This guy likes me for a while now. We are going to the same college. He always stares at me and smile. We are not classmates, but I always run into him a few times per day. Everyday he goes to where I work and look at me. Sometimes, he trys to start a conversation with me, but I can tell he is very shy.
This morning, I wore tight clothes --it shows my figures. He was staring for a long times. Then, he got so excited and shoken the table. He also made some weird noises. I guess he is horny.
Is this a normal behavior? Thank you.
Sorry, English is my second language.Guys. Is this normal? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
Can't say this guy is normal. Most people don't plesure themselves in public. I would not trust this guy.Guys. Is this normal? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
He sounds a bit weird, be careful.
yes it definitly sounds like he likes you, and everything sounded normal right up to the point when he was staring at you for a long time, and shaking the table, and making strange sounds. that part dosn't sound to normal. he could be a perv. stalking you. or just a nerd. either way if you plan on talking to him you need to have a friend with you just incase.
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sounds like he's lusting ater you like a dog for a bone.
what will he do if he gets u, then.
keep away.
lmao sounds like somone was having a play under a table
Yes he dose like you and what he is doing is normal alltho he shouldent do it in class or where ever it was but he would like it if you talked to him
well not doing that kind of stuff in public is normal but he must like you alot then
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Do you have any advice n how to kiss or techniques.?
I've never kissed someone before and i really like this guy and he wants to kiss me.And i want to know what to do.Please help!Do you have any advice n how to kiss or techniques.?
tell him he is your first ....... he will be flattered
tell him he is your first ....... he will be flattered
HEKP ME PLEASE!!i NEED ALL DA ADViCE THT YOU HAVE!!!?
OKAY.i LiKE THiS GUY%26amp;%26amp;FROM WT HE SAYS HE LiKES ME.HES ABSOLUTELY ADOABLE.i LiKE EVERYTHiNG ABOUT HiM.BT THiNG iS HE HAS A GiRL.HE SAYS THEIR ONLY ON FRiENDSHiP LEVEL TO HiM.HE LiKE USED TO KaLL ME EVERY NiGHT BT ONE WEEKEND HE DiDNT EVEN KAll OR TXT.i ASKD WHY HE DiDNT TXT ME THT FRiDAY NiGHT HE SAID HiS PHONE WAS DEAD.LiTTLE DiD i KNO THT HE WAS AT THE MOViES%26amp;%26amp;HiS EXGF WAS THERE.BT HE SWWEARS TO ME THT THEY NEVER DATiNG%26amp;%26amp;i HAVE A REALLY HARD TiME BELiEViNG BOYS BC OF MY PAST WiTH SOME!SO WT WOULD YOU DO???? ]=HEKP ME PLEASE!!i NEED ALL DA ADViCE THT YOU HAVE!!!?
kall? wat's wrong with saying call? but anyways, go out with him, but ask the girl tht's on a ';friendship level'; if they are going out firstHEKP ME PLEASE!!i NEED ALL DA ADViCE THT YOU HAVE!!!?
your typing makes me dizzy.
tell him 2 never call u agin if wat u say iz ture tho and if he tries 2 talk 2 u agin just ignore him but if he touches u knock the livin crap out of him okay
I will answer you,when you write correctly and properly.Grow up.
SHUT THE FCK UP. IM NOT GOING TO EVEN GIVE YOU ADVICE BECAUSE YOU TYPE LIKE A 12 YEAR YEAR OLD PROSTITUTE. learn to type because you are seriously rediculous. and your so call problem? is WAY to juivinile for me-who cares if he didnt text you..life goes on! there are children dying in nigeria and your worried about some tool not texting. grow up PLEASE
WOW DO U HAVE TO WRITE LIKE THIS
dont continue a relationship withhout until he ditches the ex.
snorring
r u a dumb ***. can u not spell correctly. jesus crist
Just stop dating him and just get a new guy....and please write correctly that is one of my pet peevesface blush
kall? wat's wrong with saying call? but anyways, go out with him, but ask the girl tht's on a ';friendship level'; if they are going out firstHEKP ME PLEASE!!i NEED ALL DA ADViCE THT YOU HAVE!!!?
your typing makes me dizzy.
tell him 2 never call u agin if wat u say iz ture tho and if he tries 2 talk 2 u agin just ignore him but if he touches u knock the livin crap out of him okay
I will answer you,when you write correctly and properly.Grow up.
SHUT THE FCK UP. IM NOT GOING TO EVEN GIVE YOU ADVICE BECAUSE YOU TYPE LIKE A 12 YEAR YEAR OLD PROSTITUTE. learn to type because you are seriously rediculous. and your so call problem? is WAY to juivinile for me-who cares if he didnt text you..life goes on! there are children dying in nigeria and your worried about some tool not texting. grow up PLEASE
WOW DO U HAVE TO WRITE LIKE THIS
dont continue a relationship withhout until he ditches the ex.
snorring
r u a dumb ***. can u not spell correctly. jesus crist
Just stop dating him and just get a new guy....and please write correctly that is one of my pet peeves
Please help i cud use some pregnency advice from you?
well im fourteen now yes i know another young preg teen..short story about it i started to date my friends older brothers best friend whos almost nineteen for almost three months now we first had sex after a month of dating and im five weeks in two days. im starting to feel more emotional and tired since im not sleep so great the last two weeks and my boyfriend says he is seeing changes in me he does not like it since I started to yell at him last week since we have no money for food or bills and he yelled back, he works part time but is looking for more work and I go to school we see each other when he gets home around five and talk a bit but he has wants to move into the bedroom for sex a few hours each night and we have been doing that but im getting more iritable and my body is tired and tender and im getting really red and swollen down there and im not sure if this tenderness and soreness is normal or not? he noticed this also but said it looked fine but im not sure of his opinion because of how sexually active we have been he is getting used to it and im not sure if he wants to stop I was almost in tears last night but im also very small down there and it could be from the stretching since he is a larger thicker size? I dont really have anyone but my aunt it ask and she lives a ways awayPlease help i cud use some pregnency advice from you?
I was 14 yrs old when I had my daughter hope all goes well for you and the baby first of all. You could have a yeast infection if its red,itchy and swollen. Go see the doctor or call the doctor.Please help i cud use some pregnency advice from you?
ok troll...you posted this very same exact question several times. I remember reading it. Your picture looks like you are 40 so either you are 40 or you are an old A$$ looking 14 yr old. I felt really bad for you the first time this was posted. Now it's just getting old. Quit with the copy and paste crap already.
It's normal to have swelling during pregnancy because there is increased blood flow to your female parts. Sex can be uncomfortable because of this. If you aren't using anything, a lubricant might be a good investment. If you really are just uncomfortable having sex then don't do it, he should be old enough to understand this. After all he is a grown man and you are just a child. I won't say what I think of your situation, because you are just a confused little girl. But I will say that your ';boyfriend'; should be castrated.
Just watch the vid, that's all I have to say.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fitxofd7k鈥?/a>
First you should definitly schedule a doctors appointment but you might have already since you know exactly how far you are.
Next, The Boyfriend Situation:
If you are feeling uncomforatable having sex with him so much, tell him. Flat out just say NO. I know it can be hard but just do it.
I hope that you have told your parents at least or whoever you live with. Im sure they love you and could help out alot.
Now I'm going to tell you something that I'm sure your not ready to hear:
There is a chance that you might have to do this alone. And I know thats something you probably dont wanna think about but have to. This is not about you and your boyfriend anymore. It's about you and your baby. And you have to do whats best for the both of you guys.
Try to locate a pregnancy center in your town. They always offer great advice and support to young moms.
Just Stay Strong.
I was 14 yrs old when I had my daughter hope all goes well for you and the baby first of all. You could have a yeast infection if its red,itchy and swollen. Go see the doctor or call the doctor.Please help i cud use some pregnency advice from you?
ok troll...you posted this very same exact question several times. I remember reading it. Your picture looks like you are 40 so either you are 40 or you are an old A$$ looking 14 yr old. I felt really bad for you the first time this was posted. Now it's just getting old. Quit with the copy and paste crap already.
It's normal to have swelling during pregnancy because there is increased blood flow to your female parts. Sex can be uncomfortable because of this. If you aren't using anything, a lubricant might be a good investment. If you really are just uncomfortable having sex then don't do it, he should be old enough to understand this. After all he is a grown man and you are just a child. I won't say what I think of your situation, because you are just a confused little girl. But I will say that your ';boyfriend'; should be castrated.
Just watch the vid, that's all I have to say.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fitxofd7k鈥?/a>
First you should definitly schedule a doctors appointment but you might have already since you know exactly how far you are.
Next, The Boyfriend Situation:
If you are feeling uncomforatable having sex with him so much, tell him. Flat out just say NO. I know it can be hard but just do it.
I hope that you have told your parents at least or whoever you live with. Im sure they love you and could help out alot.
Now I'm going to tell you something that I'm sure your not ready to hear:
There is a chance that you might have to do this alone. And I know thats something you probably dont wanna think about but have to. This is not about you and your boyfriend anymore. It's about you and your baby. And you have to do whats best for the both of you guys.
Try to locate a pregnancy center in your town. They always offer great advice and support to young moms.
Just Stay Strong.
Does anyone know how much debt citizens advice help you with?
I have just separated from my husband, unfortunately all the bills we have are in my name, i now owe 拢21.000, I have thought about debt management but so many people have warned me of these type of companies, my sister said about going to citizens advice, taking my bills and asking them to write to the companies, my worry is we have been paying 拢700 a month on the bills and I will now only have 拢140 a month spare to pay the bills, do you know if citizens advice can help or do you think debt management my best course of action. Any help greatly appreciatedDoes anyone know how much debt citizens advice help you with?
Your question is very easy for me to answer! I have been in exactly your position and went everywhere. But I can tell you the only place that will be able to help you are the 'Consumer Credit Counselling Service'. This is a government regulated body who provide a free service for people in your situation. They will ask you to provide all your financial details and they work out your disposable income. when they have done this and you have provided them with details of who you owe money to, you then pay them a set amount by direct debit every month and they then divide that money between the companies you owe money to (even if it is 拢5 per month). They are fantastic and very helpful and friendly. I couldn't recommend them enough. I really hope this helps and you can get their telephone number from their website www.cccs.co.uk. You say that you have 拢140 per month spare, but the government have to allow you certain things in order to maintain a standard of living, for example they allow you 拢10 per month for haircuts.(you wouldn't think it would you!) so you might find that they will say you only have 拢100 per month disposable, in which case you will be better off. Please contact them first thing, you won't regret it!Does anyone know how much debt citizens advice help you with?
Yes they will help no matter how much debt you have. They are free and impartial and will really help you.
I have heard of a lady who owed 拢120,000 and got at least starting advice from CAB.
I wouldn't like to promise what help the CAB will give you but your sister's advice to go and see them is sound. What she shouldn't do is promise what CAB will do for you.
But you must move fast and not put things off any longer. Go and see CAB very soon. And listen to their advice; not your sister or friends.
CAB every time. Debt management take a proportion of your money as well, so it takes even longer to become debt free.
Your question is very easy for me to answer! I have been in exactly your position and went everywhere. But I can tell you the only place that will be able to help you are the 'Consumer Credit Counselling Service'. This is a government regulated body who provide a free service for people in your situation. They will ask you to provide all your financial details and they work out your disposable income. when they have done this and you have provided them with details of who you owe money to, you then pay them a set amount by direct debit every month and they then divide that money between the companies you owe money to (even if it is 拢5 per month). They are fantastic and very helpful and friendly. I couldn't recommend them enough. I really hope this helps and you can get their telephone number from their website www.cccs.co.uk. You say that you have 拢140 per month spare, but the government have to allow you certain things in order to maintain a standard of living, for example they allow you 拢10 per month for haircuts.(you wouldn't think it would you!) so you might find that they will say you only have 拢100 per month disposable, in which case you will be better off. Please contact them first thing, you won't regret it!Does anyone know how much debt citizens advice help you with?
Yes they will help no matter how much debt you have. They are free and impartial and will really help you.
I have heard of a lady who owed 拢120,000 and got at least starting advice from CAB.
I wouldn't like to promise what help the CAB will give you but your sister's advice to go and see them is sound. What she shouldn't do is promise what CAB will do for you.
But you must move fast and not put things off any longer. Go and see CAB very soon. And listen to their advice; not your sister or friends.
CAB every time. Debt management take a proportion of your money as well, so it takes even longer to become debt free.
Hello.. I really could use some serious advice. Could you please help me?
Hello, and thank you for reading this.
First of all, I am currently a 20-year-old college guy and I have not been with any other girls...for too long. I do not have any girl friends that I do hang out, I also do not hang out with my guy friends often because I just like to stay by myself, and keep myself occupied by working on my car.
The last time that I have ever even with a girl was in my freshman year in college, which was about 2 years ago. I am really shy guy, polite and I do realize that I am not the most good looking guy in the whole universe, but I did hear some good remarks on my appearance from other females...
Around my campus, I kind of sense that some women kind of look at my way, but I always feel someone is looking at me...It is so weird, but I just ignore and go to my classes and come back home and study afterwards.
My question is... How could I make myself to be more sociable and make more friends, particularly women friends?
Thank you for listening to my story...Hello.. I really could use some serious advice. Could you please help me?
ok the best thing to do dude is be confident start a conversation with a girl in one of your classes. trust ur gut if you think that she is into the convo then continue talking to her make it priority to talk to her every day. and if you just want to meet more people one friend can git you in with a group of people if u become a good friend of a girl she will want you to meet there friends becausee MOST WOMAN THINK THEY ARE THE MATCH MAKER! or becausee she will want to show off to her friends what she has in her hands and they dont. but all i can realy tell you is be confident always walk like you are the big man on campusHello.. I really could use some serious advice. Could you please help me?
just let ur mind free dude, seriously just talk to random people (girls and guys) and listen to them (very important), make urself feel and look confident about urself by staying in shape (workout) it just makes a difference and makes u feel good and the women might start realizing you. dress proper, ';dressy'; shirts attract girls, be smart, just relax when u talk to people and relax ur body and LEGS so u wont get nervous and shy and just act like as if ur like ';whatever'; when u talk to people and be urself.
I've been so shy for years. Before I got to college I told myself that I just need to suck it up and not be shy. Put myself out there. The worst that could happen was that I got a no. So what? Big deal. That's technically what I was indirectly saying to those I wasn't approaching.
Now I'm in a relationship with sexiness.
Be outgoing! Girls like outgoing guys.If you get talking to a girl or guy in class or whenever ask them for their phone number and get together one night for drinks or something. Make friends and don't be afraid. If you're appealing to people, you've got a good chance of meeting someone really cool and that you enjoy being with. If someone looks at you, then just smile at them. It's nice and friendly. Hope this helps!
get out there! smile back and be confident, girls love a confident man and I am confident that you will do great
First of all, I am currently a 20-year-old college guy and I have not been with any other girls...for too long. I do not have any girl friends that I do hang out, I also do not hang out with my guy friends often because I just like to stay by myself, and keep myself occupied by working on my car.
The last time that I have ever even with a girl was in my freshman year in college, which was about 2 years ago. I am really shy guy, polite and I do realize that I am not the most good looking guy in the whole universe, but I did hear some good remarks on my appearance from other females...
Around my campus, I kind of sense that some women kind of look at my way, but I always feel someone is looking at me...It is so weird, but I just ignore and go to my classes and come back home and study afterwards.
My question is... How could I make myself to be more sociable and make more friends, particularly women friends?
Thank you for listening to my story...Hello.. I really could use some serious advice. Could you please help me?
ok the best thing to do dude is be confident start a conversation with a girl in one of your classes. trust ur gut if you think that she is into the convo then continue talking to her make it priority to talk to her every day. and if you just want to meet more people one friend can git you in with a group of people if u become a good friend of a girl she will want you to meet there friends becausee MOST WOMAN THINK THEY ARE THE MATCH MAKER! or becausee she will want to show off to her friends what she has in her hands and they dont. but all i can realy tell you is be confident always walk like you are the big man on campusHello.. I really could use some serious advice. Could you please help me?
just let ur mind free dude, seriously just talk to random people (girls and guys) and listen to them (very important), make urself feel and look confident about urself by staying in shape (workout) it just makes a difference and makes u feel good and the women might start realizing you. dress proper, ';dressy'; shirts attract girls, be smart, just relax when u talk to people and relax ur body and LEGS so u wont get nervous and shy and just act like as if ur like ';whatever'; when u talk to people and be urself.
I've been so shy for years. Before I got to college I told myself that I just need to suck it up and not be shy. Put myself out there. The worst that could happen was that I got a no. So what? Big deal. That's technically what I was indirectly saying to those I wasn't approaching.
