feel and I bet that if you are true from your side then whatever you would do would be the right thing. Truth always wins!! Good Luck
slut
If you like him, i think you should tell him
its always better to see what would happen instead of thinking what actually couldve happened.
Take chances, and people get hurt all the time, but that's how we learn.
and we make better choices from then, we learn from it.
but on this situation, i think you should go for him (:
Let him know or he'll move on.
let it all out, life is about taking risks.
I need some advice. Read if you'd like to help?
Some of you might be in the same situation. I'm 16 and my family is middle class. I'm very thankful for what we have. But a lot of my friends are high class and get everything they want. My friend just turned 16 and got a brand new jeep. I'm 16 and I don't have my car yet. My parents told me that money is tight and I need to save up for it myself. I'm applying at places and had an interview yesterday. It just feels like money is an issue and it hurts because I have to work. My friends get everything handed to them. They'll probably get to go to a really good college while i'm going to have to work hard for it. Sometimes I just feel like giving up. Know what i mean? :(I need some advice. Read if you'd like to help?
Its take time to get what you want especially you dont have enough money
I have that problem too My mum wouldnt buy me a cellphone and my classmate have nice cellphones But my mum said money is hard to find you cant find money everywhere, you cant just get money in street but lucky if you find them...
You can get wat you want if you focused on your study and get job a professional job you can buy what ever you want....
I HOPE IT HELPSI need some advice. Read if you'd like to help?
youre going to end up having a better life than them
because everything is handed to them on a silver platter they're going to always expect everything to be handed to them on a silver platter
as for you, you will already be used to working for what you want
yeah, as soon as your friends graduate from college they're going to realize that life isn't something that get's handed to you.
you sound like a great person. keep at that.
Just remember, others have it waaayyyyy worse! :D
wow your a poor *****.
The only place where work is after success is in the dictonary...
I hate to break it to you, but you kinda sound spoiled and self-centered in thatzits
Its take time to get what you want especially you dont have enough money
I have that problem too My mum wouldnt buy me a cellphone and my classmate have nice cellphones But my mum said money is hard to find you cant find money everywhere, you cant just get money in street but lucky if you find them...
You can get wat you want if you focused on your study and get job a professional job you can buy what ever you want....
I HOPE IT HELPSI need some advice. Read if you'd like to help?
youre going to end up having a better life than them
because everything is handed to them on a silver platter they're going to always expect everything to be handed to them on a silver platter
as for you, you will already be used to working for what you want
yeah, as soon as your friends graduate from college they're going to realize that life isn't something that get's handed to you.
you sound like a great person. keep at that.
Just remember, others have it waaayyyyy worse! :D
wow your a poor *****.
The only place where work is after success is in the dictonary...
I hate to break it to you, but you kinda sound spoiled and self-centered in that
Can I get advice? What would you do?
I am currently working in a supermarket, where I have only been there 2 months. Prior to working there I was working for the same supermarket in a different location, for over 2 years, where I used to love it.
However this new location is not going well for me.. I hate it... in fact.. I despise it, the only real reason i took the transfer was to stay in a job due to the current economical climate in the UK still being in recession, but I can't take it anymore.... I have studied at university and graduated... With transfering to this new store... I had to sign a new contract, can't transfer to another store or back to my old one, as I've just got there... It's payday soon (2 weeks) so I was don't know whether I should just stop going when i get paid? or stop going from now on? I'm still in the training/probation period.. so i can't really resign, and I don't think i can get a reference that early on anyway...
Any advice?
Much Appreciated! :DCan I get advice? What would you do?
If you leave what are you going to live on. You won't get JSA if you resign. We have all had to do jobs we hate. Just start looking for another one.Can I get advice? What would you do?
I hated my job for over 40 years....my boss was a real @ss.......and made life difficult for everyone.......well that @astard died last summer and I'm living on the beach without a care in the world.......retirement is sweet................
Due to economical situation, it would be in your interest to stick to your present job. Mean while look for a new job. Something will surely turn up. Have patience. You are frustrated and not happy with your present job, but if you quit now indirectly you will be spoiling your record. ';Slow and steady wins the race.';
';Our real blessings often appear to us in the shape of pains, losses and disappointments; but let us have patience and we soon shall see them in their proper figures.'; - Joseph Addison
Give your notice and quit. With your background and degree hopefully you could find a job soon. Best of luck to you
You do not say what your job title is or what your job entails or indeed what was your job you loved when you were in the previous store.
Since you have a degree I am certain that you are not a shelf stacker, so this implies you have a job with responsibility and accountability.
So either the new job is larger than your previous one and you still need to adapt to the job and your new surroundings or ( and maybe both) you may not get on with your new line manager or one of the stores management team resulting in you feeling rather low and depressed and to add to this is the fact that moving from one smaller store where everyone get on to a much larger store where new employees can often feel lonely it is understandable and If this is the case go to your Doctor do not leave.
However the way you have written this question makes me think if you do not leave on your own back then you may suffer at the store.
Dont leave, look for another job, if needed go to your doctor, speak to HR about your options.
why stay in a job that you hate. this is unhealthy. but as so many others have pointed out to you with the way that the economy is secure another job first.this way you will have an income . try to hang on as long as possible. remember new jobs are like new schools you did not like it at first but when you was there for awhile and got to know people everything came together
If you left you will get no JSA or income support and you know how bad unemployment is in the UK, about 300 people applying for each job, if you were interviewing and you had 2 people, 1 was currently working and 2 was unemployed because they hated their last job? which one would you employ? No 2 might not like this job and leave after a few weeks but No 1 will last long term? Give a lot of thought before you leave your job.
However this new location is not going well for me.. I hate it... in fact.. I despise it, the only real reason i took the transfer was to stay in a job due to the current economical climate in the UK still being in recession, but I can't take it anymore.... I have studied at university and graduated... With transfering to this new store... I had to sign a new contract, can't transfer to another store or back to my old one, as I've just got there... It's payday soon (2 weeks) so I was don't know whether I should just stop going when i get paid? or stop going from now on? I'm still in the training/probation period.. so i can't really resign, and I don't think i can get a reference that early on anyway...
Any advice?
Much Appreciated! :DCan I get advice? What would you do?
If you leave what are you going to live on. You won't get JSA if you resign. We have all had to do jobs we hate. Just start looking for another one.Can I get advice? What would you do?
I hated my job for over 40 years....my boss was a real @ss.......and made life difficult for everyone.......well that @astard died last summer and I'm living on the beach without a care in the world.......retirement is sweet................
Due to economical situation, it would be in your interest to stick to your present job. Mean while look for a new job. Something will surely turn up. Have patience. You are frustrated and not happy with your present job, but if you quit now indirectly you will be spoiling your record. ';Slow and steady wins the race.';
';Our real blessings often appear to us in the shape of pains, losses and disappointments; but let us have patience and we soon shall see them in their proper figures.'; - Joseph Addison
Give your notice and quit. With your background and degree hopefully you could find a job soon. Best of luck to you
You do not say what your job title is or what your job entails or indeed what was your job you loved when you were in the previous store.
