The girl I like told me to change but I need advice from you guys!?

Ok im a little chubby but not obese she said I have to more cooler


( Like how ) she said she didnt want to be mean and say anything but idk wot to do, like here:





1) How do I be 'cooler'?


2) how do I lose weight fast not like a 2 month thing








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Im in seventh grade, but the oldest in the class.The girl I like told me to change but I need advice from you guys!?
She's already told you she thinks she's out of your league. Losing weight and becoming ';cooler'; won't put you in her ';league';. The only interest she'd have in you changing for her (as she's already told you you're not relationship material) is to see how much power she has over you. If you feel you need to lose weight do it for yourself. Any girl who says you have to change is not worth it. Think about it - even if you did become exactly who she says she wanted and you did get to go out with her, you'd always be worried that the old ';real'; you wasn't good enough. As for how do you be ';cooler'; - you don't. Just be you. There's always going to the cool, popular kids and then everybody else. Most of us fit into the everybody else category. It's annoying that most people don't really get to shine around ';cool'; kids, but there's plenty of people who'd probably be told the same thing by a girl with tickets on herself like her. When it comes to losing weight, don't try and do it fast. Watch what you eat - try and substitute junk foods for healthy fruit and veg wherever possible. And make sure you're doing some exercise as reaching for the remote doesn't keep you fit. Sorry I can't tell you she'll fall in love with the new you, but she's not worth the trouble if she can't see the value of the current you. I hope this has helped a bit. Don't worry, you're only in 7th grade and you have a very long time left to grow up before you need to worry about the hassles of relationships. Enjoy being a kid - many adults are jealous of you for your youth!The girl I like told me to change but I need advice from you guys!?
don't change for her that's my advice.
dude, if she's gonna make you change, she isn't worth who you are now. I'm a guy and I'M saying this.
Hmm just be yourself, be laidback and have fun with everything. Being cool isnt everything. Trust me if you want to be cool,youd be in alot more drama. And girls/boys arent everything either, i should know. Don't change for a person either, shes one of the many that should like you for you.
First off, she is a brat! Don't change for anyone else but yourself!! If she doesn't like you for who you are, lose her now!!
If she wants you to become ';cooler'; forget her! I know it's hard but just forget about her. However for your health it may be good to keep an eye on your diet.





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dont ever change for a girl. if she doesnt like you for who you are then she'd not worth it...
dude, really? if she dont like the way are, then too bad, dont change for her. really,... its not worth it. be who you are
hi there,


first of all i would like to say that nobody has the right to tell anyone that they have to change. if she really liked you she'd never have said this and to mention she would of never even dreamed of thinking these thought in her own mind.


i am a girl and i have learned that from experience if you do not fancy the person for whom they really are well get out because tying to change a person only causes complications in a relationship and believe me relationships are hard enough without adding this complication to it.


remember that everybody is different and that is a good think.


don't even contemplate on changing because you will find someone who will love you for who you are and that's what you need in the long run.


you are only young and shouldn't even be thinking about changing any of your characteristics for anybody but only for yourself.


you will learn as you get older, people try to control one another and that is not the right ingredient for a long time passionate relationship.


good luck with your problem and keep in mind that maybe the main problem in your life is this girl so think twice about if you really want to be with her and is she worth all the frustration.


i don't think she is
k dude, i know this is advice from a girl but still. she can go screw herself, you should feel great in the skin you're in and if she doesn't like it, too bad for her.
Well if she is only happy with the outside..she isn't worth it! You are the same person inside at no matter what your weight..so loss her!
how do you be more cooler??? is she dumb


again why do you like this girl she doesn't even like you


for who you are


if you want to lose weight lose weight for you not for somebody your only going to be with for a lil while come on your in 7th grade at least wait till high school your in middle school but how to lose weight do at least 40 crunches in higher in 10 push up every day


but you shouldn't change for a female at all she anit no beyonce she should like you just the way you are matter a fact you shouldnt even give a ****!