Now I'm in a relationship with sexiness.
Be outgoing! Girls like outgoing guys.If you get talking to a girl or guy in class or whenever ask them for their phone number and get together one night for drinks or something. Make friends and don't be afraid. If you're appealing to people, you've got a good chance of meeting someone really cool and that you enjoy being with. If someone looks at you, then just smile at them. It's nice and friendly. Hope this helps!
get out there! smile back and be confident, girls love a confident man and I am confident that you will do great
Am I being a pain in the back side or what? I need advice from you pregnant ladies.?
I am pregnant, and I never felt so sick in my life this morning I threw up my bile this never happened to me before.
I am trying to cope with sickness at work, I am at work right now by the way.
I called my partner, and I told him to come and pick me up because today I just feel so sick, I cant work! I just wanna lye down and rest.
When I called him he said he cant pick me up, because he is playing football with his friend, and he said he doesn’t have his car with him.
He said to me I was being unfair… like he always does.. we both planned for our 1st pregnancy! I don’t why he is acting like this. He made me cry.
I just want to know if I am wrong, if I am being a pain. Maybe I am but I just don’t realize. (today is his day off that’s why he is having fun).
Please I need some advice.
Am I being a pain in the back side or what? I need advice from you pregnant ladies.?
you're pregnant. you're twice as emotional.
at the beginning i felt as though my fiance didnt give a **** and that i was the only one who even cared that we were having a kid.
He told me he thinks its different for the father, they become attached to the baby when they actually see it face to face, unlike the mother who is attached to it from the beginning.
I had my first ultrasound by myself and i made him come to the second one. When he saw the baby i definately saw him change. He was watching the baby and squeezing my hand and constantly kissing me, which made me realise he did care and seeing the baby affected him as much as it affected me.
As time has gone on he has become more touchy feely to my tummy (i think because now its visible) and i find him talking about things we need to do for me and baby.
It sounds like you're in your first trimester (i just got over that horrible hump) and yeah its normal to be sick and fatigued 24/7. Whoever called it ';morning'; sickness LIED. I was nauseous non stop.
its normal to be emotional, to be sick and to think your partner doesn't care. just wait and see how it pans out later on :)Am I being a pain in the back side or what? I need advice from you pregnant ladies.?
He really is being unfair, although you have probably been a nightmare as your hormones are all over the place. Looking back, I know I was when I was pregnant. I pity my ex husband!
Get a cab home and make him pay for it. Indulge yourself this afternoon.
maybe just a little, there must be some give n take on both hands. u cant ring him everytime u dnt feel well thats a sad part of being pregnant but he shouldnt be so selfish, any ways he should have the car just in case there was an emergancy n u needed to get to hospital.
dont mither over petty things but make him realise wer ur coming from
best of luck xx
you're not in the wrong.
Unfortunately unless someone you're talking to has had really bad morning sickness too ... People tend to not have any sympathy for you.
Men tend to be the top of this list.
And women who had perfect pregnancies or ... Have never been pregnant.
I had really bad morning sickness from the start and i couldn't even make it to work ... So you're doing a lot better than me :)
And as for him making you cry. As much as it's annoying thing to hear. It's your hormones making you overly sensitive. I'm still crying over nothing now.
Get yourself some water to get your fluids back and try eating a few rennie tablets. They settled my stomach sometimes.
Then try eating a little something.
And i agree ... Get a cab if you can. Rest up, listen to your body!
Good luck :)
X
edit: i got a thumbs down ... why ?
infact most people talking sense got thumbs down.
?? strange, obviously never had morning sickness... point proven ha
I was sick in my pregnancy too.. oh and hormonal. Thats all it is. Dont worry if your being a pain in the back. Your earning the right to be!! lol
Try eat salty snacks to replace the salts from vomiting. It also helps settle your stomach... I am in Australia and I used to slowly lick on a teaspoon of vegemite... gross, but it really helped. Try lemonade too. For about 4 weeks that is all I could keep down. Im serious... at work I would just nibble on them, I would be lucky if I ate a bag of plain potato chips every two days. I lost weight, but it did help with the vomiting.
Try keep your mind off things. Its hard especially in the beggining. Your body s creating a person and thats hard work, your bound to be tired. It does ease off as later all the baby needs to do is grow.. hang in there!!
when i was having bad morning sickness literally throwing up every half hour alday every day when i had nothing in my stomach i called my husband home from work because i was that bad and he came straight away unluckily for me i was took into hospital for this but he was brilliant.
your partner should be concentrating on you and his child right now and nothing should stop him from making you more happy or comfortable.
Men don't understand what it is like, I can totally sympathise re the sickness, I am still being sick and sick of it. Does my partner understand how carp I feel? Probably not, but he at least he is sympathetic to me.
Fair enough if he can't come and pick you up and he doesn't have the car, but I think it is a bit mean for him to be saying you are being unfair, no he has got to understand that parenthood starts here, not when the baby arrives and he needs to support you throughout your pregnancy.
Make your own way back home (at least you will have a quite house) and make sure he really suffers when he comes back lol.
How far pregnant are you. Maybe twins??? Being pregnant we look for sympathy, and i think that your husband should be a little bit nicer. You are carrying his baby after all. Usually morning sickness sticks around for about 3 months then should hopefully disappear.
Good Luck.
It's your hormones kicking in so you may be being a bit sensitive. After all if he was a work would you of expected him to pick you up.
Your not being a pain at all, he should be there supporting you. He doesn't understand because he is not the one going through it.
You should talk to him about it and tell him that your really ill and if you've both decided 100% to have this baby together he needs to be supportive toward you.
I've been feeling quite sick lately (morning sickness) but i haven't actually been sick yet soo Good luck, hope you feel better soon :)!
I know exactly how you feel my boyf had me in tears tonight (and hormones too) but i really needed him with me tonight to look after me and give me reassurance etc but instead he goes out partying admittedly he doesn't that often and that's why i let him go because i don't want to take away his freedom (whilst he still has it) but i want him to think about me and how i should be his priority at least i think, i feel awful for saying that but its the truth. i don't think you are being unfair to your partner you should both be enjoying the time you two have together before your little one arrives because then it wont be about just you 2. Good luck xxx
Men do not have a clue when it comes to woman at the best of times. Pregnancy is very tough for woman, we have all the emotions running around all the time aswell as the physical effects sometimes men just don't get it! My partner has read a few books so understands what is going on but whenever i say how i am feeling he says 'oh that is in the book' and that is it, i am finding this quite upsetting because i would like a hug or something abit more then that! I dont think you are being pain. Good luck
It is not your fault if you don't feel your normal self. If you are feeling ill i don't see that you are being a pain! I think he should have more sympathy for you because you are the one carrying the baby! Don't worry...make him feel guilty for not picking you up!
men dont seem to understand what we go through,, how could they?
its horrible im sure he doesnt mean to make u feel bad
get him a book on pregnancy make him read it
good luck and congrats on baby x
OH - you feel sick etc etc. Pregnancy is tough. But I think sometimes there's too much reliance of this for women to nehave like brats. Most of the time its justified but sometimes its not - and I think this is one of those cases.
He's got a day off and he's arranged to do something. Be a big girl and get yourself home some other way. I could understand if you were feeling ill enough to go to hospital that you would want him there but if you're just feeling normal pregnancy sickness I reckon you can just suck it up and get home by cab or public transport. He can look after you later. Don't ruin his day, its not fair.
I think your partner should be more understanding. You are not over reacting - morning sickness can make you feel awful and your partner should not be telling you these things. Tour hormones will be all over the place so don't feel like its you as it really isn't. xx
I am trying to cope with sickness at work, I am at work right now by the way.
I called my partner, and I told him to come and pick me up because today I just feel so sick, I cant work! I just wanna lye down and rest.
When I called him he said he cant pick me up, because he is playing football with his friend, and he said he doesn’t have his car with him.
He said to me I was being unfair… like he always does.. we both planned for our 1st pregnancy! I don’t why he is acting like this. He made me cry.
I just want to know if I am wrong, if I am being a pain. Maybe I am but I just don’t realize. (today is his day off that’s why he is having fun).
Please I need some advice.
Am I being a pain in the back side or what? I need advice from you pregnant ladies.?
you're pregnant. you're twice as emotional.
at the beginning i felt as though my fiance didnt give a **** and that i was the only one who even cared that we were having a kid.
He told me he thinks its different for the father, they become attached to the baby when they actually see it face to face, unlike the mother who is attached to it from the beginning.
I had my first ultrasound by myself and i made him come to the second one. When he saw the baby i definately saw him change. He was watching the baby and squeezing my hand and constantly kissing me, which made me realise he did care and seeing the baby affected him as much as it affected me.
As time has gone on he has become more touchy feely to my tummy (i think because now its visible) and i find him talking about things we need to do for me and baby.
It sounds like you're in your first trimester (i just got over that horrible hump) and yeah its normal to be sick and fatigued 24/7. Whoever called it ';morning'; sickness LIED. I was nauseous non stop.
its normal to be emotional, to be sick and to think your partner doesn't care. just wait and see how it pans out later on :)Am I being a pain in the back side or what? I need advice from you pregnant ladies.?
He really is being unfair, although you have probably been a nightmare as your hormones are all over the place. Looking back, I know I was when I was pregnant. I pity my ex husband!
Get a cab home and make him pay for it. Indulge yourself this afternoon.
maybe just a little, there must be some give n take on both hands. u cant ring him everytime u dnt feel well thats a sad part of being pregnant but he shouldnt be so selfish, any ways he should have the car just in case there was an emergancy n u needed to get to hospital.
dont mither over petty things but make him realise wer ur coming from
best of luck xx
you're not in the wrong.
Unfortunately unless someone you're talking to has had really bad morning sickness too ... People tend to not have any sympathy for you.
Men tend to be the top of this list.
And women who had perfect pregnancies or ... Have never been pregnant.
I had really bad morning sickness from the start and i couldn't even make it to work ... So you're doing a lot better than me :)
And as for him making you cry. As much as it's annoying thing to hear. It's your hormones making you overly sensitive. I'm still crying over nothing now.
Get yourself some water to get your fluids back and try eating a few rennie tablets. They settled my stomach sometimes.
Then try eating a little something.
And i agree ... Get a cab if you can. Rest up, listen to your body!
Good luck :)
X
edit: i got a thumbs down ... why ?
infact most people talking sense got thumbs down.
?? strange, obviously never had morning sickness... point proven ha
I was sick in my pregnancy too.. oh and hormonal. Thats all it is. Dont worry if your being a pain in the back. Your earning the right to be!! lol
Try eat salty snacks to replace the salts from vomiting. It also helps settle your stomach... I am in Australia and I used to slowly lick on a teaspoon of vegemite... gross, but it really helped. Try lemonade too. For about 4 weeks that is all I could keep down. Im serious... at work I would just nibble on them, I would be lucky if I ate a bag of plain potato chips every two days. I lost weight, but it did help with the vomiting.
Try keep your mind off things. Its hard especially in the beggining. Your body s creating a person and thats hard work, your bound to be tired. It does ease off as later all the baby needs to do is grow.. hang in there!!
when i was having bad morning sickness literally throwing up every half hour alday every day when i had nothing in my stomach i called my husband home from work because i was that bad and he came straight away unluckily for me i was took into hospital for this but he was brilliant.
your partner should be concentrating on you and his child right now and nothing should stop him from making you more happy or comfortable.
Men don't understand what it is like, I can totally sympathise re the sickness, I am still being sick and sick of it. Does my partner understand how carp I feel? Probably not, but he at least he is sympathetic to me.
Fair enough if he can't come and pick you up and he doesn't have the car, but I think it is a bit mean for him to be saying you are being unfair, no he has got to understand that parenthood starts here, not when the baby arrives and he needs to support you throughout your pregnancy.
Make your own way back home (at least you will have a quite house) and make sure he really suffers when he comes back lol.
How far pregnant are you. Maybe twins??? Being pregnant we look for sympathy, and i think that your husband should be a little bit nicer. You are carrying his baby after all. Usually morning sickness sticks around for about 3 months then should hopefully disappear.
Good Luck.
It's your hormones kicking in so you may be being a bit sensitive. After all if he was a work would you of expected him to pick you up.
Your not being a pain at all, he should be there supporting you. He doesn't understand because he is not the one going through it.
You should talk to him about it and tell him that your really ill and if you've both decided 100% to have this baby together he needs to be supportive toward you.
I've been feeling quite sick lately (morning sickness) but i haven't actually been sick yet soo Good luck, hope you feel better soon :)!
I know exactly how you feel my boyf had me in tears tonight (and hormones too) but i really needed him with me tonight to look after me and give me reassurance etc but instead he goes out partying admittedly he doesn't that often and that's why i let him go because i don't want to take away his freedom (whilst he still has it) but i want him to think about me and how i should be his priority at least i think, i feel awful for saying that but its the truth. i don't think you are being unfair to your partner you should both be enjoying the time you two have together before your little one arrives because then it wont be about just you 2. Good luck xxx
Men do not have a clue when it comes to woman at the best of times. Pregnancy is very tough for woman, we have all the emotions running around all the time aswell as the physical effects sometimes men just don't get it! My partner has read a few books so understands what is going on but whenever i say how i am feeling he says 'oh that is in the book' and that is it, i am finding this quite upsetting because i would like a hug or something abit more then that! I dont think you are being pain. Good luck
It is not your fault if you don't feel your normal self. If you are feeling ill i don't see that you are being a pain! I think he should have more sympathy for you because you are the one carrying the baby! Don't worry...make him feel guilty for not picking you up!
men dont seem to understand what we go through,, how could they?
its horrible im sure he doesnt mean to make u feel bad
get him a book on pregnancy make him read it
good luck and congrats on baby x
OH - you feel sick etc etc. Pregnancy is tough. But I think sometimes there's too much reliance of this for women to nehave like brats. Most of the time its justified but sometimes its not - and I think this is one of those cases.
He's got a day off and he's arranged to do something. Be a big girl and get yourself home some other way. I could understand if you were feeling ill enough to go to hospital that you would want him there but if you're just feeling normal pregnancy sickness I reckon you can just suck it up and get home by cab or public transport. He can look after you later. Don't ruin his day, its not fair.
I think your partner should be more understanding. You are not over reacting - morning sickness can make you feel awful and your partner should not be telling you these things. Tour hormones will be all over the place so don't feel like its you as it really isn't. xx
I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think I found my true love. We love each other for 4 years. We are separated and have not seen each other for almost 2 years now. We kept in touch as friends. We have very a busy lifestyle. He is a Marine officer. I am working full-times. Moreover, we came from difference cultures and our personalities are so different.
Recently, we were in argument. He was upseted and asked me to leave him alone. I knew he did not mean to hurt my feelings. We still love each other alot.
Many people told me to move on. However, I believe (deep down in my heart and intuition) oneday he will try to pursue a relationship with me. He just waits for the right times--may be 2-5 years from now. Therefore, I should not move on with anybody. I should wait for him because he is my true love.
Please advice. Thank you.I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
If he is your true love, don't listen to your friends. The next thing to do is write him and apologize. Don't let this go another day without saying anything. Let him know how you feel and that you want to get back together. I'm sure he will be very glad to hear from you.I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
If you trully think that he is your true love WAIT. What if you moved on and a year from now he came after you, found out you had been with someone else and then decided that he didn't want anything to do with you anymore!!!!! You would lose him forever and that would hurt the rest of your life. I messed up when I was younger and lost my true love. I still regret it today and would give almost anything not to have been so stupid.
Aww i love this question because i just got back with the guy that ive loved...so we separated due to his reasons but we still loved eachother. I tried to move on but it didnt work because i loved/love him and i knew he did too. So like a few months passed then he calls and says that he's missed me and we got back together..we've been together 2 years btw..
What im getting at is that if you two love eachother then time will bring you guys back together, or you can even call him and tell him how you feel about him because you never know if thats what he wants too. Just don't pretend like your over him if the reaction is different from his side because ive learned its easier trying to move on then trying to forget about that person. Good luck though, it will work out.
Recently, we were in argument. He was upseted and asked me to leave him alone. I knew he did not mean to hurt my feelings. We still love each other alot.
Many people told me to move on. However, I believe (deep down in my heart and intuition) oneday he will try to pursue a relationship with me. He just waits for the right times--may be 2-5 years from now. Therefore, I should not move on with anybody. I should wait for him because he is my true love.