Since you have a degree I am certain that you are not a shelf stacker, so this implies you have a job with responsibility and accountability.
So either the new job is larger than your previous one and you still need to adapt to the job and your new surroundings or ( and maybe both) you may not get on with your new line manager or one of the stores management team resulting in you feeling rather low and depressed and to add to this is the fact that moving from one smaller store where everyone get on to a much larger store where new employees can often feel lonely it is understandable and If this is the case go to your Doctor do not leave.
However the way you have written this question makes me think if you do not leave on your own back then you may suffer at the store.
Dont leave, look for another job, if needed go to your doctor, speak to HR about your options.
why stay in a job that you hate. this is unhealthy. but as so many others have pointed out to you with the way that the economy is secure another job first.this way you will have an income . try to hang on as long as possible. remember new jobs are like new schools you did not like it at first but when you was there for awhile and got to know people everything came together
If you left you will get no JSA or income support and you know how bad unemployment is in the UK, about 300 people applying for each job, if you were interviewing and you had 2 people, 1 was currently working and 2 was unemployed because they hated their last job? which one would you employ? No 2 might not like this job and leave after a few weeks but No 1 will last long term? Give a lot of thought before you leave your job.
I need serious, mature advice. what do you guys think i should do ?
my bf of 1 year wants me to go on a 4 day vacation with his friends. When we got together his Friends wife's have been talking crap about me. And now I do not want to hang out with these people. His friends are like family to him. I dont want to be a ***** and tell him not to go if I am not going. But don't you think he needs to realize that? He is basically putting his friends before me. What should I do? what should I tell him? Should I make a big deal about him going, or should I just be cool about it??? I am 28.I need serious, mature advice. what do you guys think i should do ?
Tell him the truth about his friend's wife. That you don't want to spend even a second with her because of how badly she treated you and you shouldn't have to try and be buddies with someone like her. Don't prevent him from going, just say that you do not wish to go and tell him to have a good time. Hopefully he will choose you over them.I need serious, mature advice. what do you guys think i should do ?
You should talk to him and tell him how you feel. You should still go because some person's comments shouldn't stop you too from loving each other on vacation.
Talk to him. Tell him how you feel and why you feel that way. He should choose you over them, but if he doesn't just remember that mens brains work differently that womens, and he may not realize that going without you is such a big deal.
talk to him. be real about how you feel, but listen carefully and trust what he says. if you two can't get to an understanding, then accept what is and move on. don't manipulate or attempt to change him. good luck
Tell him the truth about his friend's wife. That you don't want to spend even a second with her because of how badly she treated you and you shouldn't have to try and be buddies with someone like her. Don't prevent him from going, just say that you do not wish to go and tell him to have a good time. Hopefully he will choose you over them.I need serious, mature advice. what do you guys think i should do ?
You should talk to him and tell him how you feel. You should still go because some person's comments shouldn't stop you too from loving each other on vacation.
Talk to him. Tell him how you feel and why you feel that way. He should choose you over them, but if he doesn't just remember that mens brains work differently that womens, and he may not realize that going without you is such a big deal.
talk to him. be real about how you feel, but listen carefully and trust what he says. if you two can't get to an understanding, then accept what is and move on. don't manipulate or attempt to change him. good luck
Do you happen to know of any advice type blogs? ?
I'm looking for those that you ask questions and the blogger offers his or her opinion. Or just an opinionated blog. (if that makes sense). Is there such a type of blog out there? Or if you know of a similiar site, I'd appreciate that as well. TiaDo you happen to know of any advice type blogs? ?
yupp.. http://www.dailyblogtips.com... U can post your question in the comment box and daniel usually answers them on sundays..
yupp.. http://www.dailyblogtips.com... U can post your question in the comment box and daniel usually answers them on sundays..
I need advice. What would you do in this situation?
I have been dating a guy that I really care about for 2 years now. I just turned 30 and he is 33. About 6 months into our relationship he told me this secret fetish he had called the smoking fetish. He likes to watch a girl smoke and thinks its sexy if its done correctly and with a certain name brand. At that point I had already become attached to him before I knew about this fetish of his. My question to everyone is that if your boyfriend asked you to smoke for him just on weekends. About 4 cigarettes a week because it is a turn on for him, would you do it? Would you do it for him to make him and keep him happy even though you never smoked before and never planned on doing it either? Please let me know your thoughts. Thank you so much.I need advice. What would you do in this situation?
Maybe once in a while, but NEVER on a regular basis like that
Doing it regularly every weekend is kind of pushing it...
I need advice. What would you do in this situation?
Well, smoking can kill you- so lets think about that. You knew about this fetish when you were together for 6 months.. and you continued to be with him. You knew what you were getting into. Now, will he leave you if he never gets this fetish? Maybe not.. But could you do it maybe one time? MAYBE. But, he needs to know every weekend is not only not cool - its not SAFE. What if you develop throat cancer bc he thinks smoking is sexy. Weight the options, and think about whats important to YOU. YOU come first. .. and if this becomes a big issue.. then maybe you two are not meant for each other..
My wife used to do this for me. I think you would be a wonderful girlfriend if you would do this. It really isn't much to ask, and if it keeps him interested in you and turns him on, why not? I think that you will come to enjoy it!
But you should ask him what would happen if you two got married and had a daughter, and she took an interest in smoking as a small child. His answer could be very revealing.
You have to think of yourself, if you never had any thoughts of smoking then don't. As we all know I don't have to mention health. Also as far as his fetish goes, I would talk to him and see if there is any other thing that may be second best on his list, and then there's this,(What if your fetish was to see men eating **** about four times a week, would he accommodate you?) Dont mean to be so extream but a fedish is a fedish.
Maybe once in a while, but NEVER on a regular basis like that
Doing it regularly every weekend is kind of pushing it...
I need advice. What would you do in this situation?
Well, smoking can kill you- so lets think about that. You knew about this fetish when you were together for 6 months.. and you continued to be with him. You knew what you were getting into. Now, will he leave you if he never gets this fetish? Maybe not.. But could you do it maybe one time? MAYBE. But, he needs to know every weekend is not only not cool - its not SAFE. What if you develop throat cancer bc he thinks smoking is sexy. Weight the options, and think about whats important to YOU. YOU come first. .. and if this becomes a big issue.. then maybe you two are not meant for each other..
My wife used to do this for me. I think you would be a wonderful girlfriend if you would do this. It really isn't much to ask, and if it keeps him interested in you and turns him on, why not? I think that you will come to enjoy it!
But you should ask him what would happen if you two got married and had a daughter, and she took an interest in smoking as a small child. His answer could be very revealing.
You have to think of yourself, if you never had any thoughts of smoking then don't. As we all know I don't have to mention health. Also as far as his fetish goes, I would talk to him and see if there is any other thing that may be second best on his list, and then there's this,(What if your fetish was to see men eating **** about four times a week, would he accommodate you?) Dont mean to be so extream but a fedish is a fedish.
