Hi, I'm just going to tell you a bit about me first. I'm 15 and a Sophomore in high school. I don't have many friends because I moved states to live with my dad...I've also had troubles making friends despite of it, because I'm reserved and more serious about school than socializing (not like most ppl, trust me).
Now for the problem, I'm not going to lie, I do believe I am somewhat attractive. Although I have acne breakouts sometimes, and I'm going through a bad haircut stage, I still get asked out. But every guy that's wanted to hook up with me since I moved here looses interest after getting to know me. Like 3 guys have done this to me already. It's like they expect something from me that I'm just not bringing to the table. Maybe It's because I look and dress like one of those popular kids, but I'm really a nerd and a loner on the inside? It's kind of depressing, but I'm trying not to dwell on it... It never used to be like this, I had a boyfriend before, but I broke up with him when I moved because I don't believe in long term relationships.
Anyway...Any words of advice? I'm desperately lonely, and I want the guy that I'm interested in now to stay interested in me. How do I be flirty, but subtle, and how do I become more confident in myself? How do I keep things fun and INTERESTING? I suck at that for some reason.I need some good quality advice? Can you relate to this?
Well I think everything you're going through with these guys is normal. There are always the good and the bad ones. Right now, it just seems you're getting the bad ones. You are fine the way you are. As far as YOU not being interesting, i'm sure you are, you are probably just not ';clicking'; with the right person. Keep dating and keep searching for someone that will be interesting with you. You can def find that right guy.
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