Please advice. Thank you.I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
If he is your true love, don't listen to your friends. The next thing to do is write him and apologize. Don't let this go another day without saying anything. Let him know how you feel and that you want to get back together. I'm sure he will be very glad to hear from you.I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
If you trully think that he is your true love WAIT. What if you moved on and a year from now he came after you, found out you had been with someone else and then decided that he didn't want anything to do with you anymore!!!!! You would lose him forever and that would hurt the rest of your life. I messed up when I was younger and lost my true love. I still regret it today and would give almost anything not to have been so stupid.
Aww i love this question because i just got back with the guy that ive loved...so we separated due to his reasons but we still loved eachother. I tried to move on but it didnt work because i loved/love him and i knew he did too. So like a few months passed then he calls and says that he's missed me and we got back together..we've been together 2 years btw..
What im getting at is that if you two love eachother then time will bring you guys back together, or you can even call him and tell him how you feel about him because you never know if thats what he wants too. Just don't pretend like your over him if the reaction is different from his side because ive learned its easier trying to move on then trying to forget about that person. Good luck though, it will work out.
I want to play violin more than anything in the world. what advice can you give me?
I am very musically talented but i was raised very poor so i never got a chance to play anything other than piano. i like piano but Ive always loved violin...i want to play it so badly..
i want to start violin without a teacher. I found free online lessons. I dont even have a violin yet but i plan to buy one and teach myself since im too poor to afford lessons. my mother wont help either. :/
can you give me advice please? i feel like i cannot live without violin.I want to play violin more than anything in the world. what advice can you give me?
My dear,
I play piano too and my younger sister plays violin. Truth be told, they are probably the most difficult instruments to learn. So just like you've taken piano lessons from a professional instructor, you should do the same with violin. The worst thing you could ever do is be taught wrong and develop a habit. My sister is having a hard time changing her vibrato style because she was taught wrong for so many years. Now she's 14 so she's trying to erase at least five years of incorrect technique.
So don't take cheap lessons from the internet. That's definitely not an option.
Save up for a violin first. If you're truly dedicated, you will do almost anything to learn how.
Another idea: I'm a piano teacher. The money you make from that can be used to buy a violin. TEACH PIANO! It's not too hard. But it also depends what level you are at and how well you work with your students, especially if they are young children.
Think about it. As soon as you dive into it, it will be hard to give it up especially if you invested so much time and money into getting a violin!
Good luck with music. I love it, and clearly you do too. Smiles, ~KARINA~I want to play violin more than anything in the world. what advice can you give me?
well, taking classes by yourself is not so good as a teacher,
but in this case it will help(=
i love violin too, but i don't know how to play it xD
i think that independently of taking classes, the most important thing is that u're disposed to try it (=
%26amp; dude. let me tell u that with that talent u got, you'll became the best violinist(=
hope this help
PD: hope one day i can hear you (sorry for the mistakes, i'm mexican %26amp; i'm nt good in grammar D:)
See:
How to teach yourself the violin
http://beststudentviolins.com/PedagogyTe鈥?/a>
and
Good student violin
http://beststudentviolins.com/violins.ht鈥?/a>face blush
i want to start violin without a teacher. I found free online lessons. I dont even have a violin yet but i plan to buy one and teach myself since im too poor to afford lessons. my mother wont help either. :/
can you give me advice please? i feel like i cannot live without violin.I want to play violin more than anything in the world. what advice can you give me?
My dear,
I play piano too and my younger sister plays violin. Truth be told, they are probably the most difficult instruments to learn. So just like you've taken piano lessons from a professional instructor, you should do the same with violin. The worst thing you could ever do is be taught wrong and develop a habit. My sister is having a hard time changing her vibrato style because she was taught wrong for so many years. Now she's 14 so she's trying to erase at least five years of incorrect technique.
So don't take cheap lessons from the internet. That's definitely not an option.
Save up for a violin first. If you're truly dedicated, you will do almost anything to learn how.
Another idea: I'm a piano teacher. The money you make from that can be used to buy a violin. TEACH PIANO! It's not too hard. But it also depends what level you are at and how well you work with your students, especially if they are young children.
Think about it. As soon as you dive into it, it will be hard to give it up especially if you invested so much time and money into getting a violin!
Good luck with music. I love it, and clearly you do too. Smiles, ~KARINA~I want to play violin more than anything in the world. what advice can you give me?
well, taking classes by yourself is not so good as a teacher,
but in this case it will help(=
i love violin too, but i don't know how to play it xD
i think that independently of taking classes, the most important thing is that u're disposed to try it (=
%26amp; dude. let me tell u that with that talent u got, you'll became the best violinist(=
hope this help
PD: hope one day i can hear you (sorry for the mistakes, i'm mexican %26amp; i'm nt good in grammar D:)
See:
How to teach yourself the violin
http://beststudentviolins.com/PedagogyTe鈥?/a>
and
Good student violin
http://beststudentviolins.com/violins.ht鈥?/a>
Did he throw our stuffs away? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
My ex and I are in different states and the relationship has been rough for the past years. We have been in a few arguments. Finally, we called in quit. He claimed it was my faults --I harassed him and he asked me to stop contact him. He also said ';as much as he loves our gifts--he will send it back to me.
I told him. He can throw everything in the trash can because I don't want it.
I said that because I was angry. I actually have been waiting to get the stuffs back because it is important to me.
How likely it is for him to throw our gifts away?
P.S. Our relationship is like broken glasses. It cannot be fixed. Of course I will never contacted him again. However, I just wish at least he did not throw everything we did (our memories) away.
Thank you.Did he throw our stuffs away? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
aww hunny this is sad.
you shouldnt have got mad.
he was probably shocked by
when u said throw it away
so he did
and it must have been hard for him and
dont think of them as thrown away memories think of it as a big memorie that you will never forget a unforgetable experiance and a leason learned.
and i know you wish he didnt throw it all away
but inside he didnt all the things he throw away
you and him still store in ur hearts
and there it is forever and will never leave
just keep smiling and think of the good not the bad and it hurt him as much as it hurt u
and im sorry u feel u could never fix ur relationship
ily !!Did he throw our stuffs away? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
i agree with the first answer.Some guys will hold on to everything because of fond memories,but alot of other guys including myself if my ex says that i can throw everything away then thats exactly what i will do.
as much as all guys are the same...theyre different to. some guys keep things from past relationships, some dont. because yours was so rocky and the sounds of your conversation, i think he would have thrown it away if you havnt gotten it back in the mail yet. he might of kept a few things though. hope i could hlep in the slightest, sorry theres not a for sure answer.
Well, I don't think it's sad!! Put it behind you and get another man (preferably in your state!!) It is very likely that he will throw the things away, but if he is as heartbroken as you he will hide them either in his closet or under his bead in a box. he will try to not look at the things within the the box, but something urges him to do it anyway. Like you said, broken glass, well, he wont come to you saying sorry or anything, and neither will you to him, so it'd highly unlikely that he will send the stuff back, sorry.
I told him. He can throw everything in the trash can because I don't want it.
I said that because I was angry. I actually have been waiting to get the stuffs back because it is important to me.
How likely it is for him to throw our gifts away?
P.S. Our relationship is like broken glasses. It cannot be fixed. Of course I will never contacted him again. However, I just wish at least he did not throw everything we did (our memories) away.
Thank you.Did he throw our stuffs away? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
aww hunny this is sad.
you shouldnt have got mad.
he was probably shocked by
when u said throw it away
so he did
and it must have been hard for him and
dont think of them as thrown away memories think of it as a big memorie that you will never forget a unforgetable experiance and a leason learned.
and i know you wish he didnt throw it all away
but inside he didnt all the things he throw away
you and him still store in ur hearts
and there it is forever and will never leave
just keep smiling and think of the good not the bad and it hurt him as much as it hurt u
and im sorry u feel u could never fix ur relationship
ily !!Did he throw our stuffs away? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
i agree with the first answer.Some guys will hold on to everything because of fond memories,but alot of other guys including myself if my ex says that i can throw everything away then thats exactly what i will do.
as much as all guys are the same...theyre different to. some guys keep things from past relationships, some dont. because yours was so rocky and the sounds of your conversation, i think he would have thrown it away if you havnt gotten it back in the mail yet. he might of kept a few things though. hope i could hlep in the slightest, sorry theres not a for sure answer.
Well, I don't think it's sad!! Put it behind you and get another man (preferably in your state!!) It is very likely that he will throw the things away, but if he is as heartbroken as you he will hide them either in his closet or under his bead in a box. he will try to not look at the things within the the box, but something urges him to do it anyway. Like you said, broken glass, well, he wont come to you saying sorry or anything, and neither will you to him, so it'd highly unlikely that he will send the stuff back, sorry.
The girl I like told me to change but I need advice from you guys!?
Ok im a little chubby but not obese she said I have to more cooler
( Like how ) she said she didnt want to be mean and say anything but idk wot to do, like here:
1) How do I be 'cooler'?
2) how do I lose weight fast not like a 2 month thing
Comments:
Im in seventh grade, but the oldest in the class.
10 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer.
Additional Details
heres something she said and i responded:
girl i like:but i still dnt think ill date you.
do u think im outta ur league?
Ryanwuzherelol (6:48:30 PM): way out of it.
Girl: lol.The girl I like told me to change but I need advice from you guys!?
This girl is out of order telling you that you need to change, she should accept you for who you are and if she doesn't like it then that's her problem. And really, it sounds like all she's interested in is looks showing that she's shallow; people like that are always best avoided in my opinion.
I think you should try and forget about her and try and talk to girls who are perhaps more interested in the person you are rather than how 'cool' you are or what you look like.
If you're worried about your weight then cut down on snacking and stick to healthier options and increase the amount of excercise you do by maybe going down the gym or just doing excercises at home.
But really if you're trying to get healthier you should do it for yourself, not just because someone told you to.
Hope this helped :)The girl I like told me to change but I need advice from you guys!?
If she doesnt like you the way you are, she is not worth it.
If you are trying to lose weight:
1) you probably dont need to lose weight imediately you are only in the seventh grade you are still growing
2)eating healthier and drinking more water can help tremendously
it give you the automatic results you were hoping for but it will help you in the long run
any girl whom tries to change you isnt really worth it-if she wants to change you now, she'll most probably do it sometime later, and controll you a lot. but as for teh loosing weight thing...drink a lot of water and hot tea more than you eat, try to eat more fruits and veggies and stuff if you dont already do that...
Incidentally, yes i Do
( Like how ) she said she didnt want to be mean and say anything but idk wot to do, like here:
1) How do I be 'cooler'?
2) how do I lose weight fast not like a 2 month thing
Comments:
Im in seventh grade, but the oldest in the class.
10 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer.
Additional Details
heres something she said and i responded:
girl i like:but i still dnt think ill date you.
do u think im outta ur league?
Ryanwuzherelol (6:48:30 PM): way out of it.
Girl: lol.The girl I like told me to change but I need advice from you guys!?
This girl is out of order telling you that you need to change, she should accept you for who you are and if she doesn't like it then that's her problem. And really, it sounds like all she's interested in is looks showing that she's shallow; people like that are always best avoided in my opinion.
I think you should try and forget about her and try and talk to girls who are perhaps more interested in the person you are rather than how 'cool' you are or what you look like.
If you're worried about your weight then cut down on snacking and stick to healthier options and increase the amount of excercise you do by maybe going down the gym or just doing excercises at home.
But really if you're trying to get healthier you should do it for yourself, not just because someone told you to.
Hope this helped :)The girl I like told me to change but I need advice from you guys!?
If she doesnt like you the way you are, she is not worth it.
If you are trying to lose weight:
1) you probably dont need to lose weight imediately you are only in the seventh grade you are still growing
2)eating healthier and drinking more water can help tremendously
it give you the automatic results you were hoping for but it will help you in the long run
any girl whom tries to change you isnt really worth it-if she wants to change you now, she'll most probably do it sometime later, and controll you a lot. but as for teh loosing weight thing...drink a lot of water and hot tea more than you eat, try to eat more fruits and veggies and stuff if you dont already do that...
Incidentally, yes i Do
Are you into kava? I am seeking guidance or advice from someone with experience?
If you are talking Kava the herb...
In large doses is is damaging to the liver, so use in moderation. 10-30 drops of extract in water would be a normal dose - but extracts can vary so be sure to read labels.
I've also had it in tea, very mild effects, and in chocolate, didn't taste very good and I didn't like that it made my mouth numb.
That's all I ever use, I do know it's abused and I think it's dangerous in large quantities. The effect is calming and relaxing, and if you are right minded about tuning into it and relaxing it does not take much at all to have an effect.Are you into kava? I am seeking guidance or advice from someone with experience?
GET-R-DONE
In large doses is is damaging to the liver, so use in moderation. 10-30 drops of extract in water would be a normal dose - but extracts can vary so be sure to read labels.
I've also had it in tea, very mild effects, and in chocolate, didn't taste very good and I didn't like that it made my mouth numb.
That's all I ever use, I do know it's abused and I think it's dangerous in large quantities. The effect is calming and relaxing, and if you are right minded about tuning into it and relaxing it does not take much at all to have an effect.Are you into kava? I am seeking guidance or advice from someone with experience?
GET-R-DONE
I'm in 8th grade and need some strong inspiring advice. Can you help me?
I really like this girl and don't know how to tell her. It's really hard because I like her by first sight and to walk to this girl that doesn't know me and tell her that I like her is crazy. She'll think I'm weird, and I don't want that. I'm really bad when it comes to talking to girls, and I'm outrageously shy. I don't have any classes with this girl. She's always with her friends, and I really have seen any signs that she likes me. She does look in my direction sometimes. Got any advice?I'm in 8th grade and need some strong inspiring advice. Can you help me?
aww the perfect way
for her to notice you is just to say hello when she walks by you thats when she starts to think about you and next day start the conversation abit longer hey how was the maths test for example . she'll start wondering about you and if she starts to make the next convo its a good sign :)
hope i helped :)!I'm in 8th grade and need some strong inspiring advice. Can you help me?
Just walking up to her saying I like you is weird.Anytime you pass by her just say ';Whats up'; in a flirty way, She doesnt really know you so you gotta get her attention.See if shes in any extracurricular activities for school and join them as well.If its cheerleading try for the team or team manager,if its drama or theater arts try being a stage hand.Goodluck.
I eighth grade, you fall in and out of love very easily, I would have to say, just tell her. Even if it does not seem like she likes you, tell her. The worst she can say is no, and soon after, you will probably find someone else you like, who hopefully, likes you back.
If you don't ask her, she will most likely find someone else she wants to date, or someone else will ask her.
Start up a small conversation with her. You don't need to vocalize your love for her right away. Get to know her a little.
Just be yourself, and if that isn't what she's into, you move right on.
do small things. She'll notice. dont go up like an idot and say i like u she will spit on ur shoes and run away. U have to develop soe relationship then ask
don't care about your problem, but nice avatar pic
well if she looks in your direction then she probually knows you. my advise would be not to tell her that you lik her. you should get to know her a little bit. btw in my opinion shy guys are the most nice
dude im in 8th grade and i was faced with your situation too. i could not stop thinking about this girl. Advice: get her number. text for a few days get to know her better. 2) tell her how you feel. 3) judging on how she reacted to you saying that you like her, ask her out!
Dude trust me, if you want it, go after it! be brave my man STAY STRONG!
Find something to talk about... I dunno, get a hershy's kiss and ask her if you could give her a 'kiss'; kinda an ice breaker...
or offer her a anything! it doesn't matter!
remember to just go for it after you get to know her... ';babe ruth could not hit a home run without swinging a bat';
aww the perfect way
for her to notice you is just to say hello when she walks by you thats when she starts to think about you and next day start the conversation abit longer hey how was the maths test for example . she'll start wondering about you and if she starts to make the next convo its a good sign :)
hope i helped :)!I'm in 8th grade and need some strong inspiring advice. Can you help me?
Just walking up to her saying I like you is weird.Anytime you pass by her just say ';Whats up'; in a flirty way, She doesnt really know you so you gotta get her attention.See if shes in any extracurricular activities for school and join them as well.If its cheerleading try for the team or team manager,if its drama or theater arts try being a stage hand.Goodluck.
I eighth grade, you fall in and out of love very easily, I would have to say, just tell her. Even if it does not seem like she likes you, tell her. The worst she can say is no, and soon after, you will probably find someone else you like, who hopefully, likes you back.
If you don't ask her, she will most likely find someone else she wants to date, or someone else will ask her.
Start up a small conversation with her. You don't need to vocalize your love for her right away. Get to know her a little.
