How do you feel parents advice with your mate.?

Why is that parents always have somthing to say about the person you are dating and in a realtionship with you. When you was young the advice was good and you learn from your mistakes. Now that you have a good man and he take care of you and your child very good. They still have inputs. Some people might think i am wrong but i keep my parents out of my realtionship. What's your opinionHow do you feel parents advice with your mate.?
They obviously can have all the ';input'; they feel like sharing. As an adult, you don't have to follow it, however. Listen to it all. Take it under advisement. If it's workable advice, then follow it if you so desire, or not......it's up to you.How do you feel parents advice with your mate.?
It's your relationships you need to worry about. If your parents are not important to you, then keep blowing them off.


It seems this is the case. Just don't 'burn that bridge'. When you start having children, they will want to be a part of their grandchild's life, and rightfully so. Disapproving parents have a way of suddenly accepting things when a grandchild is born.


Remember, your family came before your boyfriend.
good job


its ur life





tell ur parents ur n adult now
Well don't push your parents away ..just hear what they have to say to keep them happy as long as you hear them out things would be better..but I'm a mom as well and to this day my daughter has gone through alot of guys and still is not married..and yes you make all the mistakes..but look at it this way..if you have said something to them about this guy and they feel he is not good it is for a good reason..My daughter will call me and tell me what has happen and then after a week or so when i point out what i think she doesn't like it..so i'll tell you this don't say anything if you don't want a answer from them..your mom and dad have a good heart..and if something happens to you and the kids who will be there for you..they will not your to guy your with..if your not married to this guy and if you do..thing do change. My ex sweet talked me until we got married and then things chanced..he mood was different and it was not the same..so they are only looking out for you..
I thought it was good to have parents know about your relationship with your partner but learnt the hard way that is not a good idea.





They will always see something because they want the best for you even when you think you do have the best already.





That is normal but the less they know the better; trust a friend, or a family member who will not bud in either.





Unless your parents do not meddle into it then is not so bad; some parents are that way but most of them will always have something to say.
Thats good.