Boy's: advice please! do you think friendship is possible?
a good guy friend of mine admitted to liking me 2 months ago. he travelled all the way to my college (3.5 hrs away) to tell me how he felt and told me that it should've come out sooner. (btw this is long distance). we hung out a couple of times and things were hard. In total we went on 3 dates and saw eachother mostly at work on weekand because he was sick and busy. during the time we were seeing eachother we never called eachother except to initiate dates. 3 weeks ago he admitted to me that he was going through some problems with drugs and stuff--he told me that he normally dosen't tell this sort of thing to a lot of people. I told him I was concerned and care for him. two weeks after that, he called me on the phone and said: ';look, I know we had this thing going on but, I don't think we should continue to see eachother anymore';...I then mentioned how that was also something I wanted to talk to him about because distance is hard. so I suggested that we be friends and that I wouldn't want to loose a good friend (I told him I considered him a good friend)...and then he paused and stuttered and after said a firm: yes! it would suck to loose a good friend. after that, we had a normal 1hr convo as always and it was nice. he explained to me that his life is a mess at the moment/alot going on...and one of the main reasons he can't do it was because of his drug problem (it's gotten bad lately). we talked about random things on the phone such as previous relationships and movies, books , childhood, friends as always. it was great. my question is: do you think we will remain to be good friends or was he just saying that to make me feel better? and do you guys think that there is a possibility of us dating in the future? (btw he said that all of his previous relationships have been with good friends). i'm concerned for him and want to call him to see how he is doing/ask him to chill...how long should I wait before doing that?Boy's: advice please! do you think friendship is possible?
Yeah I'm sure you can still be friends, I think the reason he broke up with you is because he dosen't want to hurt you, (his drug addiction and everything) so maybye thats why he stutered when you said you should still be friends! If he really is one of your good friends then try to help him through his problems :) good luck!
Yeah I'm sure you can still be friends, I think the reason he broke up with you is because he dosen't want to hurt you, (his drug addiction and everything) so maybye thats why he stutered when you said you should still be friends! If he really is one of your good friends then try to help him through his problems :) good luck!
Help! Please? Advice...What do you think the outcome will be?
The state is charging the person with aggravated domestic violence (misdemeanor) and felonious assault with a dangerous weapon.
The prosecutor said he wants to drop the felony to a misdemeanor. What misdemeanor charge do you think it would be?
I'm sick of thinking about this crap and wish it would all just go away. My mom, sister, and myself were all witnesses to the incident and the police report is ALL sorts of twisted and contains false statements-as in statements that were never even made, but are incriminating towards the defendant. I just don't know what more I can do. I know they get cases all the time where women that ARE abused defend their abusers, but I am NOT one of those people. I want to know what I can do to get the story straight.
When my mom met with the prosecuting attorney, she said that he wouldn't even listen to her. I need advice from professionals or people who know what they are talking about. PLEASE no stupid comments...Ive had enough.
This has caused me so much trouble because Ive been working tirelessly to try to clear this up. I am unable to focus on anything and have lost all the work Ive done in my classes this semester :(Help! Please? Advice...What do you think the outcome will be?
What state did this happen in, I can help with this as I do a lot of Dv and Victims staements for women.zits
The prosecutor said he wants to drop the felony to a misdemeanor. What misdemeanor charge do you think it would be?
I'm sick of thinking about this crap and wish it would all just go away. My mom, sister, and myself were all witnesses to the incident and the police report is ALL sorts of twisted and contains false statements-as in statements that were never even made, but are incriminating towards the defendant. I just don't know what more I can do. I know they get cases all the time where women that ARE abused defend their abusers, but I am NOT one of those people. I want to know what I can do to get the story straight.
When my mom met with the prosecuting attorney, she said that he wouldn't even listen to her. I need advice from professionals or people who know what they are talking about. PLEASE no stupid comments...Ive had enough.
This has caused me so much trouble because Ive been working tirelessly to try to clear this up. I am unable to focus on anything and have lost all the work Ive done in my classes this semester :(Help! Please? Advice...What do you think the outcome will be?
What state did this happen in, I can help with this as I do a lot of Dv and Victims staements for women.
Attention romantics can you give me some advice?
i want to ask this girl to be my girlfriend i love everything about her is there anything special i could do???
http://a355.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/ima鈥?/a>Attention romantics can you give me some advice?
Wow, she's a hottie. Just tell her how you feel, if she reciprocates....game on :)Attention romantics can you give me some advice?
be nice to her, befriend her, flirt with her, make a move
Tell her hw u feel
First off -- do you know her? Or are you just in love with her picture?
Get to know her, if you have been seeing her for awhile, you should know what she thinks is romantic and you should be able to come up with a romantic way to ask her to be your g/f.
Of course there are lots!:)
1st:Be ready to go dress romantic like
Example of clothings:
tuxido-girl says';Nice dress (your name)
popular clothes you have';nice dress handsome)
2nd:go to her house and bring special romantic gifts
Examples:
Flowers-girl says';thank you,your so sweet';
Chocolates-girl says';Thank you,these are yummy';
A note of love(put in small gift box)-girl says';thanks! nice gift for me!';
3rd:Look at her at her eyes then ask her if she want to be your girlfriend don't be SHY!
Ways for asking:
';want to be my girlfriend(her name)';-Say with a smile
';wanna be my girlfriend beautiful';-Be romantic
';hey babe looking good';-Say with love
Bye all i have
Merry christmas
Remember:dont fight with your friends gf or bf espessialy wife or husbund
Approach her slowly. Be her friend and getting know her first. Be patient and do not express your feelings yet. Find out when is her birthday and give her present. If you are able to know some of her close friend,it might be easier to find tips to attract her. But do not close to her friend too much because your crush might be thinking that you are attracted to his friend.
out of your league
first you maintain friendship with her then just try to find her feelings then try to ask her opinion about you.
First befriend her , flirt with her and gives hints about ur feelings about you Then make a move
http://a355.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/ima鈥?/a>Attention romantics can you give me some advice?
Wow, she's a hottie. Just tell her how you feel, if she reciprocates....game on :)Attention romantics can you give me some advice?
be nice to her, befriend her, flirt with her, make a move
Tell her hw u feel
First off -- do you know her? Or are you just in love with her picture?
Get to know her, if you have been seeing her for awhile, you should know what she thinks is romantic and you should be able to come up with a romantic way to ask her to be your g/f.
Of course there are lots!:)
1st:Be ready to go dress romantic like
Example of clothings:
tuxido-girl says';Nice dress (your name)
popular clothes you have';nice dress handsome)
2nd:go to her house and bring special romantic gifts
Examples:
Flowers-girl says';thank you,your so sweet';
Chocolates-girl says';Thank you,these are yummy';
A note of love(put in small gift box)-girl says';thanks! nice gift for me!';
3rd:Look at her at her eyes then ask her if she want to be your girlfriend don't be SHY!