Just be yourself, and if that isn't what she's into, you move right on.
do small things. She'll notice. dont go up like an idot and say i like u she will spit on ur shoes and run away. U have to develop soe relationship then ask
don't care about your problem, but nice avatar pic
well if she looks in your direction then she probually knows you. my advise would be not to tell her that you lik her. you should get to know her a little bit. btw in my opinion shy guys are the most nice
dude im in 8th grade and i was faced with your situation too. i could not stop thinking about this girl. Advice: get her number. text for a few days get to know her better. 2) tell her how you feel. 3) judging on how she reacted to you saying that you like her, ask her out!
Dude trust me, if you want it, go after it! be brave my man STAY STRONG!
Find something to talk about... I dunno, get a hershy's kiss and ask her if you could give her a 'kiss'; kinda an ice breaker...
or offer her a anything! it doesn't matter!
remember to just go for it after you get to know her... ';babe ruth could not hit a home run without swinging a bat';
I need advice how do you tell someone you like them?
i really like this boy and he knows it a little because my friend told him i do but he won't believe them and is asking me to tell him PERSONALLY!!!! it's to hard i can't do it HELP!!!!!!!!!!I need advice how do you tell someone you like them?
just say it!
I need advice how do you tell someone you like them?
Personally I suggest you should get him wasted, LOTS and LOTS of alcohol and illegal substances, then I am sure he will say he likes you. On the other hand you could just drop hints until he tells you.
well, my main passion is art.
and i've asked someone out by drawing them something.
maybe you can use your best skill and try to fit it in.
your skills are what you do best and with confidence.
all you need is confidence, right?
i have hard time telling guys i like them too.
but, just telling them flat out is the best best way.
just say it!
I need advice how do you tell someone you like them?
Personally I suggest you should get him wasted, LOTS and LOTS of alcohol and illegal substances, then I am sure he will say he likes you. On the other hand you could just drop hints until he tells you.
well, my main passion is art.
and i've asked someone out by drawing them something.
maybe you can use your best skill and try to fit it in.
your skills are what you do best and with confidence.
all you need is confidence, right?
i have hard time telling guys i like them too.
but, just telling them flat out is the best best way.
Guys. Is this normal? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
This guy likes me for a while now. We are going to the same college. He always stares at me and smile. We are not classmates, but I always run into him a few times per day. Everyday he goes to where I work and look at me. Sometimes, he trys to start a conversation with me, but I can tell he is very shy.
This morning, I wore tight clothes --it shows my figures. He was staring for a long times. Then, he got so excited and shoken the table. He also made some weird noises. I guess he is horny.
Is this a normal behavior? Thank you.
Sorry, English is my second language.Guys. Is this normal? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
certainement pas!
ON AMERICAN PIE ONLY
sounds like he's lusting ater you like a dog for a bone.
what will he do if he gets u, then.
keep away.Guys. Is this normal? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
well not doing that kind of stuff in public is normal but he must like you alot then
Yes he dose like you and what he is doing is normal alltho he shouldent do it in class or where ever it was but he would like it if you talked to him
He sounds a bit weird, be careful.
yes it definitly sounds like he likes you, and everything sounded normal right up to the point when he was staring at you for a long time, and shaking the table, and making strange sounds. that part dosn't sound to normal. he could be a perv. stalking you. or just a nerd. either way if you plan on talking to him you need to have a friend with you just incase.
Can't say this guy is normal. Most people don't plesure themselves in public. I would not trust this guy.
lmao sounds like somone was having a play under a tableface blush
This morning, I wore tight clothes --it shows my figures. He was staring for a long times. Then, he got so excited and shoken the table. He also made some weird noises. I guess he is horny.
Is this a normal behavior? Thank you.
Sorry, English is my second language.Guys. Is this normal? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
certainement pas!
ON AMERICAN PIE ONLY
sounds like he's lusting ater you like a dog for a bone.
what will he do if he gets u, then.
keep away.Guys. Is this normal? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
well not doing that kind of stuff in public is normal but he must like you alot then
Yes he dose like you and what he is doing is normal alltho he shouldent do it in class or where ever it was but he would like it if you talked to him
He sounds a bit weird, be careful.
yes it definitly sounds like he likes you, and everything sounded normal right up to the point when he was staring at you for a long time, and shaking the table, and making strange sounds. that part dosn't sound to normal. he could be a perv. stalking you. or just a nerd. either way if you plan on talking to him you need to have a friend with you just incase.
Can't say this guy is normal. Most people don't plesure themselves in public. I would not trust this guy.
lmao sounds like somone was having a play under a table
Do you have any advice n how to kiss or techniques.?
I've never kissed someone before and i really like this guy and he wants to kiss me.And i want to know what to do.Please help!Do you have any advice n how to kiss or techniques.?
tell him he is your first ....... he will be flattered
tell him he is your first ....... he will be flattered
Could you give advice on these forks?
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im thinking about buying them but am concerned, what should i be careful of when buying expensive forks like this when there in a 'used condition'?
thanks for answering guysCould you give advice on these forks?
From the looks this is a great deal, price for a 2010 is around $1600(U.S.)
Even if it needs new seals I'd get it.Could you give advice on these forks?
Damage to the stanchions, like scratches and gouges etc, will cause leaks. Damage caused by a crash isn't always visible, which is where you might have a problem if you're buying from abroad (I assume you're UK - ebay.co.uk), get them, only to find out they're knacked. Chances are they'd be fine though, they are 40mm so it'd take hell of a blow to hurt them. I'd want them to have had a full service too.
It's a pretty good deal for good forks. Good feedback too. But tbh I'd rather pay extra for ones from the UK I can see in the flesh. But they hardly ever come up, that's the trouble.
You can get a Marzocchi 888 World Cup ('09) with 160-200mm travel at greenfishsports.com for $970, fella---check it out soonest!
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im thinking about buying them but am concerned, what should i be careful of when buying expensive forks like this when there in a 'used condition'?
thanks for answering guysCould you give advice on these forks?
From the looks this is a great deal, price for a 2010 is around $1600(U.S.)
Even if it needs new seals I'd get it.Could you give advice on these forks?
Damage to the stanchions, like scratches and gouges etc, will cause leaks. Damage caused by a crash isn't always visible, which is where you might have a problem if you're buying from abroad (I assume you're UK - ebay.co.uk), get them, only to find out they're knacked. Chances are they'd be fine though, they are 40mm so it'd take hell of a blow to hurt them. I'd want them to have had a full service too.
It's a pretty good deal for good forks. Good feedback too. But tbh I'd rather pay extra for ones from the UK I can see in the flesh. But they hardly ever come up, that's the trouble.
You can get a Marzocchi 888 World Cup ('09) with 160-200mm travel at greenfishsports.com for $970, fella---check it out soonest!
How should I deal with drama at work?In need of good worthy advice.Can you help?
Theres this manager named Freddie,, that work for the same company as I,ve met him a few times, every time we met it was always weird, on one occassion, he refused to come into the office, because I was there, which I could not understand,yet everytime he sees my co worker Johnathan, he would always ask how am I doing., And he has called up to my job a few times asking for me. My co worker Johnathan, told me it was him by his voice. So after that once a week, I'll get calls with someone calling and hanging up from a blocked number.Coincidence?
Anyhow,They let my co worker Johnathan go, and Freddie always calls him to work for him, the very first time he took a job from Freeddie,he told me Freddie asked him ';How was I doing'; and he asked ';So where does she work again'; and ';What time does she get off work';, which is confsuing because hes called up to my job, and has asked about me,so he really knows where I work.
So about three weeks ago, Johnathan tells Freddie, that hes found a new job, so he cannot work for the company any longer.Now, yesterday, i go into the office, and meet with human resources about a personell issue, I was having with an employee, I get a call from Johnathan telling me that Freddie just called him, but he didn't answer the phone, I asked him what time did he call? Johnathan said Freddie called at about 1:00 in the afternoon, about 15 minutes after I left office, keep in mind, he hadnt talked to Freddie in over two weeks, since he had told him he did not need to work anymore.Plus, hes always calling my workers to work for him, when there are plenty of workers who are looking for extra hours..Is this a coincidence or no
Sidenote: Plus, I am getting the blues from people in the office, everytime I try to get in touch with my Branch Manager, he ignores me now.Everytime I try to get in touch with the Schduler/Payroll lady, she ignores my calls always.I had an appointment with the Human Resources Manager, she kept me waiting, while she did interviews,and made phone calls, someone had to reminf her to talk to me.And the weird thing about it is that everyone started acting like this towards me after I talked to Freddie, I invited him out for coffee, but we never went out.Ever since then the people at the office are so rude and mean to me for absolutely no reasonHow should I deal with drama at work?In need of good worthy advice.Can you help?
Do you have any friends there? If no one else will talk to you maybe your friend can find out what's going on. Without some idea of the reasons for this behavior there's nothing you can do.
Anyhow,They let my co worker Johnathan go, and Freddie always calls him to work for him, the very first time he took a job from Freeddie,he told me Freddie asked him ';How was I doing'; and he asked ';So where does she work again'; and ';What time does she get off work';, which is confsuing because hes called up to my job, and has asked about me,so he really knows where I work.
So about three weeks ago, Johnathan tells Freddie, that hes found a new job, so he cannot work for the company any longer.Now, yesterday, i go into the office, and meet with human resources about a personell issue, I was having with an employee, I get a call from Johnathan telling me that Freddie just called him, but he didn't answer the phone, I asked him what time did he call? Johnathan said Freddie called at about 1:00 in the afternoon, about 15 minutes after I left office, keep in mind, he hadnt talked to Freddie in over two weeks, since he had told him he did not need to work anymore.Plus, hes always calling my workers to work for him, when there are plenty of workers who are looking for extra hours..Is this a coincidence or no
Sidenote: Plus, I am getting the blues from people in the office, everytime I try to get in touch with my Branch Manager, he ignores me now.Everytime I try to get in touch with the Schduler/Payroll lady, she ignores my calls always.I had an appointment with the Human Resources Manager, she kept me waiting, while she did interviews,and made phone calls, someone had to reminf her to talk to me.And the weird thing about it is that everyone started acting like this towards me after I talked to Freddie, I invited him out for coffee, but we never went out.Ever since then the people at the office are so rude and mean to me for absolutely no reasonHow should I deal with drama at work?In need of good worthy advice.Can you help?
Do you have any friends there? If no one else will talk to you maybe your friend can find out what's going on. Without some idea of the reasons for this behavior there's nothing you can do.
Could you give me advice for my FF Team?
QB. M. Cassel
RB1 Ch. Johnson
RB2 M. Forte
WR B. Marshall
WR L. Evans
WR L. Fitzgerald
TE J. Carlson
K M. Prater
DEF NYGCould you give me advice for my FF Team?
It would help if we knew your bench, but judging from your starting lineup you have a solid team. I would upgrade at QB, and maybe TE.
Try trading Chris Johnson, Lee Evans, and Matt Cassel, for Kurt Warner, and then a solid replacment at either RB or WR, someone like Brandon Jacobs or Calvin Johnson
Good Luck
Thank you for giving me best answer...lolCould you give me advice for my FF Team?
get a better DEF and QB. They aren't the greatest, but they are average. I would work with them.
your team overall is solid, but if there is better option on the QB and TE in the free agent, i would pick them up. The QB and TE are the only position that i think is weak.
nice team. good depth. should do well.
RB1 Ch. Johnson
RB2 M. Forte
WR B. Marshall
WR L. Evans
WR L. Fitzgerald
TE J. Carlson
K M. Prater
DEF NYGCould you give me advice for my FF Team?
It would help if we knew your bench, but judging from your starting lineup you have a solid team. I would upgrade at QB, and maybe TE.
Try trading Chris Johnson, Lee Evans, and Matt Cassel, for Kurt Warner, and then a solid replacment at either RB or WR, someone like Brandon Jacobs or Calvin Johnson
Good Luck
Thank you for giving me best answer...lolCould you give me advice for my FF Team?
get a better DEF and QB. They aren't the greatest, but they are average. I would work with them.
your team overall is solid, but if there is better option on the QB and TE in the free agent, i would pick them up. The QB and TE are the only position that i think is weak.
nice team. good depth. should do well.
Don't you hate it when you ask for advice on y! and someone always seems to judge you instead..?
of just answering the d@mn question. I can't stand that. We ask for advice and all people can do is judge you and give smart *** remarks.Don't you hate it when you ask for advice on y! and someone always seems to judge you instead..?
OMG! yea i no wat u mean its so annoying lik come on i want advice not smart *** comments. ppl need to grow upDon't you hate it when you ask for advice on y! and someone always seems to judge you instead..?
If its a genuinely stupid question then I can't help myself but make a remark. But then there are so many trolls on here you can't tell real from fake half the time.
I do that sometimes. I try not to, but ever so often it seems like an answer is crystal clear, and I can't understand what the dilemma is.
I apologize for all of those negative comments of the past... and the ones I will do in the future.
I hate it when it happens to me, although I have to admit to being guilty of doing the same dang thing to others sometimes.
Sometimes they just do that. You can't control people's minds. It's just the truth.
yes it is very annoying. especially when sometimes they don't even read the question properly or answer it at all. I had this person answer my question once and going on about he was a relationship counsellor and crap (it was a relationship question) and his answer was so out of line and ignorant and insulting i felt sorry for the people he actually counselled. Its like sometimes people just are working out their own issues and they barely read the question it just reminds them of themselves and they put some big judgemental rant in.
we should line them up and shoot them. :]
pretty sure i mighta done it once or twice but i don't remember! :]face blush
OMG! yea i no wat u mean its so annoying lik come on i want advice not smart *** comments. ppl need to grow upDon't you hate it when you ask for advice on y! and someone always seems to judge you instead..?
If its a genuinely stupid question then I can't help myself but make a remark. But then there are so many trolls on here you can't tell real from fake half the time.
I do that sometimes. I try not to, but ever so often it seems like an answer is crystal clear, and I can't understand what the dilemma is.
I apologize for all of those negative comments of the past... and the ones I will do in the future.
I hate it when it happens to me, although I have to admit to being guilty of doing the same dang thing to others sometimes.
Sometimes they just do that. You can't control people's minds. It's just the truth.
yes it is very annoying. especially when sometimes they don't even read the question properly or answer it at all. I had this person answer my question once and going on about he was a relationship counsellor and crap (it was a relationship question) and his answer was so out of line and ignorant and insulting i felt sorry for the people he actually counselled. Its like sometimes people just are working out their own issues and they barely read the question it just reminds them of themselves and they put some big judgemental rant in.
we should line them up and shoot them. :]
pretty sure i mighta done it once or twice but i don't remember! :]
Im from Philippines working in malaysia planning to go to singapore? please give advice. thank you!?
Hi! im from philippines working in malaysia but my contract is finish with in a week and may multipul entry visa here in malaysia expired in 2weeks tym. im planing to go singapore and look for any possible job. im concern about singapore visa .. i know i need return ticket as a proof that im only tourist but my main point is to look for a job. last 1996-2000 i stayed in singapore as a dependent pass coz my dad before is worked in singapore but now his here with me in malaysia working, and last 2007 me and my wife visit singapore gave 30 days of stay. i was wondering now if i exit singapore. are they gonna allow me to enter singapore? knowing i was in singapore last 2007? if they allow me how many days of visa they can give and stamp it on my passport. is it extendable?
please help. coz this january il meet my wife in singapore she has EPEC pass that she can stay for one year we both gonna look for a job in singapore but i'll me her in singapore coz now she is in philippines..
PLEASE HELP thanks
please help. coz this january il meet my wife in singapore she has EPEC pass that she can stay for one year we both gonna look for a job in singapore but i'll me her in singapore coz now she is in philippines..
PLEASE HELP thanks
How Can I Do This And Do you have Advice?
Ok so i love my best friend. He only sees me as a friend. How do i make him love me? =[How Can I Do This And Do you have Advice?
alright, so i KNOW this is not what you want to hear, but i'm going to say it anyway.
you can't make someone love you.
do you know for sure he only sees you as a friend?
have you told him how you feel?
if you have, i'm afraid there's nothing you can do.
yes, unrequited love sucks, and yes, you'll feel awful and depressed, but you'll move on.
enjoy the friendship. don't sabotage it by doing silly things to try to 'make' him love you. because those things never work and end up making things worse.
i'm sorry, but you'll be ok, i promise :o)
alright, so i KNOW this is not what you want to hear, but i'm going to say it anyway.
you can't make someone love you.
do you know for sure he only sees you as a friend?
have you told him how you feel?
if you have, i'm afraid there's nothing you can do.
yes, unrequited love sucks, and yes, you'll feel awful and depressed, but you'll move on.
enjoy the friendship. don't sabotage it by doing silly things to try to 'make' him love you. because those things never work and end up making things worse.
i'm sorry, but you'll be ok, i promise :o)
Am I being a pain in the back side or what? I need advice from you pregnant ladies.?
