Guy advice....do you think this is a good idea?

ive seen him everyday at school for the past two weeks, hes only in 1 of my lessons, and now he talks to me on msn and stuff...he got a job at a small music shop, he doesnt know i know where it is tho..and so i was thinking seeing as i need to go to the shop anyway to get some music books i could go in there and be like oh heyy, didnt know this was where your working now, hows it going and stuff, making up small chat then ask what hes doing tomorow and give him my number..


but i dont want to seem so stalkerish so any advice on what other tihngs i could do?Guy advice....do you think this is a good idea?
that would be fine. I am sure he would get the hint that you are interested in him..We aren't stupid you know..Guy advice....do you think this is a good idea?
ya go and talk 2 him dont look at him 2 much cuz then he will know, just be surprised when u see him then talk 2 and be like wuts ur plans for 2 him morrow? then say wuts ur number and ya.
That's seems like a good idea, but I don't know about giving him your number at the end, because that does sound kinda stalkerish. Maybe he will ask you for your number.
bumping into him is a really good idea to get to know each other because indirectly your sharing intrests, both into music. I would just get to know him for a few more days and ask him out in maybe another week or so. If you go there and ask straight away it might be too forward, let is blossom a bit and develop into a secure bond. And also if he starts conversations with you on msn thats a good sign =]





best of luck
yeah sure... just get the books and everything, and make sure you're ready to leave when you're done talking.








and make it a QUICK chat.
Be on the phone with one of your girlfriends as you walk in there and don't even look towards the counter or where-ever he will be. Just keep chatting away and laughing and he will surely notice you first. Then with your back to him, finish your call and start paying attention for what you're looking for I'm sure he will chat to you first as there is no way he wouldn't notice you, especially as it is a small store. Then you can go ahead and say what you have planned as that sounds fine. But this way - he should make the first step and you can pretend you didn't even notice him, let alone knew that he worked there.


Good Luck! =D
my advice would be to never make up a plan for asking someone out. just do it. but as far as plans go, that ones pretty solid. one thing i would change tho is to go to the shop, get ur stuff, and just say ';hey, ive been meaning to ask you if youd go out with me.'; dont make small talk, small talk sucks.
If there is no way possible that he knows, you know. Then yes go for it! but beware he might be busy or he might feel a little embarrassed too. And don't get him in trouble. But when you get there don't go looking for him. First really look for what your their for and then chat with him before checking out. Or ask him for help on finding something. good luck, and have fun
i dont think this is stalkerish..as long as you're not a bad liar! cause it all depends on the way you say it i guess. but instead you could just ask him on msn about his work..and unless you never flirt with him at all, you could say something like, ';maybe i'll come and see you sometime!'; or ';i need some books from there..hopefully when you're working.'; unless thats coming off too strong.


i say, only give him your number if it seems like he likes you. otherwise, it could seem kinda weird from his point of view.
You are on the right track. Don't emphasize that you didn't know where he worked, Let it have a little magic.
ok well i dont think u shud do that yet. so first u just gotta be cool with him. kinda be small talk with him in ur 1 lesson. then after a little while kinda go into his shop and get ur books that u need and dont give him ur number kuz that seems too s***ish. when ur walking out the door u have to LIGHTLY take control of him and give him a smile and the girl wave that u do and just make him smile at that. then after a couple days of talkin and all u have to decide wether he likes u more than a friend. guys hate it when they figure out that a girl likes them and they r just cool friends so beware but u gotta ask him eventually!