Ways for asking:
';want to be my girlfriend(her name)';-Say with a smile
';wanna be my girlfriend beautiful';-Be romantic
';hey babe looking good';-Say with love
Bye all i have
Merry christmas
Remember:dont fight with your friends gf or bf espessialy wife or husbund
Approach her slowly. Be her friend and getting know her first. Be patient and do not express your feelings yet. Find out when is her birthday and give her present. If you are able to know some of her close friend,it might be easier to find tips to attract her. But do not close to her friend too much because your crush might be thinking that you are attracted to his friend.
out of your league
first you maintain friendship with her then just try to find her feelings then try to ask her opinion about you.
First befriend her , flirt with her and gives hints about ur feelings about you Then make a move
LGBT: When did you come out? Advice for me?
So I'm 14 years old, I'm a girl, and I'm bi. Both my parents are really homophobic, and I don't think I can come out to them. I want to though. I'm so tired of being in the closet. I can't ever express myself or talk about how I feel. Also, I don't think I can come out to my friends because I have some sisters that go to the same school as me. They could find out and tell my parents.
What should I do?
Thanks.LGBT: When did you come out? Advice for me?
I've got a mate like that, i came out at 14 myself but my experience might not be as useful, as for my mate she came out by accident as bi, well at school to her mates it was intentional but her brother has found out along with the school and if her brother ever wants sommat he blackmails her cos he knows her parents are homophobic, her Mum read her diary one day and read that she was bi in that and just blurts out homophobic comments now and is in denial, and at school she often gets bulliedLGBT: When did you come out? Advice for me?
I know you want to be free, but in your situation with so much against you, I wouldn't come out until 16 or 18ish....
And you also must have a place to stay if you think you are going to come out to them because they might not like it and send you packing.
14 is just too tender of an age (I'm sorry but it's true) for you to come out to homophobic parents and sisters that might tell daddy.
I don't know what else to say.
But since you asked, I'm 24 and came out when I was about 18 when I was working at Wal-Mart. But I had supportive friends who would encourage me to go to the gay %26amp; lesbian meetings at the college and my mother came around very soon after.
hey you juts take your time in coming out,or when you think the time is right then do it,and if ppl talk they talk and that they should juts get over it cuz life is way to short
What should I do?
Thanks.LGBT: When did you come out? Advice for me?
I've got a mate like that, i came out at 14 myself but my experience might not be as useful, as for my mate she came out by accident as bi, well at school to her mates it was intentional but her brother has found out along with the school and if her brother ever wants sommat he blackmails her cos he knows her parents are homophobic, her Mum read her diary one day and read that she was bi in that and just blurts out homophobic comments now and is in denial, and at school she often gets bulliedLGBT: When did you come out? Advice for me?
I know you want to be free, but in your situation with so much against you, I wouldn't come out until 16 or 18ish....
And you also must have a place to stay if you think you are going to come out to them because they might not like it and send you packing.
14 is just too tender of an age (I'm sorry but it's true) for you to come out to homophobic parents and sisters that might tell daddy.
I don't know what else to say.
But since you asked, I'm 24 and came out when I was about 18 when I was working at Wal-Mart. But I had supportive friends who would encourage me to go to the gay %26amp; lesbian meetings at the college and my mother came around very soon after.
hey you juts take your time in coming out,or when you think the time is right then do it,and if ppl talk they talk and that they should juts get over it cuz life is way to short
I'm not pregnant but wondering if this had ever happened to you any advice on what it was?
17 years old never had sex not pregnant 1 week off of menstural cycle. and had a little drop of liquid not noticble maybe a cenimeter less than a cometer was there and no more. It was exactley where the nipple is. What is that???? and then it went away fast is it normal for this??
and has happened like twice before but it wasnt any bigger and only happened when the boob was ';perky'; or hard. sorry this is uncomfortable i dont know how to ask...I'm not pregnant but wondering if this had ever happened to you any advice on what it was?
go to your doc straight awayy xI'm not pregnant but wondering if this had ever happened to you any advice on what it was?
Yep, I had this happen to me when I was your age (20 years ago), I went to the doctors, he examined me (embarrasing) and said there was nothing at all to worry about. So, don't worry. But if you are concerned get checked out.
i'd go see ur dr just to be safe it could be something to do wit ur ovulation patterns n stuff but it might b something more sinister ur dr will know and they will be able to put ur mind at ease without embarrasement
and has happened like twice before but it wasnt any bigger and only happened when the boob was ';perky'; or hard. sorry this is uncomfortable i dont know how to ask...I'm not pregnant but wondering if this had ever happened to you any advice on what it was?
go to your doc straight awayy xI'm not pregnant but wondering if this had ever happened to you any advice on what it was?
Yep, I had this happen to me when I was your age (20 years ago), I went to the doctors, he examined me (embarrasing) and said there was nothing at all to worry about. So, don't worry. But if you are concerned get checked out.
i'd go see ur dr just to be safe it could be something to do wit ur ovulation patterns n stuff but it might b something more sinister ur dr will know and they will be able to put ur mind at ease without embarrasement
Do you have some advice for coming up with a cool username?
HAHAHAHA what about BJ???
you can always go with IRONMAN....but that's taken!Do you have some advice for coming up with a cool username?
put something really funnyDo you have some advice for coming up with a cool username?
no, but fizzdude actually answered a question
Go with what sounds funny. That's what I do.
Brandon
Evidently not or I would use it myself!!
a favorite song or lyric from a song...anything that means something to ya!!
Type the first three letters of your first name, then, pound the keyboard for your new name.
Example: sjp'Y(U
you can always go with IRONMAN....but that's taken!Do you have some advice for coming up with a cool username?
put something really funnyDo you have some advice for coming up with a cool username?
no, but fizzdude actually answered a question
Go with what sounds funny. That's what I do.
Brandon
Evidently not or I would use it myself!!
a favorite song or lyric from a song...anything that means something to ya!!
Type the first three letters of your first name, then, pound the keyboard for your new name.
Example: sjp'Y(U
Are you good at advice? Please help me out!!!!!?
I borrowed my friend's ipod and LOST IT!!!!!!! What should I tell her tomorrow? I'm panicking!!!!!!!! Should I tell her I'll buy her a new one? WHat should I do??!! HELP ME PEOPLE PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!Are you good at advice? Please help me out!!!!!?
yeah you kinda have to get her a new one, or pay her back for it.. sorry to hear that, unlucky.. if it helps, i was on my way to my friends birthday, stopped in the local town to get an emergancy cigar lighter adapter for my sat nav and came back and they had clamped my car had to pay 拢230 cash on the spot to remove it!Are you good at advice? Please help me out!!!!!?
Go to your friend and say ';I hate telling you this, but I accidentally lost your ipod. I'm very sorry, I did not mean to do so. If you'd like, I will replace it with a new one or pay you back so you can buy your own. I just hope you forgive me for my reckless behaviour';
Really, you couldn't think of that? I didn't lose a friend's ipod, yet it came straight to my mind.
Yeah explain what happend and tell her you will buy her a new one. Goodluck finding it though. or you could borrow like 2oo bucks and buy her one tonight then give it to her explaining what happend and she would be like omg you didnt have to and stuff like that.