I am pregnant, and I never felt so sick in my life this morning I threw up my bile this never happened to me before.
I am trying to cope with sickness at work, I am at work right now by the way.
I called my partner, and I told him to come and pick me up because today I just feel so sick, I cant work! I just wanna lye down and rest.
When I called him he said he cant pick me up, because he is playing football with his friend, and he said he doesn’t have his car with him.
He said to me I was being unfair… like he always does.. we both planned for our 1st pregnancy! I don’t why he is acting like this. He made me cry.
I just want to know if I am wrong, if I am being a pain. Maybe I am but I just don’t realize. (today is his day off that’s why he is having fun).
Please I need some advice.
Am I being a pain in the back side or what? I need advice from you pregnant ladies.?
It's your hormones kicking in so you may be being a bit sensitive. After all if he was a work would you of expected him to pick you up. Am I being a pain in the back side or what? I need advice from you pregnant ladies.?
men dont seem to understand what we go through,, how could they?
its horrible im sure he doesnt mean to make u feel bad
get him a book on pregnancy make him read it
good luck and congrats on baby x
He really is being unfair, although you have probably been a nightmare as your hormones are all over the place. Looking back, I know I was when I was pregnant. I pity my ex husband!
Get a cab home and make him pay for it. Indulge yourself this afternoon.
Your not being a pain at all, he should be there supporting you. He doesn't understand because he is not the one going through it.
You should talk to him about it and tell him that your really ill and if you've both decided 100% to have this baby together he needs to be supportive toward you.
I've been feeling quite sick lately (morning sickness) but i haven't actually been sick yet soo Good luck, hope you feel better soon :)!
maybe just a little, there must be some give n take on both hands. u cant ring him everytime u dnt feel well thats a sad part of being pregnant but he shouldnt be so selfish, any ways he should have the car just in case there was an emergancy n u needed to get to hospital.
dont mither over petty things but make him realise wer ur coming from
best of luck xx
Men do not have a clue when it comes to woman at the best of times. Pregnancy is very tough for woman, we have all the emotions running around all the time aswell as the physical effects sometimes men just don't get it! My partner has read a few books so understands what is going on but whenever i say how i am feeling he says 'oh that is in the book' and that is it, i am finding this quite upsetting because i would like a hug or something abit more then that! I dont think you are being pain. Good luck
you're not in the wrong.
Unfortunately unless someone you're talking to has had really bad morning sickness too ... People tend to not have any sympathy for you.
Men tend to be the top of this list.
And women who had perfect pregnancies or ... Have never been pregnant.
I had really bad morning sickness from the start and i couldn't even make it to work ... So you're doing a lot better than me :)
And as for him making you cry. As much as it's annoying thing to hear. It's your hormones making you overly sensitive. I'm still crying over nothing now.
Get yourself some water to get your fluids back and try eating a few rennie tablets. They settled my stomach sometimes.
Then try eating a little something.
And i agree ... Get a cab if you can. Rest up, listen to your body!
Good luck :)
X
edit: i got a thumbs down ... why ?
infact most people talking sense got thumbs down.
?? strange, obviously never had morning sickness... point proven ha
I know exactly how you feel my boyf had me in tears tonight (and hormones too) but i really needed him with me tonight to look after me and give me reassurance etc but instead he goes out partying admittedly he doesn't that often and that's why i let him go because i don't want to take away his freedom (whilst he still has it) but i want him to think about me and how i should be his priority at least i think, i feel awful for saying that but its the truth. i don't think you are being unfair to your partner you should both be enjoying the time you two have together before your little one arrives because then it wont be about just you 2. Good luck xxx
OH - you feel sick etc etc. Pregnancy is tough. But I think sometimes there's too much reliance of this for women to nehave like brats. Most of the time its justified but sometimes its not - and I think this is one of those cases.
He's got a day off and he's arranged to do something. Be a big girl and get yourself home some other way. I could understand if you were feeling ill enough to go to hospital that you would want him there but if you're just feeling normal pregnancy sickness I reckon you can just suck it up and get home by cab or public transport. He can look after you later. Don't ruin his day, its not fair.
I think your partner should be more understanding. You are not over reacting - morning sickness can make you feel awful and your partner should not be telling you these things. Tour hormones will be all over the place so don't feel like its you as it really isn't. xx
It is not your fault if you don't feel your normal self. If you are feeling ill i don't see that you are being a pain! I think he should have more sympathy for you because you are the one carrying the baby! Don't worry...make him feel guilty for not picking you up!
I was sick in my pregnancy too.. oh and hormonal. Thats all it is. Dont worry if your being a pain in the back. Your earning the right to be!! lol
Try eat salty snacks to replace the salts from vomiting. It also helps settle your stomach... I am in Australia and I used to slowly lick on a teaspoon of vegemite... gross, but it really helped. Try lemonade too. For about 4 weeks that is all I could keep down. Im serious... at work I would just nibble on them, I would be lucky if I ate a bag of plain potato chips every two days. I lost weight, but it did help with the vomiting.
Try keep your mind off things. Its hard especially in the beggining. Your body s creating a person and thats hard work, your bound to be tired. It does ease off as later all the baby needs to do is grow.. hang in there!!
Men don't understand what it is like, I can totally sympathise re the sickness, I am still being sick and sick of it. Does my partner understand how carp I feel? Probably not, but he at least he is sympathetic to me.
Fair enough if he can't come and pick you up and he doesn't have the car, but I think it is a bit mean for him to be saying you are being unfair, no he has got to understand that parenthood starts here, not when the baby arrives and he needs to support you throughout your pregnancy.
Make your own way back home (at least you will have a quite house) and make sure he really suffers when he comes back lol.
you're pregnant. you're twice as emotional.
at the beginning i felt as though my fiance didnt give a **** and that i was the only one who even cared that we were having a kid.
He told me he thinks its different for the father, they become attached to the baby when they actually see it face to face, unlike the mother who is attached to it from the beginning.
I had my first ultrasound by myself and i made him come to the second one. When he saw the baby i definately saw him change. He was watching the baby and squeezing my hand and constantly kissing me, which made me realise he did care and seeing the baby affected him as much as it affected me.
As time has gone on he has become more touchy feely to my tummy (i think because now its visible) and i find him talking about things we need to do for me and baby.
It sounds like you're in your first trimester (i just got over that horrible hump) and yeah its normal to be sick and fatigued 24/7. Whoever called it ';morning'; sickness LIED. I was nauseous non stop.
its normal to be emotional, to be sick and to think your partner doesn't care. just wait and see how it pans out later on :)
How far pregnant are you. Maybe twins??? Being pregnant we look for sympathy, and i think that your husband should be a little bit nicer. You are carrying his baby after all. Usually morning sickness sticks around for about 3 months then should hopefully disappear.
Good Luck.
when i was having bad morning sickness literally throwing up every half hour alday every day when i had nothing in my stomach i called my husband home from work because i was that bad and he came straight away unluckily for me i was took into hospital for this but he was brilliant.
your partner should be concentrating on you and his child right now and nothing should stop him from making you more happy or comfortable.
I am trying to cope with sickness at work, I am at work right now by the way.
I called my partner, and I told him to come and pick me up because today I just feel so sick, I cant work! I just wanna lye down and rest.
When I called him he said he cant pick me up, because he is playing football with his friend, and he said he doesn’t have his car with him.
He said to me I was being unfair… like he always does.. we both planned for our 1st pregnancy! I don’t why he is acting like this. He made me cry.
I just want to know if I am wrong, if I am being a pain. Maybe I am but I just don’t realize. (today is his day off that’s why he is having fun).
Please I need some advice.
Am I being a pain in the back side or what? I need advice from you pregnant ladies.?
It's your hormones kicking in so you may be being a bit sensitive. After all if he was a work would you of expected him to pick you up. Am I being a pain in the back side or what? I need advice from you pregnant ladies.?
men dont seem to understand what we go through,, how could they?
its horrible im sure he doesnt mean to make u feel bad
get him a book on pregnancy make him read it
good luck and congrats on baby x
He really is being unfair, although you have probably been a nightmare as your hormones are all over the place. Looking back, I know I was when I was pregnant. I pity my ex husband!
Get a cab home and make him pay for it. Indulge yourself this afternoon.
Your not being a pain at all, he should be there supporting you. He doesn't understand because he is not the one going through it.
You should talk to him about it and tell him that your really ill and if you've both decided 100% to have this baby together he needs to be supportive toward you.
I've been feeling quite sick lately (morning sickness) but i haven't actually been sick yet soo Good luck, hope you feel better soon :)!
maybe just a little, there must be some give n take on both hands. u cant ring him everytime u dnt feel well thats a sad part of being pregnant but he shouldnt be so selfish, any ways he should have the car just in case there was an emergancy n u needed to get to hospital.
dont mither over petty things but make him realise wer ur coming from
best of luck xx
Men do not have a clue when it comes to woman at the best of times. Pregnancy is very tough for woman, we have all the emotions running around all the time aswell as the physical effects sometimes men just don't get it! My partner has read a few books so understands what is going on but whenever i say how i am feeling he says 'oh that is in the book' and that is it, i am finding this quite upsetting because i would like a hug or something abit more then that! I dont think you are being pain. Good luck
you're not in the wrong.
Unfortunately unless someone you're talking to has had really bad morning sickness too ... People tend to not have any sympathy for you.
Men tend to be the top of this list.
And women who had perfect pregnancies or ... Have never been pregnant.
I had really bad morning sickness from the start and i couldn't even make it to work ... So you're doing a lot better than me :)
And as for him making you cry. As much as it's annoying thing to hear. It's your hormones making you overly sensitive. I'm still crying over nothing now.
Get yourself some water to get your fluids back and try eating a few rennie tablets. They settled my stomach sometimes.
Then try eating a little something.
And i agree ... Get a cab if you can. Rest up, listen to your body!
Good luck :)
X
edit: i got a thumbs down ... why ?
infact most people talking sense got thumbs down.
?? strange, obviously never had morning sickness... point proven ha
I know exactly how you feel my boyf had me in tears tonight (and hormones too) but i really needed him with me tonight to look after me and give me reassurance etc but instead he goes out partying admittedly he doesn't that often and that's why i let him go because i don't want to take away his freedom (whilst he still has it) but i want him to think about me and how i should be his priority at least i think, i feel awful for saying that but its the truth. i don't think you are being unfair to your partner you should both be enjoying the time you two have together before your little one arrives because then it wont be about just you 2. Good luck xxx
OH - you feel sick etc etc. Pregnancy is tough. But I think sometimes there's too much reliance of this for women to nehave like brats. Most of the time its justified but sometimes its not - and I think this is one of those cases.
He's got a day off and he's arranged to do something. Be a big girl and get yourself home some other way. I could understand if you were feeling ill enough to go to hospital that you would want him there but if you're just feeling normal pregnancy sickness I reckon you can just suck it up and get home by cab or public transport. He can look after you later. Don't ruin his day, its not fair.
I think your partner should be more understanding. You are not over reacting - morning sickness can make you feel awful and your partner should not be telling you these things. Tour hormones will be all over the place so don't feel like its you as it really isn't. xx
It is not your fault if you don't feel your normal self. If you are feeling ill i don't see that you are being a pain! I think he should have more sympathy for you because you are the one carrying the baby! Don't worry...make him feel guilty for not picking you up!
I was sick in my pregnancy too.. oh and hormonal. Thats all it is. Dont worry if your being a pain in the back. Your earning the right to be!! lol
Try eat salty snacks to replace the salts from vomiting. It also helps settle your stomach... I am in Australia and I used to slowly lick on a teaspoon of vegemite... gross, but it really helped. Try lemonade too. For about 4 weeks that is all I could keep down. Im serious... at work I would just nibble on them, I would be lucky if I ate a bag of plain potato chips every two days. I lost weight, but it did help with the vomiting.
Try keep your mind off things. Its hard especially in the beggining. Your body s creating a person and thats hard work, your bound to be tired. It does ease off as later all the baby needs to do is grow.. hang in there!!
Men don't understand what it is like, I can totally sympathise re the sickness, I am still being sick and sick of it. Does my partner understand how carp I feel? Probably not, but he at least he is sympathetic to me.
Fair enough if he can't come and pick you up and he doesn't have the car, but I think it is a bit mean for him to be saying you are being unfair, no he has got to understand that parenthood starts here, not when the baby arrives and he needs to support you throughout your pregnancy.
Make your own way back home (at least you will have a quite house) and make sure he really suffers when he comes back lol.
you're pregnant. you're twice as emotional.
at the beginning i felt as though my fiance didnt give a **** and that i was the only one who even cared that we were having a kid.
He told me he thinks its different for the father, they become attached to the baby when they actually see it face to face, unlike the mother who is attached to it from the beginning.
I had my first ultrasound by myself and i made him come to the second one. When he saw the baby i definately saw him change. He was watching the baby and squeezing my hand and constantly kissing me, which made me realise he did care and seeing the baby affected him as much as it affected me.
As time has gone on he has become more touchy feely to my tummy (i think because now its visible) and i find him talking about things we need to do for me and baby.
It sounds like you're in your first trimester (i just got over that horrible hump) and yeah its normal to be sick and fatigued 24/7. Whoever called it ';morning'; sickness LIED. I was nauseous non stop.
its normal to be emotional, to be sick and to think your partner doesn't care. just wait and see how it pans out later on :)
How far pregnant are you. Maybe twins??? Being pregnant we look for sympathy, and i think that your husband should be a little bit nicer. You are carrying his baby after all. Usually morning sickness sticks around for about 3 months then should hopefully disappear.
Good Luck.
when i was having bad morning sickness literally throwing up every half hour alday every day when i had nothing in my stomach i called my husband home from work because i was that bad and he came straight away unluckily for me i was took into hospital for this but he was brilliant.
your partner should be concentrating on you and his child right now and nothing should stop him from making you more happy or comfortable.
I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
I think I found my true love. We love each other for 4 years. We are separated and have not seen each other for almost 2 years now. We kept in touch as friends. We have very a busy lifestyle. He is a Marine officer. I am working full-times. Moreover, we came from difference cultures and our personalities are so different.
Recently, we were in argument. He was upseted and asked me to leave him alone. I knew he did not mean to hurt my feelings. We still love each other alot.
Many people told me to move on. However, I believe (deep down in my heart and intuition) oneday he will try to pursue a relationship with me. He just waits for the right times--may be 2-5 years from now. Therefore, I should not move on with anybody. I should wait for him because he is my true love.
Please advice. Thank you.I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
If you trully think that he is your true love WAIT. What if you moved on and a year from now he came after you, found out you had been with someone else and then decided that he didn't want anything to do with you anymore!!!!! You would lose him forever and that would hurt the rest of your life. I messed up when I was younger and lost my true love. I still regret it today and would give almost anything not to have been so stupid.I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
If he is your true love, don't listen to your friends. The next thing to do is write him and apologize. Don't let this go another day without saying anything. Let him know how you feel and that you want to get back together. I'm sure he will be very glad to hear from you.
Aww i love this question because i just got back with the guy that ive loved...so we separated due to his reasons but we still loved eachother. I tried to move on but it didnt work because i loved/love him and i knew he did too. So like a few months passed then he calls and says that he's missed me and we got back together..we've been together 2 years btw..
What im getting at is that if you two love eachother then time will bring you guys back together, or you can even call him and tell him how you feel about him because you never know if thats what he wants too. Just don't pretend like your over him if the reaction is different from his side because ive learned its easier trying to move on then trying to forget about that person. Good luck though, it will work out.
Recently, we were in argument. He was upseted and asked me to leave him alone. I knew he did not mean to hurt my feelings. We still love each other alot.
Many people told me to move on. However, I believe (deep down in my heart and intuition) oneday he will try to pursue a relationship with me. He just waits for the right times--may be 2-5 years from now. Therefore, I should not move on with anybody. I should wait for him because he is my true love.
Please advice. Thank you.I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
If you trully think that he is your true love WAIT. What if you moved on and a year from now he came after you, found out you had been with someone else and then decided that he didn't want anything to do with you anymore!!!!! You would lose him forever and that would hurt the rest of your life. I messed up when I was younger and lost my true love. I still regret it today and would give almost anything not to have been so stupid.I still want to wait for him? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
If he is your true love, don't listen to your friends. The next thing to do is write him and apologize. Don't let this go another day without saying anything. Let him know how you feel and that you want to get back together. I'm sure he will be very glad to hear from you.
Aww i love this question because i just got back with the guy that ive loved...so we separated due to his reasons but we still loved eachother. I tried to move on but it didnt work because i loved/love him and i knew he did too. So like a few months passed then he calls and says that he's missed me and we got back together..we've been together 2 years btw..
