I just want to get advice for you ladies out there?

I am in love with this girl, and everything went well. Except for the fact that we weren't together. I talked to her all day on Aim, try talking to her at school, and joke around with her too, but one mistake i made was to tell her friend that I like her. Rumors started, and this stupid *** kid told her that I like her. I didn't mind rumors spreading around the school, because they know better than telling the girl herself. I was planning to get really close with her first, and I will ask her out once I am close to her. However, this kid told her the truth, and now she doesn't talk to me. She doesn't hate me, but it looks like she is avoiding me. I tried explain everything to her, but she always have an excuse like homework. It has been only three days since I've talked to her, but it felt as if years passed.





Just today at school, I was a class clown and stuff, and I cracked a joke. Everyone laughed. I looked back to her face. She just looked away. I am afraid she might not like me, or she is scared of me because of that stupid kid who told her.





There is this other guy who is going after her. He is a what ten year kids calls a ';loser'; or a ';******'; in our school. This guy once got jumped by this short kid for making fun of him and messing with his girlfriend, and now he is dong that to me. That girl's best friend who also is my best friend told me that he was messing with her around lunch and touching her. That guy think he is some sort of player or something. He is good at nothing. Nope nothing, not sports, not school, not personality, not funny, and definitely not good looking. She is too nice to leave anyone out.





So here is my question guys, sorry for all the details. I just love her too much.


Why might she be thinking? What should I do to get her back?I just want to get advice for you ladies out there?
it depends what did the boy say to her? and plus... be honst if you really love her tell her that. tell her its ok if she doesnt so she doesnt feel pressured. but tell her you still want to be friends. hope this helpssI just want to get advice for you ladies out there?
I think you should let her go for a little while so she can figure things out. then get close to her. she is avoiding you because she doe not want to lead you on. Just do not let that kid get to you because it does not seem like she would ever date him.
Ok first if someone told her you LOVED her she's probably freaked out. I would be. Just wait spread yourself around talk to other girls. If she sees that you might have moved on she might grow more comfortable around you. And hey if this guy is as big of a jerk as you make him out to be, she'll find that out. But let her experience it. Don't try and stop stuff or anything cuz really unless your a parent we don't like ppl ttelin how to live our lives and who not to like. Just wait and be patient. Don't force things with her you'll only push her farther away.
Maybe she just doesn't think of u the way u think of her...


she might just want u to be a close guy friend


but then


she felt things got awkward when she heard you liked her


and


no


you don't love her
No, you do NOT love her.
You don't love her. Get over her.
you dont love her.


you never had her in the first place.


calm down and take a few steps back,


just talk to her.