Look for it again. And if for sure you lost it. Confront her and tell her the truth. Dont be afraid! And yes offer to buy her a new one because it was your responsibility :/ I know it hurts to waste all that money but you gotta do it! Good Luck (:
well look for it!!!!!!! but if you can't find it buy her a new one!!!! for tommorow just talk her you forgot or something and if you can't find go buy her a new one!!!!!!
buy her a new one
lol....either u tell her what happened....or u buy her a new one...zits
yeah you kinda have to get her a new one, or pay her back for it.. sorry to hear that, unlucky.. if it helps, i was on my way to my friends birthday, stopped in the local town to get an emergancy cigar lighter adapter for my sat nav and came back and they had clamped my car had to pay 拢230 cash on the spot to remove it!Are you good at advice? Please help me out!!!!!?
Go to your friend and say ';I hate telling you this, but I accidentally lost your ipod. I'm very sorry, I did not mean to do so. If you'd like, I will replace it with a new one or pay you back so you can buy your own. I just hope you forgive me for my reckless behaviour';
Really, you couldn't think of that? I didn't lose a friend's ipod, yet it came straight to my mind.
Yeah explain what happend and tell her you will buy her a new one. Goodluck finding it though. or you could borrow like 2oo bucks and buy her one tonight then give it to her explaining what happend and she would be like omg you didnt have to and stuff like that.
Look for it again. And if for sure you lost it. Confront her and tell her the truth. Dont be afraid! And yes offer to buy her a new one because it was your responsibility :/ I know it hurts to waste all that money but you gotta do it! Good Luck (:
well look for it!!!!!!! but if you can't find it buy her a new one!!!! for tommorow just talk her you forgot or something and if you can't find go buy her a new one!!!!!!
buy her a new one
lol....either u tell her what happened....or u buy her a new one...
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Need advice.....what do you think??
ok well i know i had a period oct i cant remember what day it ended and it was really light and was real dark and almost kinda dry i have been really gassy, and been burping, a lot having a whole lot of heart burn, headaches, some stomach cramping,hubby says mood swings (i dont see that),been having a clear discharge, really tired all the time,on the verge of crying for the stupidest things took a test like three days ago and was neg what do you think any adviceNeed advice.....what do you think??
I am having that exact problem. I have had 3 negs but still no AF and I am 3 Days late. Wait a week and test again id AF doesn't come to visit or go to the doctor. You should use a cycle charting site like www.mymonthlycycles.com or www.fertilityfriend.com!!Need advice.....what do you think??
I'd say wait a few more days...test again...or just go to your local hospital lab and ask for a blood test. They are ten bucks where I'm from...and you'll know for sure within a few hours. Good luck!
wait another week and test again..
I am having that exact problem. I have had 3 negs but still no AF and I am 3 Days late. Wait a week and test again id AF doesn't come to visit or go to the doctor. You should use a cycle charting site like www.mymonthlycycles.com or www.fertilityfriend.com!!Need advice.....what do you think??
I'd say wait a few more days...test again...or just go to your local hospital lab and ask for a blood test. They are ten bucks where I'm from...and you'll know for sure within a few hours. Good luck!
wait another week and test again..
Need some advice Please and Thank you?
Okay so today is my last day of my period. Hoping November is my month :)..When do you think i will ovulate?...
Baby Dust To All TCC....Need some advice Please and Thank you?
This can be hard to answer if you don't know when you usually O. For example, I tend to O on CD 17 (although sometimes I do O earlier). Now, they say the '; average'; woman O on CD14. Maybe so, but I certainly wasn't O on that day. So, if you yet have not tried charting your BBT (basal body temp) I would suggest to start--it really is a great asset when ttc! But, just by playing by ear, by looking at women's averages, by knowing today was the last day of your period...hmmm....when did you start your period? That's also an important question. I'll assume you started 4 days ago...that means that CD 1 for you was around Novemeber 7 plus 14 days, that gives you November 21.... So, if indeed you do O around CD14, then you should have sex around Novemeber 21, a few days before also, and a few days after too (since we don't know when you O).
You may find helpful tutorials on fertilityfriend.com regarding charting BBT.Need some advice Please and Thank you?
ok go mark on your calendar the day u started ur period thats day 1!! count along to days 11,12,13,14 these should b ur ovulation days and best chance of getting pregnant good luck and lots of baby dustXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
There r many websites that have free ovulation calendars. Try babymed.com. u can also get ovulation tests at walmart, walgreens to help along the way!!!!
Good luck
Baby Dust To All TCC....Need some advice Please and Thank you?
This can be hard to answer if you don't know when you usually O. For example, I tend to O on CD 17 (although sometimes I do O earlier). Now, they say the '; average'; woman O on CD14. Maybe so, but I certainly wasn't O on that day. So, if you yet have not tried charting your BBT (basal body temp) I would suggest to start--it really is a great asset when ttc! But, just by playing by ear, by looking at women's averages, by knowing today was the last day of your period...hmmm....when did you start your period? That's also an important question. I'll assume you started 4 days ago...that means that CD 1 for you was around Novemeber 7 plus 14 days, that gives you November 21.... So, if indeed you do O around CD14, then you should have sex around Novemeber 21, a few days before also, and a few days after too (since we don't know when you O).
You may find helpful tutorials on fertilityfriend.com regarding charting BBT.Need some advice Please and Thank you?
ok go mark on your calendar the day u started ur period thats day 1!! count along to days 11,12,13,14 these should b ur ovulation days and best chance of getting pregnant good luck and lots of baby dustXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
There r many websites that have free ovulation calendars. Try babymed.com. u can also get ovulation tests at walmart, walgreens to help along the way!!!!
Good luck
New Swimmer. Do you have any advice?Please and Thankyou. [:?
Well I'm 14. I know how to swim and I've been a swimmer since about 3rd grade, but I've never tried swimming laps. I'm undergoing a full body change, getting in shape, and I want to learn how to swim faster and longer. Along with practice is there anything else that can help me succeed?New Swimmer. Do you have any advice?Please and Thankyou. [:?
yes definitely practice will help you a lot...you are going to have to work very hard..swimming is one of the hardest sports..it takes work to be a good swimmer..and it is probably going to be very different for you since you are not used to doing laps..many ppl think that you can know how to swim recreationally and then be on a swim team and win races..this is not true, swimming recreationally for fun is a whole different thing than swimming competitively..work on your strokes by doing drills (youll find out what these are) most importantly...learn to kick fast and maintain a steady pace with your kicking during a race...never stop kicking! work with pull buoys to help you strengthen your arms and work on your freestyle strokes! best of luck to you and your swimming! :DNew Swimmer. Do you have any advice?Please and Thankyou. [:?