What im getting at is that if you two love eachother then time will bring you guys back together, or you can even call him and tell him how you feel about him because you never know if thats what he wants too. Just don't pretend like your over him if the reaction is different from his side because ive learned its easier trying to move on then trying to forget about that person. Good luck though, it will work out.
I want to play violin more than anything in the world. what advice can you give me?
I am very musically talented but i was raised very poor so i never got a chance to play anything other than piano. i like piano but Ive always loved violin...i want to play it so badly..
i want to start violin without a teacher. I found free online lessons. I dont even have a violin yet but i plan to buy one and teach myself since im too poor to afford lessons. my mother wont help either. :/
can you give me advice please? i feel like i cannot live without violin.I want to play violin more than anything in the world. what advice can you give me?
My dear,
I play piano too and my younger sister plays violin. Truth be told, they are probably the most difficult instruments to learn. So just like you've taken piano lessons from a professional instructor, you should do the same with violin. The worst thing you could ever do is be taught wrong and develop a habit. My sister is having a hard time changing her vibrato style because she was taught wrong for so many years. Now she's 14 so she's trying to erase at least five years of incorrect technique.
So don't take cheap lessons from the internet. That's definitely not an option.
Save up for a violin first. If you're truly dedicated, you will do almost anything to learn how.
Another idea: I'm a piano teacher. The money you make from that can be used to buy a violin. TEACH PIANO! It's not too hard. But it also depends what level you are at and how well you work with your students, especially if they are young children.
Think about it. As soon as you dive into it, it will be hard to give it up especially if you invested so much time and money into getting a violin!
Good luck with music. I love it, and clearly you do too. Smiles, ~KARINA~I want to play violin more than anything in the world. what advice can you give me?
well, taking classes by yourself is not so good as a teacher,
but in this case it will help(=
i love violin too, but i don't know how to play it xD
i think that independently of taking classes, the most important thing is that u're disposed to try it (=
%26amp; dude. let me tell u that with that talent u got, you'll became the best violinist(=
hope this help
PD: hope one day i can hear you (sorry for the mistakes, i'm mexican %26amp; i'm nt good in grammar D:)
See:
How to teach yourself the violin
http://beststudentviolins.com/PedagogyTe鈥?/a>
and
Good student violin
http://beststudentviolins.com/violins.ht鈥?/a>
i want to start violin without a teacher. I found free online lessons. I dont even have a violin yet but i plan to buy one and teach myself since im too poor to afford lessons. my mother wont help either. :/
can you give me advice please? i feel like i cannot live without violin.I want to play violin more than anything in the world. what advice can you give me?
My dear,
I play piano too and my younger sister plays violin. Truth be told, they are probably the most difficult instruments to learn. So just like you've taken piano lessons from a professional instructor, you should do the same with violin. The worst thing you could ever do is be taught wrong and develop a habit. My sister is having a hard time changing her vibrato style because she was taught wrong for so many years. Now she's 14 so she's trying to erase at least five years of incorrect technique.
So don't take cheap lessons from the internet. That's definitely not an option.
Save up for a violin first. If you're truly dedicated, you will do almost anything to learn how.
Another idea: I'm a piano teacher. The money you make from that can be used to buy a violin. TEACH PIANO! It's not too hard. But it also depends what level you are at and how well you work with your students, especially if they are young children.
Think about it. As soon as you dive into it, it will be hard to give it up especially if you invested so much time and money into getting a violin!
Good luck with music. I love it, and clearly you do too. Smiles, ~KARINA~I want to play violin more than anything in the world. what advice can you give me?
well, taking classes by yourself is not so good as a teacher,
but in this case it will help(=
i love violin too, but i don't know how to play it xD
i think that independently of taking classes, the most important thing is that u're disposed to try it (=
%26amp; dude. let me tell u that with that talent u got, you'll became the best violinist(=
hope this help
PD: hope one day i can hear you (sorry for the mistakes, i'm mexican %26amp; i'm nt good in grammar D:)
See:
How to teach yourself the violin
http://beststudentviolins.com/PedagogyTe鈥?/a>
and
Good student violin
http://beststudentviolins.com/violins.ht鈥?/a>
What advice do you wish you had when you got a DUI?
I recently got a DUI in Southern California, and I wanted to get advice from people who have gotten them. What are some tips and pointers you wish you would have had or did have to help you through this?What advice do you wish you had when you got a DUI?
autoinsurance.noneto.com - check these plans. As I know their rates for bad driving record is not such expensive as from other companies.What advice do you wish you had when you got a DUI?
I had to take a class, I think for 4 weeks, during this class they give you a test
They don't tell you that based upon this test score that they can subject you to a mandatory 16 week class
this happened in New Jersey, be wary of written tests that they give you and lie , it felt like i was in russia or somwhere, I found out the place that gave the classes also gave the 16 week course getting money from the state, rip off.
Ohter than that i was honest with my self took my lumps and got on with my life. i didn't try to get a driving to work exception, I just kep getting rides,
I've never had a DUI. I'm smart enough to not drink and drive.
Get a good lawyer and get one quickly. It's worth paying more for the right representation. A quality attorney will make the process much easier to deal with.
I was just arrested for this a couple days ago I wish I would have know how embarrassing it is to be put in lockup. That was not fun at all
Advice you wish you HAD had? That seems really obvious.
DON';T DRINK AND DRIVE!
well for starters, the best advice would be to NOT DRINK AND DRIVE!!face blush
autoinsurance.noneto.com - check these plans. As I know their rates for bad driving record is not such expensive as from other companies.What advice do you wish you had when you got a DUI?
I had to take a class, I think for 4 weeks, during this class they give you a test
They don't tell you that based upon this test score that they can subject you to a mandatory 16 week class
this happened in New Jersey, be wary of written tests that they give you and lie , it felt like i was in russia or somwhere, I found out the place that gave the classes also gave the 16 week course getting money from the state, rip off.
Ohter than that i was honest with my self took my lumps and got on with my life. i didn't try to get a driving to work exception, I just kep getting rides,
I've never had a DUI. I'm smart enough to not drink and drive.
Get a good lawyer and get one quickly. It's worth paying more for the right representation. A quality attorney will make the process much easier to deal with.
I was just arrested for this a couple days ago I wish I would have know how embarrassing it is to be put in lockup. That was not fun at all
Advice you wish you HAD had? That seems really obvious.
DON';T DRINK AND DRIVE!
well for starters, the best advice would be to NOT DRINK AND DRIVE!!
Is a nice place to start a family for many reasons however,It is tuff my only advice to you is have a plan! ?
huh?Is a nice place to start a family for many reasons however,It is tuff my only advice to you is have a plan! ?
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Saaayy Whaat ?
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Advice please you guys.. What is this that I'm going through?
so i moved to Tennessee when i was ten... 6 months later my mom married this guy, he was very close friends with someone named Ed. Ed had two kids, a son Henry and a daughter Miranda. Henry was two years older than I. We had this really cute little kid crush, like no other. A year later we dated. He lived with us at the time but then moved out because his dad got a house. 3 years later he left without telling me to go to Virginia to go to a school to get ready for the army, 4 years passed, we moved and i hadn't heard form him. Saturday i had basketball tournaments, he showed up out of nowhere.. My mom asked me to go with him for the night to get to know him again. We talked for hours upon hours without an akward silence, before i had realized it we were in his car at a park cuddling, he kissed me and i didnt kiss him back because i told him that i want to take it slow. But he still kissed me like four times. He went back to my house that night and we watched a movie i went to bed then the next night we spent together and this morning befor school i woke him up for a hug because he asked me too and he told me he loved me. But theres a catch.. I was dating this girl Whitney, We were still realllllly close trying to make it work. I was also friends with this other girl Sierra who loved me like no other i suppose. She called me crying when i told her about Henry, but Whitney said it would seem right if i chose him.. What do i do.. i know only i can answer that but some advice is nice cause i dont like hurting peopleAdvice please you guys.. What is this that I'm going through?
So you are bisexual?
I think it seems right that you choose Henry. Only if you really like him though.
Will he leave you again and not tell you where he is going? Try and spend a lot of time with him, see how he acts, and get to know him a lot better before you pursue a relationship with him.Advice please you guys.. What is this that I'm going through?
so you're bi?
Are you gay your storry is confusing but go with your heart
sorry for my mistake but r u a guy or a girl cuz it makes two different point of views from u'r telling
So you are bisexual?
I think it seems right that you choose Henry. Only if you really like him though.
Will he leave you again and not tell you where he is going? Try and spend a lot of time with him, see how he acts, and get to know him a lot better before you pursue a relationship with him.Advice please you guys.. What is this that I'm going through?
so you're bi?
Are you gay your storry is confusing but go with your heart
sorry for my mistake but r u a guy or a girl cuz it makes two different point of views from u'r telling
Open for my advice to you ?
It's completely impossible to find someone who won't ever hurt you,
so go for the person who will make the pain worthwhile.Open for my advice to you ?
“You need to change your entire life.”
Change your life. If you want to get better, that is what you have to do. The first step is to read a lot, a whole lot. As we liked to say in our college days, “Don’t start vast projects with half-vast ideas.” You have to be willing to develop an entirely new relationship with libraries. If you are well educated, and especially if you are a health professional, you will have to unlearn much of what you’ve been taught and start afresh with the rather disruptive thought that natural healing may actually work. If you are not highly educated, you will need to abandon your anxiety and fear of reading and doing research.
Now, why would anyone want to register a star in the official star registry? Well, when you name a star and someone 12,000 miles away across the other side of the earth does the same thing at the same time, then it is unclear just whose star it is. Is it your star or is it theirs?
By naming a star and registering it, a person can rest assured that is indeed their star. If anyone tries to register a star that has already been registered they will receive a mild electric shock with increasing voltage depending upon how many additional times they try to register your star.
If this same person says they are the original person to name the star, you can sue them in court for infringement of copyright, trademark, patent and celestial rights. Do you realize how many sun lawsuits are already on the books? About a gazillion would be my guess.
Now, instead of naming a star after yourself, a loved, friend or acquaintance once removed, some people recently have turned to naming a star, after well, a star. In others words, your neighbors, Fred and Betty, may look up into the sky one night and say, ';Look at those two stars really close together. Let's call them Brad and Angelina';. And, so it is done.
Of course those stars have to be registered, but once this is accomplished, you own the rights to the Brad and Angelina celebrity stars. Of course, if the celebs want to sue you in court for naming their stars and trying to keep them, they may very well win and you'll just have to hand them over like the scurvy little dogs that you are.
So, to recap, when you name a star, be sure to register it. If someone tries to infringe upon you star naming endeavor or claim your star for their own, then sue them. If you're sued by a celebrity, give your star to them, but make a big media ruckus over it so that they will pay you off to stop.
Now, go look into the night sky and wait until its very, very dark. Also, remember when you name a star to take a flash picture to document exactly which on it is. You'll need this information later in court.Open for my advice to you ?
I'm already in that position. No Pain though :)
awwww,
true :/
I think that's wonderful advice!!!
harry potter is awesome!
like chick norris?
the female version of chuck, but just as badass
sicko
my wife is a magician...
Brill
I like this quote. :D
i like the quote
so what, are you looking for a rating on the advice? i think its kind of cheesy so 5/10 sorry
ROFL. ^^^^
Jacob, i love you.
makes no sense
Well.. that's a let down. lol
jk x]
good one!
thats cool.
so go for the person who will make the pain worthwhile.Open for my advice to you ?
“You need to change your entire life.”
Change your life. If you want to get better, that is what you have to do. The first step is to read a lot, a whole lot. As we liked to say in our college days, “Don’t start vast projects with half-vast ideas.” You have to be willing to develop an entirely new relationship with libraries. If you are well educated, and especially if you are a health professional, you will have to unlearn much of what you’ve been taught and start afresh with the rather disruptive thought that natural healing may actually work. If you are not highly educated, you will need to abandon your anxiety and fear of reading and doing research.
Now, why would anyone want to register a star in the official star registry? Well, when you name a star and someone 12,000 miles away across the other side of the earth does the same thing at the same time, then it is unclear just whose star it is. Is it your star or is it theirs?
By naming a star and registering it, a person can rest assured that is indeed their star. If anyone tries to register a star that has already been registered they will receive a mild electric shock with increasing voltage depending upon how many additional times they try to register your star.
If this same person says they are the original person to name the star, you can sue them in court for infringement of copyright, trademark, patent and celestial rights. Do you realize how many sun lawsuits are already on the books? About a gazillion would be my guess.
Now, instead of naming a star after yourself, a loved, friend or acquaintance once removed, some people recently have turned to naming a star, after well, a star. In others words, your neighbors, Fred and Betty, may look up into the sky one night and say, ';Look at those two stars really close together. Let's call them Brad and Angelina';. And, so it is done.
Of course those stars have to be registered, but once this is accomplished, you own the rights to the Brad and Angelina celebrity stars. Of course, if the celebs want to sue you in court for naming their stars and trying to keep them, they may very well win and you'll just have to hand them over like the scurvy little dogs that you are.
So, to recap, when you name a star, be sure to register it. If someone tries to infringe upon you star naming endeavor or claim your star for their own, then sue them. If you're sued by a celebrity, give your star to them, but make a big media ruckus over it so that they will pay you off to stop.
Now, go look into the night sky and wait until its very, very dark. Also, remember when you name a star to take a flash picture to document exactly which on it is. You'll need this information later in court.Open for my advice to you ?
I'm already in that position. No Pain though :)
awwww,
true :/
I think that's wonderful advice!!!
harry potter is awesome!
like chick norris?
the female version of chuck, but just as badass
sicko
my wife is a magician...
Brill
I like this quote. :D
i like the quote
so what, are you looking for a rating on the advice? i think its kind of cheesy so 5/10 sorry
ROFL. ^^^^
Jacob, i love you.
makes no sense
Well.. that's a let down. lol
jk x]
good one!
thats cool.
SURVEY: When You Ask A Question & People Tell You What To Do When You're Not Asking For Advice What Do You Do?
E.g.
';Do you like salt?';
';Don't ask this question because someone already asked it';
';What's the weather like?';
';Stop being so unoriginal. it doesn't suit you and people will think things';SURVEY: When You Ask A Question %26amp; People Tell You What To Do When You're Not Asking For Advice What Do You Do?
F*ckwits, the lot of them...pfft!SURVEY: When You Ask A Question %26amp; People Tell You What To Do When You're Not Asking For Advice What Do You Do?
that is annoying. i just give a thumbs down because it's
only a Poll or Survey, and obviously they were asked before.
it's not like it's a question like, ';Who won American Idol?';
and you can just type it in the search bar because most
likely it was asked 100 times already.
they just don't know how to have fun. this is P%26amp;S, and if
they're doing that then maybe they should go to a more
';serious'; section.
:)
I tell them to piss off or something, I hate unsolicited advice. One of my contacts (Meta Knight) is notorious for tearing up people who do that he will add like 50 edits to the question telling them to shut their f*cking mouth and go to hell. HAHAHA!
We have found on here you take the good and leave the bad~like ';off a duck's back.'; Life is too short to waste time on people who don't get you or want to make you just like them or whatever their deal is.
Tell them to shut the f*ck up and back the f*ck off because they are f*cking a@sholes and they need to f*cking find someone else to annoy because you don't need to hear it! Nuff said.
It depends on what kind of a mood I'm in.
Ignore them.
They evidently have nothing better to do, than give somebody a hard time.
Your questions are light, and not so serious, so those that appreciate your fine wit have no problem with them whatsoever!
Keep it up!
Viciously fire back with your own witty retorts and severe the line of contact so that you are victorious and the other person is driven to madness through their own inability to let it go. Vengeance is a dish best served cold
either comment back to them
or
jus let it slide (like i never did see it)
its not my fault they wnt to be grouchy!
i dnt let people on the internet get to me or ruin my day...
its jus a comment...no big deal :)
Why did you waste time capitalizing every word in this question when you could have spent that time rubbing lotion on yourself or someone you love???
if its funny i appreciate some the humor but if its judgemental i get pissed
I ignore them - the assumers of here often provide the most ridiculous answers.
I usually say ';Thank you SO much. you've been most helpful, a$$wipe!';
I know, people are mean.
Don't ask me for my answer b/c I've already answered this.
';Lick myself all over';
answer it as
2 points
No, I either just move on or say something moronic to get the 2 points.
don't matter what they answered, just ignore them.
I don't like this,
ask a question about sleeping instead
tell them shut the **** up and get a life
Ignore them
Block them if I'm crabby, or just ignore them
fly away
kick assss and take names !
ignore them.
i don't give them those 10 points
Ignore them.
