Ok girls please answer... i could really use your advice, what would you like to hear?

Ok my GF seems a little stressed out lately and im gana call and ask if shes ok but how do i say it without making it seam like she has a problem if you get what im saying? also if shes like no im fine or something what should i say other than ';good i just wanted to make sure just in case';


im a little OCD about stuff like this and i just want to do it right... suggestions?Ok girls please answer... i could really use your advice, what would you like to hear?
call her and tell her that you were thinking about her and just wanted to call and see how things were going. then ask her how her day is going? that should get her talking. if not simply say that you feel like she is a little stressd and is there something that you can help with. if she says she is fine, tell her 'i know you are fine' but i want you to know that if you need a sounding board i am here to listen. then quickly change the topic to something else. if she wants to talk then she will bring it up on her terms. while all along you have let her know that you are there for her.Ok girls please answer... i could really use your advice, what would you like to hear?
You should just ask her if she has been feeling a bit stressed. Tell her you noticed that she seemed stressed and if there was anything you could do to make her feel better.





If she says no, just make sure that she's ok and change the subject to something that will bring a smile to her face.
'; hey how are you doing on this beautiful day';... ';you know i saw a dead bird today gosh it was amazing lol'; '; well so whatca been up to pretty lady';...girl:talks talks talks *SOB* omg no im coming to rescue you...





basically just joker around to make her day better rather than divulging in her problems and make them seem like they are PROBLEMS!!





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dont bring it up directly like saying 'so why are you stressed lately'





do it indirectly, by for example reversing the situatoin and bringing up the topic by saying 'IM stressed out lately' then she will most likely tell you how she feels back