Practice.. but make sure you gradually get up to long distances. But on your first meet, try short distances (like 50 free) and also a long distance (like 100 or 200 free) to see if you are a sprinter or long distance swimmer. Usually beginners are better at long distance swimming. But on long distances start out at a medium pace, and then on the second to last lap do semi fast and on the last lap give it all you've got. A good exercise to do by yourself while your in a pool just swimming is to do ';pyramid'; it's when you do a 400, then 300, then 200, then 100 then 50. And you go faster each set. Start out reallyyyy easy too. Good luck, and have fun on swim team!
if youve never swam laps before... iits gonna be bard for you lol buut
eat well- if u eat junk then go swim later or the next day, u feel terrible and you dont do as well u could
if you dont have practice every day, run a mile or two, do sit ups, lift weights (like chill exersizing) so u dont get out of shape
make friends with ur team mates, they can help you out a LOT and encourage you to go to and do well at practice.
even if youre really tired, dont give up, think about how FiT ur getting and how good you'll feel knowing u accomplished it.
in your bag, its always a good idea to have a couple extra goggles, caps, shorts, sweats, razors, *extra suit, towel, food high in protein, water gatoraide,
good luck have fuun:)
The main thing i would suggest is just work on your breathing patterns... stick with breathing every three strokes. Also remember to keep kicking no matter what.. the kick is what will make you become a strong swimmer.
Have fun!
yes definitely practice will help you a lot...you are going to have to work very hard..swimming is one of the hardest sports..it takes work to be a good swimmer..and it is probably going to be very different for you since you are not used to doing laps..many ppl think that you can know how to swim recreationally and then be on a swim team and win races..this is not true, swimming recreationally for fun is a whole different thing than swimming competitively..work on your strokes by doing drills (youll find out what these are) most importantly...learn to kick fast and maintain a steady pace with your kicking during a race...never stop kicking! work with pull buoys to help you strengthen your arms and work on your freestyle strokes! best of luck to you and your swimming! :DNew Swimmer. Do you have any advice?Please and Thankyou. [:?
Practice.. but make sure you gradually get up to long distances. But on your first meet, try short distances (like 50 free) and also a long distance (like 100 or 200 free) to see if you are a sprinter or long distance swimmer. Usually beginners are better at long distance swimming. But on long distances start out at a medium pace, and then on the second to last lap do semi fast and on the last lap give it all you've got. A good exercise to do by yourself while your in a pool just swimming is to do ';pyramid'; it's when you do a 400, then 300, then 200, then 100 then 50. And you go faster each set. Start out reallyyyy easy too. Good luck, and have fun on swim team!
if youve never swam laps before... iits gonna be bard for you lol buut
eat well- if u eat junk then go swim later or the next day, u feel terrible and you dont do as well u could
if you dont have practice every day, run a mile or two, do sit ups, lift weights (like chill exersizing) so u dont get out of shape
make friends with ur team mates, they can help you out a LOT and encourage you to go to and do well at practice.
even if youre really tired, dont give up, think about how FiT ur getting and how good you'll feel knowing u accomplished it.
in your bag, its always a good idea to have a couple extra goggles, caps, shorts, sweats, razors, *extra suit, towel, food high in protein, water gatoraide,
good luck have fuun:)
The main thing i would suggest is just work on your breathing patterns... stick with breathing every three strokes. Also remember to keep kicking no matter what.. the kick is what will make you become a strong swimmer.
Have fun!
I'm obsessed with the very thing I hate, do you have advice for me?
From the time I was a child I have been completely devoted to making it into my first choice college. I worked so hard I got completely burnt out, and then I had a breakdown. Before taking a practice ACT I freaked out so badly I ended up having to go to the hospital (definitely embarrassing, thankfully no one outside my family knew).
I feel like school ruined me (my own fault). I ended up becoming depressed, having suicidal thoughts (it's against my religion though, so I didn't do it), an eating disorder, I stopped talking to anyone at all, I didn't sleep, and I just concentrated on getting into college.
Ever since it became too much (though I made sure to still get my 100s) I haven't been able to look at school in the same light. I used to love it, but now I simply hate it (I love to learn though).
Now it's time for me to go to college and I tell myself to get over it, I'll be in a new setting and I have a chance to love school again. But a huge part of me doesn't even want to go. Everyone else is so excited, and I'm already stressed out over making it into graduate school and over studying for next test to get me into grad school.
I'm not sure I can handle anymore school. I feel like the first assignment I have is going to finally cause me to go completely insane. I am so petrified of failing (which for me is a 99, so in the end nothing I do is good enough). I am very concerned that no graduate school will accept me either.
I don't know what to do. No matter what happens I seem to have a limitless supply of motivation, so I can't stop striving. Sometimes I just want to finally say that I give up and that I've had enough, because I have had enough.
I know people recommend praying and volunteering and I've always done both, but this is just something else. And, I have no idea how to solve it.
Do you have any advice for me? Thank you very much! I'm sorry this is so whiny and lame.I'm obsessed with the very thing I hate, do you have advice for me?
Take a year off before you go to college, you deserve it. You don't need to try so hard, who are you even trying to impress?I'm obsessed with the very thing I hate, do you have advice for me?
Put it off for a semester or two til you feel stronger. Maybe by then, you'll love going back, maybe you will extend again. But try to enjoy your life. That is the thing.
well first off if you have never gotten less than 100 on a test i don't think you have to worry about not getting accepted. second i think you should take a step back and really evaluate yourself. do you think you're ready not knowledge wise but health wise? maybe you should take the proverbial semester off and take a vacation...a mental one. clear your head and not think about school for a while. i would not give up on anything cause once you start giving up you won't stop. you seem to have a good head on your shoulders... why don't you use it for the good and well being of you!
-Uh-Oh..- An Overachiever..! -I have a Niece like You... -And She becomes a Drama Queen on Steroids- if she doesn't get the extra 3 points on the Exam that will give her an A+ !!! -So I'll tell YOU, what I tell Her... [My EXACT Words]. '; So WHAT ?!! Are You THAT eager to get to your Grave before everybody Else ??! Is THAT All life MEANS to You- certain letters %26amp; numbers on pieces of paper- that NOBODY is going to remember a week from now ??! WHO are you Competing with ; -your peers or your Obsessions ?!! Life is NOT how well You DO in it ... -It's what You do WITH it- that makes YOU %26amp; Others Happy !!! Lighten UP ! Check out something NEW... Hold a newborn Infant in your Arms -%26amp; forget about Exams. Read a book to an old Lady who can't See anymore- and LOSE the Clock that's ticking away the last hours of her Life... -Find Somebody to help get a ';C'; in something they most certainly WON'T- if you aren't there to help them Pass... THOSE are some of the things that Matter... NOT whether you go to This College or THAT... Those are some of the REAL Things- that MEAN something to Someone, Somewhere...'; Overcome YourSELF, %26amp; Good luck! :)
My my. Sounds like you need a good vacation - and don't study on it!
When you get into college, you would probably benefit by signing up for a Co-Op program or something similar. Having a semester in classes followed by a semester at work is a great way to get a break from the books while building up some valuable work experience related to your college major. It will take you a little longer to graduate, but you will be earning money from the employment and have a really nice resume when you graduate. Graduates with Co-Op experience are usually hired pretty easily.
You sound like me. Do you have issues with approval of others? I mean, you apologized at the end of your schpeel. We wouldn't read it if we didn't want to.