You're not my real dad!
I don`t do anything except shake my head.If I wanted advice,I would have asked for it,right?
I comment back, telling them off.
ignore them ^.^ I dont waste my time dealing with people who act that way
ignore them because guess what? at least the question was better than the answer
';Do you like salt?';
';Don't ask this question because someone already asked it';
';What's the weather like?';
';Stop being so unoriginal. it doesn't suit you and people will think things';SURVEY: When You Ask A Question %26amp; People Tell You What To Do When You're Not Asking For Advice What Do You Do?
F*ckwits, the lot of them...pfft!SURVEY: When You Ask A Question %26amp; People Tell You What To Do When You're Not Asking For Advice What Do You Do?
that is annoying. i just give a thumbs down because it's
only a Poll or Survey, and obviously they were asked before.
it's not like it's a question like, ';Who won American Idol?';
and you can just type it in the search bar because most
likely it was asked 100 times already.
they just don't know how to have fun. this is P%26amp;S, and if
they're doing that then maybe they should go to a more
';serious'; section.
:)
I tell them to piss off or something, I hate unsolicited advice. One of my contacts (Meta Knight) is notorious for tearing up people who do that he will add like 50 edits to the question telling them to shut their f*cking mouth and go to hell. HAHAHA!
We have found on here you take the good and leave the bad~like ';off a duck's back.'; Life is too short to waste time on people who don't get you or want to make you just like them or whatever their deal is.
Tell them to shut the f*ck up and back the f*ck off because they are f*cking a@sholes and they need to f*cking find someone else to annoy because you don't need to hear it! Nuff said.
It depends on what kind of a mood I'm in.
Ignore them.
They evidently have nothing better to do, than give somebody a hard time.
Your questions are light, and not so serious, so those that appreciate your fine wit have no problem with them whatsoever!
Keep it up!
Viciously fire back with your own witty retorts and severe the line of contact so that you are victorious and the other person is driven to madness through their own inability to let it go. Vengeance is a dish best served cold
either comment back to them
or
jus let it slide (like i never did see it)
its not my fault they wnt to be grouchy!
i dnt let people on the internet get to me or ruin my day...
its jus a comment...no big deal :)
Why did you waste time capitalizing every word in this question when you could have spent that time rubbing lotion on yourself or someone you love???
if its funny i appreciate some the humor but if its judgemental i get pissed
I ignore them - the assumers of here often provide the most ridiculous answers.
I usually say ';Thank you SO much. you've been most helpful, a$$wipe!';
I know, people are mean.
Don't ask me for my answer b/c I've already answered this.
';Lick myself all over';
answer it as
2 points
No, I either just move on or say something moronic to get the 2 points.
don't matter what they answered, just ignore them.
I don't like this,
ask a question about sleeping instead
tell them shut the **** up and get a life
Ignore them
Block them if I'm crabby, or just ignore them
fly away
kick assss and take names !
ignore them.
i don't give them those 10 points
Ignore them.
You're not my real dad!
I don`t do anything except shake my head.If I wanted advice,I would have asked for it,right?
I comment back, telling them off.
ignore them ^.^ I dont waste my time dealing with people who act that way
ignore them because guess what? at least the question was better than the answer
Need some advice if you've dealt with clinical depression...?
Just looking for a few more opinions. How has it affected your relationships? Do you find it difficult to communicate with the people in your life that you love the most, and find yourself cutting them out of your life? More specifically, have you had to end a relationship because of it, but couldn't bring yourself to communicate any further with that person even if they were offering support and help?? I've found myself in this situation, and don't know what to do to help him. I'm trying to be a friend to him, but he's not very responsive to me and I don't know if I should leave him be or keep offering support and letting him know I am there so he knows that I haven't abandoned him. I'm just having a hard time trying to figure out his unresponsiveness. He doesn't seem to want anything to do with meNeed some advice if you've dealt with clinical depression...?
clinic depression is weird i had two strokes and am depressed alot and only 48 all u can do is be there for them its something they have to work out themselvesNeed some advice if you've dealt with clinical depression...?
i was diagnosed bipolar one at the age of 16. since then i went through many relationships but am now married. my husband worries about me.. but he cant really help that. i have yet to find help with my problems and have been through many many therapists and even more meds. all anyone can do is just be there. offer love and support. just be accepting and supportive. it is not easy for either side . but love is the true conqueror of all. if you love him... then just be there. that's all you can do.
clinic depression is weird i had two strokes and am depressed alot and only 48 all u can do is be there for them its something they have to work out themselvesNeed some advice if you've dealt with clinical depression...?
i was diagnosed bipolar one at the age of 16. since then i went through many relationships but am now married. my husband worries about me.. but he cant really help that. i have yet to find help with my problems and have been through many many therapists and even more meds. all anyone can do is just be there. offer love and support. just be accepting and supportive. it is not easy for either side . but love is the true conqueror of all. if you love him... then just be there. that's all you can do.
DIET INFO...Please could you give advice!!! :)?
I want to try and get a six pack so im doing abs excersise now i need a healthy diet to go on, can anyone give me any advice for ..breakfast, lunch, dinner and drinks + snacks? please anything you know please tell me! thanks!DIET INFO...Please could you give advice!!! :)?
To get a Six-pack you need to do 3 things:
1)cardio
2)diet
3)Training on abs
http://the-secret-to-six-pack-abs.blogspot.com/
http://get-a-flat--stomach.blogspot.com/
http://workout-program.blogspot.com/DIET INFO...Please could you give advice!!! :)?
Eat very healthy dietary foods. EXERCISE A LOT OF THE DAY.
I recommend you my diet way. It works very well and fast. If you are very serious about losing weight. You should check this out diet right way. It will work for you if you do it right. I lost 23 pounds in 6 weeks with this way. You can find more info here link below.
It's pivotal to eat good to remain in good health. Acai berry is an exciting super food which keeps you in good health and additionally has the bonus of assisting you to lose a lot of weight. There is a free trial going on right now at http://wosang.optimalfitness.info , try it out, why not?face blush
To get a Six-pack you need to do 3 things:
1)cardio
2)diet
3)Training on abs
http://the-secret-to-six-pack-abs.blogspot.com/
http://get-a-flat--stomach.blogspot.com/
http://workout-program.blogspot.com/DIET INFO...Please could you give advice!!! :)?
Eat very healthy dietary foods. EXERCISE A LOT OF THE DAY.
I recommend you my diet way. It works very well and fast. If you are very serious about losing weight. You should check this out diet right way. It will work for you if you do it right. I lost 23 pounds in 6 weeks with this way. You can find more info here link below.
It's pivotal to eat good to remain in good health. Acai berry is an exciting super food which keeps you in good health and additionally has the bonus of assisting you to lose a lot of weight. There is a free trial going on right now at http://wosang.optimalfitness.info , try it out, why not?
Can I be sued you 4 $1million because suffered substantial losses as a result my advice?
Anybody can sue anybody! If he can prove it your done...Can I be sued you 4 $1million because suffered substantial losses as a result my advice?
If you gave your advice in writing, the idiot who took it deserves to suffer.Can I be sued you 4 $1million because suffered substantial losses as a result my advice?
Hmm...No...Not If You Give The Judge Cookies
If you gave your advice in writing, the idiot who took it deserves to suffer.Can I be sued you 4 $1million because suffered substantial losses as a result my advice?
Hmm...No...Not If You Give The Judge Cookies
Im moving in University halls of residances tomorrow. If you could give one piece of advice what would it be?
Im a first year!
Im moving in University halls of residances tomorrow. If you could give one piece of advice what would it be?
Be considerate to your room mate and establish mutually agreed ground rules and boundaries. :0)Im moving in University halls of residances tomorrow. If you could give one piece of advice what would it be?
make friends with the residential assistant, it comes in handy when others are making too much noise, when you want to make noise and they can let you into all the odd rooms in the building. In my halls there was a room just filled with duvets, it made for a great party. We could also access the roof. Or you could become an RA yourself, you get paid just for being on duty, half the time you don't have to do anything.
Hope you have built up a high alcohol tolerance level.
Get your own room as soon as possible. I lived in residence halls three years and loved it, but I liked it a lot more the semesters when I had my own room. Dorm rooms are small anyway, and it is pretty hard to live in such cramped quarters with someone else, even someone you like. The two of you sometimes have different schedules, which makes sleeping difficult, and inevitably the other guy will sometimes leave his junk on your side of the room.
If you麓ve got to share a room, I just hope you find someone who is kind of like you: he likes to sleep as much or as little as you do, he is as messy or clean as you are, etc.
Have fun, though! It is a great time of life!
Im moving in University halls of residances tomorrow. If you could give one piece of advice what would it be?
Be considerate to your room mate and establish mutually agreed ground rules and boundaries. :0)Im moving in University halls of residances tomorrow. If you could give one piece of advice what would it be?
make friends with the residential assistant, it comes in handy when others are making too much noise, when you want to make noise and they can let you into all the odd rooms in the building. In my halls there was a room just filled with duvets, it made for a great party. We could also access the roof. Or you could become an RA yourself, you get paid just for being on duty, half the time you don't have to do anything.
Hope you have built up a high alcohol tolerance level.
Get your own room as soon as possible. I lived in residence halls three years and loved it, but I liked it a lot more the semesters when I had my own room. Dorm rooms are small anyway, and it is pretty hard to live in such cramped quarters with someone else, even someone you like. The two of you sometimes have different schedules, which makes sleeping difficult, and inevitably the other guy will sometimes leave his junk on your side of the room.
If you麓ve got to share a room, I just hope you find someone who is kind of like you: he likes to sleep as much or as little as you do, he is as messy or clean as you are, etc.
Have fun, though! It is a great time of life!
Need advice if you've dealt with clinical depression....?
Just looking for a few more opinions. How has it affected your relationships? Do you find it difficult to communicate with the people in your life that you love the most, and find yourself cutting them out of your life? More specifically, have you had to end a relationship because of it, but couldn't bring yourself to communicate any further with that person even if they were offering support and help?? I've found myself in this situation, and don't know what to do to help him. I'm trying to be a friend to him, but he's not very responsive to me and I don't know if I should leave him be or keep offering support and letting him know I am there so he knows that I haven't abandoned him. I'm just having a hard time trying to figure out his unresponsiveness. He doesn't seem to want anything to do with meNeed advice if you've dealt with clinical depression....?
I have experienced depression similar to your bf. I know a guy that is just really nice and caring. It helps me to know that at least someone cares. I think you just need to let him know that you care and be very patient with him. This may be hard but he will know at least that he is not forgotten. Some people are independant and don't want help. This may be the problem here. He doesn't want help and you might be annoying him. Like I said before. Just please be nice to this poor guy and let him know that you are there anad that you care. If you do, he will probably start gaining trust in you slowly and communicate more. I hope that this can help you.Need advice if you've dealt with clinical depression....?
it is nice to be needed like this but look at ur own happiness, i am sure he wants you to be happy but is unable to tell u that..i have this same thing going on as well.... his faith and trust in relationship esp girls has been shattered...and it takes a lifetime , to forget the scars...he has to want to help himself before you can do anything..meanwhile go out ... if he cares as much as he does bout you, he will understand the fact. u never know, this could be the catalyst to help him out, spur him to pursue his own ..........
I have experienced depression similar to your bf. I know a guy that is just really nice and caring. It helps me to know that at least someone cares. I think you just need to let him know that you care and be very patient with him. This may be hard but he will know at least that he is not forgotten. Some people are independant and don't want help. This may be the problem here. He doesn't want help and you might be annoying him. Like I said before. Just please be nice to this poor guy and let him know that you are there anad that you care. If you do, he will probably start gaining trust in you slowly and communicate more. I hope that this can help you.Need advice if you've dealt with clinical depression....?
it is nice to be needed like this but look at ur own happiness, i am sure he wants you to be happy but is unable to tell u that..i have this same thing going on as well.... his faith and trust in relationship esp girls has been shattered...and it takes a lifetime , to forget the scars...he has to want to help himself before you can do anything..meanwhile go out ... if he cares as much as he does bout you, he will understand the fact. u never know, this could be the catalyst to help him out, spur him to pursue his own ..........
Question about eye contact for girls,could you give me your advice?
im going on a date tomorrow,and when i talk to a girl,or a girl is talking to me,i tend to always look into their eyes,like,i wont stop,usually the girl will look away for a second and then go back,,am i like,making her feel akward..ive heard different views on eye contact..your adviceQuestion about eye contact for girls,could you give me your advice?
Eye contact is good, it shows you're interested in what the girl has to say. Without eye contact, she'll probably think you're just wondering off when she's talking, or thinking about other things. If you feel like you're making it awkward, just glance away for 2 seconds or look somewhere else. Or, dont look directly into her eyes for a short time. Usually when eye contact is made, it shows the person is confident and not shy. It also shows you're really into the person. There's nothing wrong with it!
Good Luck!Question about eye contact for girls,could you give me your advice?
You need to break eye contact every so often. Remember, deep down, we are animals. To pack or tribe animals like humans are, an intense stare is both a show of dominance as well as a challenge. When you stare at someone for too long, our primal instincts make us feel intimidated.
Plus it's kind of rude. You don't want to scare the poor girl. Good eye contact shows you are interested, you are listening, and that's great. But blink and look away every so often. And smile.
i love eye contact, if she barely looks at you, then yes its a problem but I would keep looking in her eyes. different girls are different ways, but personally it makes me feel like u are trying 2 look deeper into me and you are curious.
Eye contact is good, it shows you're interested in what the girl has to say. Without eye contact, she'll probably think you're just wondering off when she's talking, or thinking about other things. If you feel like you're making it awkward, just glance away for 2 seconds or look somewhere else. Or, dont look directly into her eyes for a short time. Usually when eye contact is made, it shows the person is confident and not shy. It also shows you're really into the person. There's nothing wrong with it!
Good Luck!Question about eye contact for girls,could you give me your advice?
You need to break eye contact every so often. Remember, deep down, we are animals. To pack or tribe animals like humans are, an intense stare is both a show of dominance as well as a challenge. When you stare at someone for too long, our primal instincts make us feel intimidated.
Plus it's kind of rude. You don't want to scare the poor girl. Good eye contact shows you are interested, you are listening, and that's great. But blink and look away every so often. And smile.
i love eye contact, if she barely looks at you, then yes its a problem but I would keep looking in her eyes. different girls are different ways, but personally it makes me feel like u are trying 2 look deeper into me and you are curious.
Ok, I took your advice, now what do you think of my fashion blog?
I know, I'm asking this all over again, but this time, I took your advice and made some changes. Now what do you think?
Please read it. The very least.
http://poisonedtrees.blogspot.comOk, I took your advice, now what do you think of my fashion blog?
wow we have completely opposite taste except for the uggs i hate them Ok, I took your advice, now what do you think of my fashion blog?
kinda boring.
cool
here's a little critical advice, and i've read plenty of fashion blogs. you need to start making outfits from cheap stores (F21)/your parent's closet, taking a picture of it, saying where you got the things from, ect
i was bored reading about you lusting over marc by marc shoes..and there are only 3-4 posts on the whole thing!
http://unpopcult.blogspot.com/
here's my music blog :)
i think the writing style will come to you..my very first posts were pretty rough
I love it :)
Great job!
sorry but it's really boring to me.
Love it!
Looks like a lot of others ones I've seen.
I'm sorry.
its ok.
its cute. i like the background! haha umm. those shoes are tres hideous. i love marc but sometimes hes too crazy.
Please read it. The very least.
http://poisonedtrees.blogspot.comOk, I took your advice, now what do you think of my fashion blog?
wow we have completely opposite taste except for the uggs i hate them Ok, I took your advice, now what do you think of my fashion blog?
kinda boring.
cool
here's a little critical advice, and i've read plenty of fashion blogs. you need to start making outfits from cheap stores (F21)/your parent's closet, taking a picture of it, saying where you got the things from, ect
i was bored reading about you lusting over marc by marc shoes..and there are only 3-4 posts on the whole thing!
http://unpopcult.blogspot.com/
here's my music blog :)
i think the writing style will come to you..my very first posts were pretty rough
I love it :)
Great job!
sorry but it's really boring to me.
Love it!
Looks like a lot of others ones I've seen.
I'm sorry.
its ok.
its cute. i like the background! haha umm. those shoes are tres hideous. i love marc but sometimes hes too crazy.
What advice would you give to a high school instructor at one of the country's poorest performing schools?