Give yourself a time limit for studying. Tell yourself you will only study for X amount of hours a day or a week and do no more than that. Sometimes over-studying can happen where you try to pack so much information into your head that it becomes disorganized and is counter productive.
I went to grad school, and even tho I didn't get into the one I wanted to, I'm still glad I went. Its also taking me longer than I expected to but you can only do the best you can with what energy you have.
Do what makes you happy and what makes you feel free, and learn to be patient with yourself.
heres some advise, ur way better than u give urself credit for, take a deep breath and relax, u made it! ur in college! all u can do is try ur best and no matter what happens u know u gave ur all!
Hi Lavender,,while i'm reading your post, it reminds me of my psychology class and psychiatric lecture during my school days..it's part of self development..
anyway back to your question, your in college now all you have to do is to be grateful and take it slow..Slow down and pay more attention to the present and World around you..
Well, prayer would help you a lot as long as you are sincere of it..
Make up your mind of what you really want..脺
I feel like school ruined me (my own fault). I ended up becoming depressed, having suicidal thoughts (it's against my religion though, so I didn't do it), an eating disorder, I stopped talking to anyone at all, I didn't sleep, and I just concentrated on getting into college.
Ever since it became too much (though I made sure to still get my 100s) I haven't been able to look at school in the same light. I used to love it, but now I simply hate it (I love to learn though).
Now it's time for me to go to college and I tell myself to get over it, I'll be in a new setting and I have a chance to love school again. But a huge part of me doesn't even want to go. Everyone else is so excited, and I'm already stressed out over making it into graduate school and over studying for next test to get me into grad school.
I'm not sure I can handle anymore school. I feel like the first assignment I have is going to finally cause me to go completely insane. I am so petrified of failing (which for me is a 99, so in the end nothing I do is good enough). I am very concerned that no graduate school will accept me either.
I don't know what to do. No matter what happens I seem to have a limitless supply of motivation, so I can't stop striving. Sometimes I just want to finally say that I give up and that I've had enough, because I have had enough.
I know people recommend praying and volunteering and I've always done both, but this is just something else. And, I have no idea how to solve it.
Do you have any advice for me? Thank you very much! I'm sorry this is so whiny and lame.I'm obsessed with the very thing I hate, do you have advice for me?
Take a year off before you go to college, you deserve it. You don't need to try so hard, who are you even trying to impress?I'm obsessed with the very thing I hate, do you have advice for me?
Put it off for a semester or two til you feel stronger. Maybe by then, you'll love going back, maybe you will extend again. But try to enjoy your life. That is the thing.
well first off if you have never gotten less than 100 on a test i don't think you have to worry about not getting accepted. second i think you should take a step back and really evaluate yourself. do you think you're ready not knowledge wise but health wise? maybe you should take the proverbial semester off and take a vacation...a mental one. clear your head and not think about school for a while. i would not give up on anything cause once you start giving up you won't stop. you seem to have a good head on your shoulders... why don't you use it for the good and well being of you!
-Uh-Oh..- An Overachiever..! -I have a Niece like You... -And She becomes a Drama Queen on Steroids- if she doesn't get the extra 3 points on the Exam that will give her an A+ !!! -So I'll tell YOU, what I tell Her... [My EXACT Words]. '; So WHAT ?!! Are You THAT eager to get to your Grave before everybody Else ??! Is THAT All life MEANS to You- certain letters %26amp; numbers on pieces of paper- that NOBODY is going to remember a week from now ??! WHO are you Competing with ; -your peers or your Obsessions ?!! Life is NOT how well You DO in it ... -It's what You do WITH it- that makes YOU %26amp; Others Happy !!! Lighten UP ! Check out something NEW... Hold a newborn Infant in your Arms -%26amp; forget about Exams. Read a book to an old Lady who can't See anymore- and LOSE the Clock that's ticking away the last hours of her Life... -Find Somebody to help get a ';C'; in something they most certainly WON'T- if you aren't there to help them Pass... THOSE are some of the things that Matter... NOT whether you go to This College or THAT... Those are some of the REAL Things- that MEAN something to Someone, Somewhere...'; Overcome YourSELF, %26amp; Good luck! :)
My my. Sounds like you need a good vacation - and don't study on it!
When you get into college, you would probably benefit by signing up for a Co-Op program or something similar. Having a semester in classes followed by a semester at work is a great way to get a break from the books while building up some valuable work experience related to your college major. It will take you a little longer to graduate, but you will be earning money from the employment and have a really nice resume when you graduate. Graduates with Co-Op experience are usually hired pretty easily.
You sound like me. Do you have issues with approval of others? I mean, you apologized at the end of your schpeel. We wouldn't read it if we didn't want to.
Give yourself a time limit for studying. Tell yourself you will only study for X amount of hours a day or a week and do no more than that. Sometimes over-studying can happen where you try to pack so much information into your head that it becomes disorganized and is counter productive.
I went to grad school, and even tho I didn't get into the one I wanted to, I'm still glad I went. Its also taking me longer than I expected to but you can only do the best you can with what energy you have.
Do what makes you happy and what makes you feel free, and learn to be patient with yourself.
heres some advise, ur way better than u give urself credit for, take a deep breath and relax, u made it! ur in college! all u can do is try ur best and no matter what happens u know u gave ur all!
Hi Lavender,,while i'm reading your post, it reminds me of my psychology class and psychiatric lecture during my school days..it's part of self development..
anyway back to your question, your in college now all you have to do is to be grateful and take it slow..Slow down and pay more attention to the present and World around you..
Well, prayer would help you a lot as long as you are sincere of it..
Make up your mind of what you really want..脺
Can you give me some advice?
whenever I'm alone I have to pretend someone (sometime's anyone) is there to talk to or be with me in any way. Is this normal?Can you give me some advice?
it is for you, ';normal'; is completely subjective. As far as it being healthy and in keeping with common ideas of sanity I say it's alright, if Tom Hanks can talk to a volley ball an entire movie I think you can get away with a little self dialogue.
The only other thing I know is what people have said... ';You Can Talk to Yourself, Just don't answer yourself';Can you give me some advice?
Not exactly normal, but not really rare or very pathological either. Lots of girls have some degree of trouble being alone...which is why some battered wives won't leave their abusive or alcoholic husbands. I would suggest you do some work on this issue, though. If you go into adulthood with this tendency it could lead you to accept bad relationships with men just to have the company.
You could seek some counseling, or you can try to fix this by spending short periods of time alone doing something you enjoy, like reading, sewing, etc., but not online games or interactive games which involve you with others. You can also take walks alone, go shopping alone, etc.. The idea is to gradually get used to being alone for longer and longer periods of time until you are comfortable with it.
If you still find that you have to pretend someone is with you, you can try asking the ';person'; to leave for short periods of time and to come back later. If you can gain control over this habit while you're still young, it will save you bigger and more expensive emotional problems later in life.
Not really but You could pray and talk to Jesus about things.
Actually, it is a way that your brain uses to relieve from being bored, scared, lonely (you get the picture)...it is nothing serious.... i usually talk in my head when im with boring people... hope this helped
it is for you, ';normal'; is completely subjective. As far as it being healthy and in keeping with common ideas of sanity I say it's alright, if Tom Hanks can talk to a volley ball an entire movie I think you can get away with a little self dialogue.
The only other thing I know is what people have said... ';You Can Talk to Yourself, Just don't answer yourself';Can you give me some advice?
Not exactly normal, but not really rare or very pathological either. Lots of girls have some degree of trouble being alone...which is why some battered wives won't leave their abusive or alcoholic husbands. I would suggest you do some work on this issue, though. If you go into adulthood with this tendency it could lead you to accept bad relationships with men just to have the company.
You could seek some counseling, or you can try to fix this by spending short periods of time alone doing something you enjoy, like reading, sewing, etc., but not online games or interactive games which involve you with others. You can also take walks alone, go shopping alone, etc.. The idea is to gradually get used to being alone for longer and longer periods of time until you are comfortable with it.
If you still find that you have to pretend someone is with you, you can try asking the ';person'; to leave for short periods of time and to come back later. If you can gain control over this habit while you're still young, it will save you bigger and more expensive emotional problems later in life.
Not really but You could pray and talk to Jesus about things.
Actually, it is a way that your brain uses to relieve from being bored, scared, lonely (you get the picture)...it is nothing serious.... i usually talk in my head when im with boring people... hope this helped
I'm not pregnant but wondering if this had ever happened to you any advice on what it was?
17 years old never had sex not pregnant 1 week off of menstural cycle. and had a little drop of liquid not noticble maybe a cenimeter less than a cometer was there and no more. It was exactley where the nipple is. What is that???? and then it went away fast is it normal for this??
and has happened like twice before but it wasnt any bigger and only happened when the boob was ';perky'; or hard. sorry this is uncomfortable i dont know how to ask...I'm not pregnant but wondering if this had ever happened to you any advice on what it was?
Yep, I had this happen to me when I was your age (20 years ago), I went to the doctors, he examined me (embarrasing) and said there was nothing at all to worry about. So, don't worry. But if you are concerned get checked out.I'm not pregnant but wondering if this had ever happened to you any advice on what it was?
i'd go see ur dr just to be safe it could be something to do wit ur ovulation patterns n stuff but it might b something more sinister ur dr will know and they will be able to put ur mind at ease without embarrasement
go to your doc straight awayy x
and has happened like twice before but it wasnt any bigger and only happened when the boob was ';perky'; or hard. sorry this is uncomfortable i dont know how to ask...I'm not pregnant but wondering if this had ever happened to you any advice on what it was?
Yep, I had this happen to me when I was your age (20 years ago), I went to the doctors, he examined me (embarrasing) and said there was nothing at all to worry about. So, don't worry. But if you are concerned get checked out.I'm not pregnant but wondering if this had ever happened to you any advice on what it was?
i'd go see ur dr just to be safe it could be something to do wit ur ovulation patterns n stuff but it might b something more sinister ur dr will know and they will be able to put ur mind at ease without embarrasement
go to your doc straight awayy x
Do you have some advice for coming up with a cool username?
HAHAHAHA what about BJ???
you can always go with IRONMAN....but that's taken!Do you have some advice for coming up with a cool username?
no, but fizzdude actually answered a questionDo you have some advice for coming up with a cool username?
put something really funny
a favorite song or lyric from a song...anything that means something to ya!!
Evidently not or I would use it myself!!
Type the first three letters of your first name, then, pound the keyboard for your new name.
Example: sjp'Y(U
Go with what sounds funny. That's what I do.
Brandon
you can always go with IRONMAN....but that's taken!Do you have some advice for coming up with a cool username?
no, but fizzdude actually answered a questionDo you have some advice for coming up with a cool username?
put something really funny
a favorite song or lyric from a song...anything that means something to ya!!
Evidently not or I would use it myself!!
Type the first three letters of your first name, then, pound the keyboard for your new name.
Example: sjp'Y(U
Go with what sounds funny. That's what I do.
Brandon
Are you good at advice? Please help me out!!!!!?
I borrowed my friend's ipod and LOST IT!!!!!!! What should I tell her tomorrow? I'm panicking!!!!!!!! Should I tell her I'll buy her a new one? WHat should I do??!! HELP ME PEOPLE PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!Are you good at advice? Please help me out!!!!!?
yeah you kinda have to get her a new one, or pay her back for it.. sorry to hear that, unlucky.. if it helps, i was on my way to my friends birthday, stopped in the local town to get an emergancy cigar lighter adapter for my sat nav and came back and they had clamped my car had to pay 拢230 cash on the spot to remove it!Are you good at advice? Please help me out!!!!!?
Go to your friend and say ';I hate telling you this, but I accidentally lost your ipod. I'm very sorry, I did not mean to do so. If you'd like, I will replace it with a new one or pay you back so you can buy your own. I just hope you forgive me for my reckless behaviour';
Really, you couldn't think of that? I didn't lose a friend's ipod, yet it came straight to my mind.
Yeah explain what happend and tell her you will buy her a new one. Goodluck finding it though. or you could borrow like 2oo bucks and buy her one tonight then give it to her explaining what happend and she would be like omg you didnt have to and stuff like that.
Look for it again. And if for sure you lost it. Confront her and tell her the truth. Dont be afraid! And yes offer to buy her a new one because it was your responsibility :/ I know it hurts to waste all that money but you gotta do it! Good Luck (:
well look for it!!!!!!! but if you can't find it buy her a new one!!!! for tommorow just talk her you forgot or something and if you can't find go buy her a new one!!!!!!
buy her a new one
lol....either u tell her what happened....or u buy her a new one...
yeah you kinda have to get her a new one, or pay her back for it.. sorry to hear that, unlucky.. if it helps, i was on my way to my friends birthday, stopped in the local town to get an emergancy cigar lighter adapter for my sat nav and came back and they had clamped my car had to pay 拢230 cash on the spot to remove it!Are you good at advice? Please help me out!!!!!?
Go to your friend and say ';I hate telling you this, but I accidentally lost your ipod. I'm very sorry, I did not mean to do so. If you'd like, I will replace it with a new one or pay you back so you can buy your own. I just hope you forgive me for my reckless behaviour';
Really, you couldn't think of that? I didn't lose a friend's ipod, yet it came straight to my mind.
Yeah explain what happend and tell her you will buy her a new one. Goodluck finding it though. or you could borrow like 2oo bucks and buy her one tonight then give it to her explaining what happend and she would be like omg you didnt have to and stuff like that.
Look for it again. And if for sure you lost it. Confront her and tell her the truth. Dont be afraid! And yes offer to buy her a new one because it was your responsibility :/ I know it hurts to waste all that money but you gotta do it! Good Luck (:
well look for it!!!!!!! but if you can't find it buy her a new one!!!! for tommorow just talk her you forgot or something and if you can't find go buy her a new one!!!!!!
buy her a new one
lol....either u tell her what happened....or u buy her a new one...
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