Suppose that you knew someone who was about to become a licensed instructor in a subject say math. This person was an all-honors math student who found the subject needed to be more challenging. The problem is, this person will be teaching at a poorly funded public school where the ';advanced'; courses in algebra and trigonometry are no different than any typical math class offered elsewhere. This person also knows that there will be a few bright kids in class that will see the material as holding them down. But, the school district prefers that more time would be invested for the majority to catch up to state standards. What advice would you give to this person?What advice would you give to a high school instructor at one of the country's poorest performing schools?
I would tell him/her to go buy the DVD of STAND %26amp; DELIVER and tell them to watch it every time they got discouraged.What advice would you give to a high school instructor at one of the country's poorest performing schools?
I would be very sorry for the situation he's in. But, I would still tell him to get the kids passionate about math and try to be very creative about the curriculum. It is possible. Tell them stories about famous mathematicians and how math made them famous. I went through that with kids teaching classic literature for a short period of time. I started by telling them how they were when they were kids and how they developed. Kids respond to that well.
Nothing. I'd tell this person I admire them and wish them well.face blush
I would tell him/her to go buy the DVD of STAND %26amp; DELIVER and tell them to watch it every time they got discouraged.What advice would you give to a high school instructor at one of the country's poorest performing schools?
I would be very sorry for the situation he's in. But, I would still tell him to get the kids passionate about math and try to be very creative about the curriculum. It is possible. Tell them stories about famous mathematicians and how math made them famous. I went through that with kids teaching classic literature for a short period of time. I started by telling them how they were when they were kids and how they developed. Kids respond to that well.
Nothing. I'd tell this person I admire them and wish them well.
What advice can you give in that particular situation ?
well, it's true that it's something like almost 2 years since I'm no longer with my ex ... but, I have a friend of mine, I'm his boss , and i always considered him a colleague in my team ...and sometimes, I used to tell him how bad my relationship was going and that I can't take it anymore ... sometimes, he was advising that this girl was a bad one for me, and that I should probably give up ...but, I notice sometimes after the relationship, ..he was like keep asking me for my ex, if she's fine , do you still talk to her, is it really now over between you ..etc ... even after those years ... Recently I noticed he stealed her email from my address book and add her in his ...I think he was having an eye on her ... I knew that a bit ..But I saw him add her in his skype contact list, it's not that I care a lot, but I feel betrayed as he was someone I considered my friend and a good partner ...Well, do you think I should tell him that I'm not happy about that or just keep it for me for an appropriate time ... I don't know if you see my point ...! what can you advise me ?What advice can you give in that particular situation ?
cut his dick off and shove it up his ars hole.
Or
Who cares? let him have soiled material, concentrate on better girls.What advice can you give in that particular situation ?
Sounds like this ';friend'; of yours is interested in your ex. You should ask him what he was doing with your address book. If you don't it will bug you.
thats bad! how long were you with her? he is meant to be your mate and he never should have done that! do you think he liked her whole time n was hoping you 2 would break up? if so id confront him he had no right. although in a way neither do you coz shes single now n your not with her but as a mate and considering you went to him he should leave her alone for you sake. do you want her back? and did you think she was bad for you? do you still talk to her then? if your still really close to her or you were he was probs just waiting for hes chance. if tht was my mate id go mental! and he never should have gone through your address book thats invading your personal stuff
pray over your hurt feelings and just let them be. he entered her life when you were already the ex.
Ex wife or ex girlfriend? Really there's a difference. Your friend is not really a friend. If the girl was no good then he's dumb for trying to hook it up. But if you still have feelings for her you should ask him what his motive is. Homeboys before ho's - that's the law!!!
cut his dick off and shove it up his ars hole.
Or
Who cares? let him have soiled material, concentrate on better girls.What advice can you give in that particular situation ?
Sounds like this ';friend'; of yours is interested in your ex. You should ask him what he was doing with your address book. If you don't it will bug you.
thats bad! how long were you with her? he is meant to be your mate and he never should have done that! do you think he liked her whole time n was hoping you 2 would break up? if so id confront him he had no right. although in a way neither do you coz shes single now n your not with her but as a mate and considering you went to him he should leave her alone for you sake. do you want her back? and did you think she was bad for you? do you still talk to her then? if your still really close to her or you were he was probs just waiting for hes chance. if tht was my mate id go mental! and he never should have gone through your address book thats invading your personal stuff
pray over your hurt feelings and just let them be. he entered her life when you were already the ex.
Ex wife or ex girlfriend? Really there's a difference. Your friend is not really a friend. If the girl was no good then he's dumb for trying to hook it up. But if you still have feelings for her you should ask him what his motive is. Homeboys before ho's - that's the law!!!
Thursday, July 29, 2010
What advice can you offer me?
I am very good friends with a husband %26amp; wife, %26amp; Daughter %26amp; boyfriend. But at times I get little slams thrown at me by both women
they make remarks like, oh you can have my husband if you want him, or the same with the boyfriend ****. Yes I am very close with both of the men we all talk about a lot of stuff, they confied in me and as well as the women confied in me and I never go to each other and say what one says about the other. But when I said something to my friends husband about his daughter making a remark the other day to me saying she asked her boyfriend if he had a thing for me. It made me a little uncomfortable, So the mother calls me and says oh its just a joke. Cant you take a joke she says. Why are both of them so jealous of me? Thats the way I feel they are. Are these things to joke around with people?What advice can you offer me?
No, unless you are opening a pandoras box to temptation.What advice can you offer me?
I think there might be a tad bit of jealously, but I think mostly they are paranoid because they both have a partner, and you don't, so they don't want anything drastic to happen that would ruin everyones friendships, I mean if you were friends with the guys before the women then that would be understandable but it does seem kind of weird that your really close to the husband and the boyfriend, so you don't jepordize your friendship with the wife %26amp; daughter, I'd back off from hanging out with the husband/boyfriend unless you have a partner too, then all of you can go out on dates together.
Friends will always be there, silly guys won't.
:)
Just it take it lightly, it will help. Taking things seriously, which are beyond your control, does not help.
Remember, in every joke there is a bit of truth. When they make comments like, you can have him, or similar statements I believe it is more about ridiculing their mate or bf than it is about you. Some people feel they have to ridicule the person they're with in order to look good to everyone else around. Be careful and observant.
they make remarks like, oh you can have my husband if you want him, or the same with the boyfriend ****. Yes I am very close with both of the men we all talk about a lot of stuff, they confied in me and as well as the women confied in me and I never go to each other and say what one says about the other. But when I said something to my friends husband about his daughter making a remark the other day to me saying she asked her boyfriend if he had a thing for me. It made me a little uncomfortable, So the mother calls me and says oh its just a joke. Cant you take a joke she says. Why are both of them so jealous of me? Thats the way I feel they are. Are these things to joke around with people?What advice can you offer me?
No, unless you are opening a pandoras box to temptation.What advice can you offer me?
I think there might be a tad bit of jealously, but I think mostly they are paranoid because they both have a partner, and you don't, so they don't want anything drastic to happen that would ruin everyones friendships, I mean if you were friends with the guys before the women then that would be understandable but it does seem kind of weird that your really close to the husband and the boyfriend, so you don't jepordize your friendship with the wife %26amp; daughter, I'd back off from hanging out with the husband/boyfriend unless you have a partner too, then all of you can go out on dates together.
Friends will always be there, silly guys won't.
:)
Just it take it lightly, it will help. Taking things seriously, which are beyond your control, does not help.
Remember, in every joke there is a bit of truth. When they make comments like, you can have him, or similar statements I believe it is more about ridiculing their mate or bf than it is about you. Some people feel they have to ridicule the person they're with in order to look good to everyone else around. Be careful and observant.
Male advice!!!!ladies you might be a help to.......?
if you red my previous question you probaly would know who i am refering to{look in my questuons.. its still open}
i told my bofriend what happen and he freaked.. He yelled and screamed and went crazy... he said i wasn't worth anything and i was untruthful and a slut.... he storme out and i sat there tears coming down my face... my best freind has been blowing up my phone but i really don't want to talk to him... Im confused i thought getting out of this relationship would lift a burden and relieve me... but know all i feel is heart ache pain and stress.... I saw himand whenhe looked at me it was like i disgusted him and he didn't even say one word top me.. i feel so bad and didn't want it to happen like this..... Did i make a bad decision...... Need Advice!!!!Male advice!!!!ladies you might be a help to.......?
When you are with a boyfriend, and you kiss someone else, I would say that you really didn't love the boyfriend. When you love someone, you would do nothing to hurt them. I say move on, and don't make any more drama, where there doesn't need to be any. I am sure that if he really does care, it can be worked out, if he doesn't then you are free to meet someone else, because the other one probably doesn't mean that much to you either. Stop seeing anybody for a month and see where your heart really leads you.
i told my bofriend what happen and he freaked.. He yelled and screamed and went crazy... he said i wasn't worth anything and i was untruthful and a slut.... he storme out and i sat there tears coming down my face... my best freind has been blowing up my phone but i really don't want to talk to him... Im confused i thought getting out of this relationship would lift a burden and relieve me... but know all i feel is heart ache pain and stress.... I saw himand whenhe looked at me it was like i disgusted him and he didn't even say one word top me.. i feel so bad and didn't want it to happen like this..... Did i make a bad decision...... Need Advice!!!!Male advice!!!!ladies you might be a help to.......?
When you are with a boyfriend, and you kiss someone else, I would say that you really didn't love the boyfriend. When you love someone, you would do nothing to hurt them. I say move on, and don't make any more drama, where there doesn't need to be any. I am sure that if he really does care, it can be worked out, if he doesn't then you are free to meet someone else, because the other one probably doesn't mean that much to you either. Stop seeing anybody for a month and see where your heart really leads you.
What advice would you give to this girl...?
This girl wants my boyfriend. I'm not worried about him cheating on me, I'm just worried about what she will try to get him. I've never even met her, and so far it's been attacks on me (ex. her facebook status says ';I just want him to notice that she isn't as great as he thinks she is, but as long as I'm his little pal it's okay for a little while';).
Situation: She likes this guy who has a girlfriend, and although she doesn't know his girlfriend, she's been attacking her. You don't want her to get hurt.
If you knew only this girl, and not me, what advice would you give her?What advice would you give to this girl...?
she better back the f**k off.
i would tell her to move on and not even try.
What advice would you give to this girl...?
If the guy really likes you then you don't need to do anything but be yourself. There is a reason the guy is with you and not her!! Don't change who you are especially by trying to get 'revenge' on this girl Be happy he's with you.... and relish in that fact. It's great that you aren't worried about him cheating on you....as long as you trust him...you don't need to do anything!!! Sounds like she is only digging herself into a hole!! Let her do it alone!
to back off
i'd tell her to back off, What makes her think she is special enough for him to want her more? What does she think she can offer him that he hasn't got already? I think you have nothing to worry about, if he was going to drift he'd have done it by now, Don't tell him he can't continue to have her as a friend cuz this'll just show him how insecure you feel and that you don't trust him (a real turn off!) as much as it does your head in her being this way, leave her to it, she'll soon get bored and set her sights on someone else, it's a case of wanting what she knows she can't have and this makes your guy all the more appealing to her but it'll soon fizzle out and she'll realize what a tit she's been, if your fella does leave you for her then this is who he is anyway and nothing you could've done would stop him from leaving you for her, Play it cool and show people this bunny boiler doesn't even faze ya! Good luck ; ) I'd tell her she is a saddo and needs to get a life and BF of her own loolz
she needs to chill out. trying to geet someone else's bf is LAME.
but glad you can trust ur bf not to cheat. those guys are hard to find these days. best of luck to u
Situation: She likes this guy who has a girlfriend, and although she doesn't know his girlfriend, she's been attacking her. You don't want her to get hurt.
If you knew only this girl, and not me, what advice would you give her?What advice would you give to this girl...?
she better back the f**k off.
i would tell her to move on and not even try.
What advice would you give to this girl...?
If the guy really likes you then you don't need to do anything but be yourself. There is a reason the guy is with you and not her!! Don't change who you are especially by trying to get 'revenge' on this girl Be happy he's with you.... and relish in that fact. It's great that you aren't worried about him cheating on you....as long as you trust him...you don't need to do anything!!! Sounds like she is only digging herself into a hole!! Let her do it alone!
to back off
i'd tell her to back off, What makes her think she is special enough for him to want her more? What does she think she can offer him that he hasn't got already? I think you have nothing to worry about, if he was going to drift he'd have done it by now, Don't tell him he can't continue to have her as a friend cuz this'll just show him how insecure you feel and that you don't trust him (a real turn off!) as much as it does your head in her being this way, leave her to it, she'll soon get bored and set her sights on someone else, it's a case of wanting what she knows she can't have and this makes your guy all the more appealing to her but it'll soon fizzle out and she'll realize what a tit she's been, if your fella does leave you for her then this is who he is anyway and nothing you could've done would stop him from leaving you for her, Play it cool and show people this bunny boiler doesn't even faze ya! Good luck ; ) I'd tell her she is a saddo and needs to get a life and BF of her own loolz
she needs to chill out. trying to geet someone else's bf is LAME.
but glad you can trust ur bf not to cheat. those guys are hard to find these days. best of luck to u
Need advice from you intuitive ladies?
I met a woman online. We chatted online for like a week and a half, almost every day. Finally we met in person and talked for about an hour. I thought it went well. She messaged me over facebook again. then finally we talked on the phone, and, as I am quite the rambler, it ended up being a 3 and a half hour conversation. It was a conversation, not just me talking the whole time. But I think I scared her off because she won't return my texts, emails, or facebook messages. I retrace the whole conversation in my head and can't figure out what I must have said to scare her off.
Then, on the flipside, perhaps she feels uncomfortable because she realized she gave too much information too, like maybe I did.
She texted me, inviting me to call her. So it wasn't really me initiating the phone call, or was it?
Still, the fact that I kept talking with her for 3 and a half hours on the first conversation, probably scared her off, right? But if she wanted to go earlier, wouldn't she have interuppted me and said she had to go?
So, the advice I am asking is, should I contact her after a few days from now? The phone conversation was on monday.
Or is the ball in her court. She is the one who initially contacted me. So should I just wait for her? And if she doesn't respond, then I will let it go and not contact her again? Or what?
That's why I'm only asking you intuitive women. I'm not asking flirtatious, forward, or loose women. Thank you.Need advice from you intuitive ladies?
Wait about another week and if you still haven't heard from her, facebook message her and say, ';hey, haven't heard from you lately. hope you're doing well! Let me know if you have time to chat tonight.';
Then she will either write you yes or no or not at all. No worries like you came on too strong, she is a grown woman (I assume) and could have said, ';gotta go'; and if it was a two sided conversation it wasn't all you.Need advice from you intuitive ladies?
Its not the amount of time you talk for on the phone that scared her off, its probably WHAT you talked to her about.
Did you say anything about your future? Or perhaps strange habits you have? Its things like that that usually scare off a woman %26amp; has happened to me a couple of time...However, if you do think you were exceptionally normal on the phone leave her a message asking her if you did anything wrong. This ALWAYS makes us feel guilty and we call right back and hopefully she'll explain herself...
although if you are not willing to do that i guess you could just wait and see, i mean she might be extremely busy or something....
good luck!
Then, on the flipside, perhaps she feels uncomfortable because she realized she gave too much information too, like maybe I did.
She texted me, inviting me to call her. So it wasn't really me initiating the phone call, or was it?
Still, the fact that I kept talking with her for 3 and a half hours on the first conversation, probably scared her off, right? But if she wanted to go earlier, wouldn't she have interuppted me and said she had to go?
So, the advice I am asking is, should I contact her after a few days from now? The phone conversation was on monday.
Or is the ball in her court. She is the one who initially contacted me. So should I just wait for her? And if she doesn't respond, then I will let it go and not contact her again? Or what?
That's why I'm only asking you intuitive women. I'm not asking flirtatious, forward, or loose women. Thank you.Need advice from you intuitive ladies?
Wait about another week and if you still haven't heard from her, facebook message her and say, ';hey, haven't heard from you lately. hope you're doing well! Let me know if you have time to chat tonight.';
Then she will either write you yes or no or not at all. No worries like you came on too strong, she is a grown woman (I assume) and could have said, ';gotta go'; and if it was a two sided conversation it wasn't all you.Need advice from you intuitive ladies?
Its not the amount of time you talk for on the phone that scared her off, its probably WHAT you talked to her about.
Did you say anything about your future? Or perhaps strange habits you have? Its things like that that usually scare off a woman %26amp; has happened to me a couple of time...However, if you do think you were exceptionally normal on the phone leave her a message asking her if you did anything wrong. This ALWAYS makes us feel guilty and we call right back and hopefully she'll explain herself...
although if you are not willing to do that i guess you could just wait and see, i mean she might be extremely busy or something....
good luck!
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